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Good day Nairalanders. Over the past few years, I've noticed something about myself when it comes to dating and relationships. It's a pattern that has left me feeling confused and wanting to change. I'm sharing this story to understand it better and seek advice.

Here's how it usually goes: I meet a woman, and there's something about her that I find really attractive, both physically and personality-wise. We start talking, and I genuinely enjoy our conversations. It feels like we're building a connection, and I can tell she's growing fond of me too. But then, after a few weeks, something changes within me.

Suddenly, I start to lose interest. I can't explain it, but it's like the initial spark fades away. I find myself pulling away, leaving the woman feeling hurt and confused. I know it's not her fault; she's done nothing wrong. Yet, I can't seem to stop this cycle from happening.

This whole situation has been bothering me for a while. I've been asking myself questions like, am I afraid of commitment? Is there something deeper going on with me emotionally? Or is it that my initial attraction just isn't lasting?

I don't want to keep hurting people unintentionally, and I want to change. So, I've decided to share my story here in the hope of finding answers or advice from others who might have gone through something similar. I believe that by understanding myself better and learning from others, I can grow and build more meaningful relationships. I would appreciate any insights or guidance you may have to offer. Thanks in anticipation

Charlex23:
Good day Nairalanders. Over the past few years, I've noticed something about myself when it comes to dating and relationships. It's a pattern that has left me feeling confused and wanting to change. I'm sharing this story to understand it better and seek advice.

Here's how it usually goes: I meet a woman, and there's something about her that I find really attractive, both physically and personality-wise. We start talking, and I genuinely enjoy our conversations. It feels like we're building a connection, and I can tell she's growing fond of me too. But then, after a few weeks, something changes within me.

Suddenly, I start to lose interest. I can't explain it, but it's like the initial spark fades away. I find myself pulling away, leaving the woman feeling hurt and confused. I know it's not her fault; she's done nothing wrong. Yet, I can't seem to stop this cycle from happening.

This whole situation has been bothering me for a while. I've been asking myself questions like, am I afraid of commitment? Is there something deeper going on with me emotionally? Or is it that my initial attraction just isn't lasting?

I don't want to keep hurting people unintentionally, and I want to change. So, I've decided to share my story here in the hope of finding answers or advice from others who might have gone through something similar. I believe that by understanding myself better and learning from others, I can grow and build more meaningful relationships. I would appreciate any insights or guidance you may have to offer. Thanks in anticipation

love yourself first.......

Charlex23:
Good day Nairalanders. Over the past few years, I've noticed something about myself when it comes to dating and relationships. It's a pattern that has left me feeling confused and wanting to change. I'm sharing this story to understand it better and seek advice.

Here's how it usually goes: I meet a woman, and there's something about her that I find really attractive, both physically and personality-wise. We start talking, and I genuinely enjoy our conversations. It feels like we're building a connection, and I can tell she's growing fond of me too. But then, after a few weeks, something changes within me.

Suddenly, I start to lose interest. I can't explain it, but it's like the initial spark fades away. I find myself pulling away, leaving the woman feeling hurt and confused. I know it's not her fault; she's done nothing wrong. Yet, I can't seem to stop this cycle from happening.

This whole situation has been bothering me for a while. I've been asking myself questions like, am I afraid of commitment? Is there something deeper going on with me emotionally? Or is it that my initial attraction just isn't lasting?

I don't want to keep hurting people unintentionally, and I want to change. So, I've decided to share my story here in the hope of finding answers or advice from others who might have gone through something similar. I believe that by understanding myself better and learning from others, I can grow and build more meaningful relationships. I would appreciate any insights or guidance you may have to offer. Thanks in anticipation

I have this problem,my own is a little worse than yours because,after I collect number ,most times.thats the end.i wont call or chat.Maybe you are someone that cant be impressed easily like me.you need to put in more effort like,seeing the girl everyday,chatting everyday and calling everyday to create a strong bond.you need more effort.are you depressed or an introvert?introvert sabi do am well too