After seeing what has happened to Mendy, Greenwood and Atony getting close to opposite sex in my place of work is bcoming scary this days. Infact, as a choir director in my local church i've done very well by not being close to any of them to avoid stories that touch. I know there are great nd well behaved ladies all around us but the percentage is less than the bad ones. So many pple (male nd female) don't knw how to handle breakup. I've seen a girl who after inviting her ex to her marriage was butchered into tiny pieces a week to the ceremony by the same guy, so we have to always b kful because dis life has no duplicate. If u're a man, stop taking advantage of a lady that truly loves u nd vice versa. Whatever u do in a relationship is a seed u're sowing. Always knw that real men aren't the ones that sleep with every girl they see. Real men are very disciplined when sex is involved. Don't dissipate ur virility on fortune-hunting women, promiscuous women who shipwreck leaders(prov 31:3). Never 4get that verse.

I really avoid them … am I shy of them hmm i don’t think so

Like brothers...

iamtardey:
I really avoid them … am I shy of them hmm i don’t think so

Me i avoid both ladies and children b4 someone starts saying i'm a paedophile. Dis life things don too happen so wisdom is required 4 survival.

SyrusdeHansome:


Me i avoid both ladies and children b4 someone starts saying i'm a paedophile. Dis life things don too happen so wisdom is required 4 survival.

That means you will have to avoid everyone then. Don't you think if you're also too close to guys some people with their warped reasoning might think otherwise?

I have a course mate while in school. He was very discipline. He isn't free amongst women and they respect him for his person. You will never see him having body contact either through hugg or handshake. Even we his fellow guys it has limits. We cannot see him walking in campus or on the streets with a girl and think otherwise because of level of trust and self respect he has built right from year one. He cannot decide to be running away from girls now because people already know him for who he is. And that is how he does not only in school but everywhere. That is his personality. So if you're running away from girls, will you also run away from your fellow guys to avoid some people saying something else behind you

UnfairLife7:
That means you will have to avoid everyone then. Don't you think if you're also too close to guys some people with their warped reasoning might think otherwise?

I have a course mate while in school. He was very discipline. He isn't free amongst women and they respect him for his person. You will never see him having body contact either through hugg or handshake. Even we his fellow guys it has limits. We cannot see him walking in campus or on the streets with a girl and think otherwise because of level of trust and self respect he has built right from year one. He cannot decide to be running away from girls now because people already know him for who he is. And that is how he does not only in school but everywhere. That is his personality. So if you're running away from girls, will you also run away from your fellow guys to avoid some people saying something else behind you

Great point. U made alota sense.

Keep sex and work separate. It’s not a difficult concept.

Lol... In everything we do, we should set limits... And besides, although it happens, but very uncommon let someone else harrass you if you present yourself well...
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