Beware of Precious!

I am a crypto trader who also works as a surveyor for a civil engineering firm on the Island. I have been in a relationship with Precious for the past two months, and now I am starting to have serious doubts about the concept of "love at first sight."

Precious is well aware of my monthly earnings, which amount to 400,000 naira from the civil engineering firm and an additional $2,000 from cryptocurrency trading. I live in a comfortable, well-furnished apartment that costs 500,000 naira per annum.

However, what troubles me is the way I spend my hard-earned money on extravagant nights out at Lagos clubs. I engage in wild spending, buying expensive drinks and getting hyped by the club's announcers while the crowd cheers my name.

Last month, Precious decided to join me at the club and witnessed the reckless way I squandered my thirty days' worth of salary and crypto earnings in just one night. Little did I know that she was observing closely and had plans of her own.

To my surprise, last week, I discovered that Precious had transferred 600,000 naira from my account to invest in a new app called nVAULT that promises 18% profit annually. She had enrolled me in their "extraordinary savers" program, locking my funds for a whole year. I couldn't believe that my girlfriend of just two months would make such a significant financial decision on my behalf.

Further investigation revealed that Precious had developed a habit of investing not just for herself but also for her sister's education, opening a "N500 savings" account for her.

I am devastated and uncertain about how to approach this situation. My heart aches, and the lyrics of the TikTok song "Ehhhh! Preciousss!" keep playing in my mind, reminding me of the gravity of the situation.

I need advice and guidance on what to do about Precious. This predicament has left me with tears in my eyes, seeking help to navigate these troubling financial waters.