My office hired a new manager and as I was standing by the side doing something he came up behind me put his hand on my lower back/waist and asked “how are you doing”. At that moment all my usual fire went out of the window and I just froze up. Actually there were 3 other senior staff around who must have seen it and warned him because thereafter, he only tapped my shoulder or shoulder blades (which I dont have any problem with).

Now a couple of days ago I had my hands full again doing something and this man passed behind me, held both sides of my waist very briefly and brushed against my back.

the whole thing was over in less than 5 seconds and I didn’t even see the person until I turned my head to see him watching me from the other side of the office.

bearing in mind this is a senior boss, I don’t feel I can shout or confront as normal so I have just been giving some stern/cold attitudes and stepping out of the way in a more exaggerated way whenever he passes by me. And he has started reciprocating the awkwardness which made it easier for me.

But how realistic is this? In another thread somebody wrote that his brother tried to get his female colleagues fired for rejecting his advances and I fear something similar may happen to me.

Its so irritating. This guy says he has a girlfriend so why not go home and touch her? WTF.

Sexual harassment? Just resign cos it never stops…or. Stand up to him let him know your kind, I’m afraid you will have to kip doing that till further notice tho cos it never stops. And yes it’s most likely go that way one of you or him has to be made scapegoat…. The odds are against you but… your ball

Hmmm... My dear, it's better you start looking for another job cos it's quite embarrassing.

MrsTwrite:
Hmmm... My dear, it's better you start looking for another job cos it's quite embarrassing.

I dey tell you… it’s never gon end really.

Even me wey be man no dey like make somebody wey I no get anything with touch me...

All my awareness go wake once I perceive say someone touch me and I'll immediately be ready to defend myself ( not in a jumpy way o, but the look in my eyes most times even scare my women). Some thiefs don spoil my psyche, just one touch and many things go miss ....smh

Just let the baba know you know what he wants and you're not giving. Your keeping quiet is making our manager have hope. And if he continues after the warning, let him know you can take legal action if he doesn't stop his itchy fingers.

And all those werey recommending resignation, na wa for una o.

iamtardey:
I dey tell you… it’s never gon end really.

No be lie...

No woman in any outfit is safe from this

Somebody must want to knack her, married or not. Workplace no care..

Best is you go look for something sell ni o, if you know say you no wan do.

Many have done and climbed. That's women in high positions at all these offices take no nonsense from anyone. They prefer to have something with clients then.. My current babe is so .

iamtardey:
Sexual harassment? Just resign cos it never stops…or. Stand up to him let him know your kind, I’m afraid you will have to kip doing that till further notice tho cos it never stops. And yes it’s most likely go that way one of you or him has to be made scapegoat…. The odds are against you but… your ball

Resign? At my previous place, the manager did this same thing to me and another lady and the worst part was that he still continued even as his wife was heavily pregnant. He would miss morning session to attend his wife’s antenatals then come and disturb us…does it make sense?

I eventually lost my temper and exploded over another issue, he took offence and submitted my name for transfer with so much embarrassment which I rejected and left the job, only to enter this new snake pit again…make una help me o..where am I resigning and running to again

sunsweet33:


Resign? At my previous place, the manager did this same thing to me and another lady and the worst part was that he still continued even as his wife was heavily pregnant. He would miss morning session to attend his wife’s antenatals then come and disturb us…does it make sense?

I eventually lost my temper and exploded over another issue, he took offence and submitted my name for transfer with so much embarrassment which I rejected and left the job, only to enter this new snake pit again…make una help me o..where am I resigning and running to again

This decision isn’t hard.
Fight this harassment and either win the battle or lose your job or keep pampering it until he asks you for sex with the condition that you give him or lose your job.
The choice is yours. If your job is more important you’ll have to give in. If your dignity is more important you’ll set him up, get evidence and then take it to authorities higher than your boss’ boss.

sunsweet33:


Resign? At my previous place, the manager did this same thing to me and another lady and the worst part was that he still continued even as his wife was heavily pregnant. He would miss morning session to attend his wife’s antenatals then come and disturb us…does it make sense?

I eventually lost my temper and exploded over another issue, he took offence and submitted my name for transfer with so much embarrassment which I rejected and left the job, only to enter this new snake pit again…make una help me o..where am I resigning and running to again

oya kini solution bayi o

DominusPrime:


This decision isn’t hard.
Fight this harassment and either win the battle or lose your job or keep pampering it until he asks you for sex with the condition that you give him or lose your job.
The choice is yours. If your job is more important you’ll have to give in. If your dignity is more important you’ll set him up, get evidence and then take it to authorities higher than your boss’ boss.

WAHALA promax

sunsweet33:


Resign? At my previous place, the manager did this same thing to me and another lady and the worst part was that he still continued even as his wife was heavily pregnant. He would miss morning session to attend his wife’s antenatals then come and disturb us…does it make sense?

I eventually lost my temper and exploded over another issue, he took offence and submitted my name for transfer with so much embarrassment which I rejected and left the job, only to enter this new snake pit again…make una help me o..where am I resigning and running to again

Na to show them Waiting make foul no pee o

From what I read up there, you're the one seducing your Co-workers.
Must you always bend your waist like a mason turning cement whenever the manager is approaching
And I know you always put on skirts and gowns that are above the knee and tight to show your shapes.


Anyways to answer your question irrespective of your seduction.

You'll start behaving abnormally whenever you're with sex predators. Start doing something disgusting like picking your nose and tasting it
You can also pollute when alone with him and believe me, that perfect picture he has about fvcking your cunt hard will disappear with immediate alacrity.
You can also feel free to tell him that you want to go and poo

I have never heard that someone got fired for doing any of the above things.
And there are more I would like to add but I don't want to write too much.

You deal with it

Start Considering options outside your workplace

Keep it cool, if he makes physical advances again make it hot

Alright nice one
.
Meanwhile at a cheap price dm me for your logo and flyer design

My brother I fuuk her

ANY BASTARD TRYING TO HARRAS YOU, MALE OR OLD HAG IDIŌT FEMALE,
JUST SET THEM UP TO GET EVIDENCE!

Koba them.
Use your phones,
Use camera,
Use voice recorder etc


IT WORKS LIKE CHARM

Simple knowledge, quit.

If you are enjoying, stay

If you prefer money than yourself, don't complain

NA TO PUT SOMETHING FOR HIM TEA OOO

Only one option... Na to call these my gooms to come treat the matter their way!!!!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ex__6LcJr8E

Should this be a topic for discussion at this point in time? Considering the high cost of things, gas, fuel, transportation and food stuffs, why not come up with a topic for an alternative means of income for survival to ease the hardship effect!

Indeed Nigerian youth are lazy and bubu was right after all. Sex and Sex has blinded her youth......

Ask him what does he want from you?

Tell him, that the way he is sexually harassing me might cause him big trouble.

Talk to him politely

The sad thing is that this your randy boss may be here to condemn such act with every anger in him and even profer the best solution and steps to take, that's the hypocritical world we live in.

All of them are saint and very upright online yet we keep seeing underage girls getting pregnant everyday and all sorts of sexual harassment everywhere, maybe it's ghosts that are doing all these rubbish

This is for the ladies. Lemme listen.

Ok

🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️

Check your dressing. Flies dey always follow mango . A man who brings firewood infested with maggots into his house, should not complain when lizards starts to pay him a visit

For only women right

Hmmm, a corps member complain to me that he was sexually assaulted by his HR ( who is a female) simply because he politely turn her advances down stated that he can date a lady that's older than him ...