Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by nedu666: 7:14pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
Lies, you will not miss anything apart from family. Africa food, women, friends dey UK. |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by ebuka10box(m): 7:14pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
Truth be told ,naija is a sweet country to live in . The Government just messed everything up 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by Nairalander248: 7:14pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
Heheheh |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by Sweetvie: 7:14pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
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Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by cry07z: 7:14pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
Lol oloshos here olosho there |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by saintol(m): 7:15pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
If you want to japa, japa. If you want to stay, stay. And lastly, if you want to japada, japada. Smiling... 2 Likes |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by remsonik(f): 7:15pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
I will miss alot but will still prefer to stay there 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by toprealman: 7:16pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
MacTayyy: Afang and eba ! There are other great continental dishes that will serenade your taste buds and keep them busy till you reconnect with your old favs. The key is adjustability and flexibility. Rather than spend £12.99 on 4.5 lb Ijebu garri, switch to corn meal that will cost less in Aldi/ Sanisbury or Tesco. Try Chinese, Turkish, Indian…etc. Food plenty!!!!!! Who Afang and ewedu epp? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by ruffhandu: 7:16pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
uche87: There is no gain without pain in life. We must sacrifice something for whatever gain we make. Remember the concerted efforts made by the late pop legend, Michael Jackson, just to be able to shop in a mall in disguise. Inasmuch as relocating to the UK is a life-defining move and experience, it entails leaving behind some vital aspects of your life for better economic opportunities and a higher standard of living. These aspects will always be missed. Let's recount the interesting aspects of the Nigerian life below:
(1) Food:
You can easily get Nigerian delicacies in some cities in the UK, but that local flavour is always missing. I feel it needs the hands of the rugged women within the crude environment to get it right. For example, which Amala in the world can replace the famous Amala Skye in Ibadan?
(2) Social life:
The social life in the UK is either poor or strange to Africans. People in London are stepping it up with events but other cities are still lagging behind. Even when you organise social gatherings and send out invites, most people ignore them and pick shifts instead. This is unlike Lagos where people easily 'turn up'. Remember what singer Banky W said about social life in Lagos, "Ain't no party like the Lagos party"
(3) Women: Nigerian women are easily accessible as long as you have the money. You can easily see what Lagos socialite and other celebrities are doing with the dream women of people. Even when you are broke and you are organised as a man, you might still have your way. In contrast, the relationship market is different in the UK. It is a very conservative setting that abhors strangers. Ephemeral factors like skin colour, accent, ethnic background and visa status play key roles in who dates you.
(4) Work-life balance:
If you believe the hustle in Lagos is real, then you haven't seen the one in the UK. With the cost of living rising, I have seen people working 24 hours to make extra bucks. I once met a 48-year-old man who confided in me that he had been working 24 hours for 3 straight days. Most immigrants who set unrealistic targets for themselves end up living to work.
(5) Friendliness:
Nigerians are culturally friendly, especially if you are someone of high repute. Even when you are a nobody and you dress well, people easily get attracted to you. These people try to socialise with you. The UK will unconsciously teach you the differences of the terms; colleagues, friends and acquaintances. Most people only relate with themselves either on a professional or strictly needs basis.
(6) Church: Sunday mornings are lovely in Nigeria. People wear elegant dresses and head to church. The praise and worship session lightens your mood. It is always a moment of expression of joy. But in the UK, the roads are mostly deserted on Sunday mornings. This is because most people are nursing hangovers from the escapades on Saturday. In fact, you will doubt if the Britons actually introduced Christianity to Nigeria via Henry Townsend in 1842.
(7) Friends/Naija vibes: It is easier to get people together in Nigeria than in the UK. In Nigeria, most people do 9-5 jobs and the weekends are sacred. Over here in the UK, every day seems the same. When you are free, your friend or neighbour is fully engaged. When you are on a day shift, he might be on a night shift. With Nigerians back home 'billing' the ones in the diaspora more than Ikeja Electric, people work throughout the week to send something home.
( Weather: Nigeria has one of the best atmospheric conditions in the world. The weather is moderate and with technological devices, you can create your own comfort. In the UK, the weather is so cold and unpredictable. Most times, your sense of fashion goes out of the window. You just want to avoid being sickened by the cold, by wearing big jackets. These jackets make you look like Ninja Turtles. The weather remains more unstable than the mood of a woman seeing her period.
(9) Family Support: When you start having kids in the UK, you will value family support. It is mostly unavailable. Even when your family is here, most of them will be engaged because time is too valuable. In Nigeria, your parents, grandparents, aunties, uncles and other family members will always be available to support you. All you have to do is to grease their palms, no matter how faint the oil is. At all at all na imm bad pass.
(10) Christmas and other festivities: The Christmas Day vibe in Nigeria is second to none. People cook the best meals and share them in the neighbourhood. Visitors show up at your place for memorable times. In the UK, it is a bank holiday and some workplaces that can't afford to close, lure people to work with double pay. A greedy Nigerian will take the money and postpone the celebration for the following year. At the end of the year, all your memories might hover around depressing moments at work if care isn't taken.
Osahon George Osayimwen is a Journalist and a Psychologist. He writes from the UK. My advice, ensure one day in every week, or every two weeks, is completely free for you to sleep and rest. E get why 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by Iseoluwani: 7:16pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
i will miss nothing. abeg who get work scholarship visa |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by blacksam01: 7:17pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
this situations already sound depressing without even visiting the UK 2 Likes |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by Johnkennie(m): 7:18pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
Japa de fear me aje 2 Likes |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by paskal16: 7:19pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
I ain’t gonna miss shit 1 Like |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by OTTIDOO(f): 7:20pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
uche87: There is no gain without pain in life. We must sacrifice something for whatever gain we make. Remember the concerted efforts made by the late pop legend, Michael Jackson, just to be able to shop in a mall in disguise. Inasmuch as relocating to the UK is a life-defining move and experience, it entails leaving behind some vital aspects of your life for better economic opportunities and a higher standard of living. These aspects will always be missed. Let's recount the interesting aspects of the Nigerian life below:
(1) Food:
You can easily get Nigerian delicacies in some cities in the UK, but that local flavour is always missing. I feel it needs the hands of the rugged women within the crude environment to get it right. For example, which Amala in the world can replace the famous Amala Skye in Ibadan?
(2) Social life:
The social life in the UK is either poor or strange to Africans. People in London are stepping it up with events but other cities are still lagging behind. Even when you organise social gatherings and send out invites, most people ignore them and pick shifts instead. This is unlike Lagos where people easily 'turn up'. Remember what singer Banky W said about social life in Lagos, "Ain't no party like the Lagos party"
(3) Women: Nigerian women are easily accessible as long as you have the money. You can easily see what Lagos socialite and other celebrities are doing with the dream women of people. Even when you are broke and you are organised as a man, you might still have your way. In contrast, the relationship market is different in the UK. It is a very conservative setting that abhors strangers. Ephemeral factors like skin colour, accent, ethnic background and visa status play key roles in who dates you.
(4) Work-life balance:
If you believe the hustle in Lagos is real, then you haven't seen the one in the UK. With the cost of living rising, I have seen people working 24 hours to make extra bucks. I once met a 48-year-old man who confided in me that he had been working 24 hours for 3 straight days. Most immigrants who set unrealistic targets for themselves end up living to work.
(5) Friendliness:
Nigerians are culturally friendly, especially if you are someone of high repute. Even when you are a nobody and you dress well, people easily get attracted to you. These people try to socialise with you. The UK will unconsciously teach you the differences of the terms; colleagues, friends and acquaintances. Most people only relate with themselves either on a professional or strictly needs basis.
(6) Church: Sunday mornings are lovely in Nigeria. People wear elegant dresses and head to church. The praise and worship session lightens your mood. It is always a moment of expression of joy. But in the UK, the roads are mostly deserted on Sunday mornings. This is because most people are nursing hangovers from the escapades on Saturday. In fact, you will doubt if the Britons actually introduced Christianity to Nigeria via Henry Townsend in 1842.
(7) Friends/Naija vibes: It is easier to get people together in Nigeria than in the UK. In Nigeria, most people do 9-5 jobs and the weekends are sacred. Over here in the UK, every day seems the same. When you are free, your friend or neighbour is fully engaged. When you are on a day shift, he might be on a night shift. With Nigerians back home 'billing' the ones in the diaspora more than Ikeja Electric, people work throughout the week to send something home.
( Weather: Nigeria has one of the best atmospheric conditions in the world. The weather is moderate and with technological devices, you can create your own comfort. In the UK, the weather is so cold and unpredictable. Most times, your sense of fashion goes out of the window. You just want to avoid being sickened by the cold, by wearing big jackets. These jackets make you look like Ninja Turtles. The weather remains more unstable than the mood of a woman seeing her period.
(9) Family Support: When you start having kids in the UK, you will value family support. It is mostly unavailable. Even when your family is here, most of them will be engaged because time is too valuable. In Nigeria, your parents, grandparents, aunties, uncles and other family members will always be available to support you. All you have to do is to grease their palms, no matter how faint the oil is. At all at all na imm bad pass.
(10) Christmas and other festivities: The Christmas Day vibe in Nigeria is second to none. People cook the best meals and share them in the neighbourhood. Visitors show up at your place for memorable times. In the UK, it is a bank holiday and some workplaces that can't afford to close, lure people to work with double pay. A greedy Nigerian will take the money and postpone the celebration for the following year. At the end of the year, all your memories might hover around depressing moments at work if care isn't taken.
Osahon George Osayimwen is a Journalist and a Psychologist. He writes from the UK. Nice piece My fellow Psychologist 👍 3 Likes |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by ThiefnubuBandit(f): 7:20pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
Who wants to miss hell? Nothing to miss. 1 Like |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by Papayaayasager(m): 7:22pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
I still want to Japa you can't down my spirit when we get to the bridge we will cross under it. 1 Like |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by Ajsmart(m): 7:24pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
I’ve been telling the simple-minded Africans that the British people who introduced Africans to Christianity don’t believe in it themselves. They only used it to control the southern population of Nigeria where the natural resources can be found.
They also used it as a means to have us trust them and see them as godly, friendly and forgiving which enabled them to create a subservient and docile population of natives to trade with. In reality, they’ are polar opposites of those virtues.
In addition, religion was used to divide and conquer which is still in operation till tomorrow. If they truly believe in Christianity and deemed it valuable to their earthly and afterlife, there is no way in hell they would have introduced it for FREE to the Africans. Oyinbos will NEVER, EVER, EVER share anything important with black people!
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(6) Church: Sunday mornings are lovely in Nigeria. People wear elegant dresses and head to church. The praise and worship session lightens your mood. It is always a moment of expression of joy. But in the UK, the roads are mostly deserted on Sunday mornings. This is because most people are nursing hangovers from the escapades on Saturday. In fact, you will doubt if the Britons actually introduced Christianity to Nigeria via Henry Townsend in 1842.
(7) Friends/Naija vibes: It is easier to get people together in Nigeria than in the UK. In Nigeria, most people do 9-5 jobs and the weekends are sacred. Over here in the UK, every day seems the same. When you are free, your friend or neighbour is fully engaged. When you are on a day shift, he might be on a night shift. With Nigerians back home 'billing' the ones in the diaspora more than Ikeja Electric, people work throughout the week to send something home. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by EKONGKING: 7:24pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
rezy15:
You forgot the most important: In Nigeria you can piss anywhere Bro , i have the heard the same thing an Indian said about India also .Still there country is developing better than Nigeria , its a sad pity about our state of affairs . |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by kenton(m): 7:24pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
Aptly put your together and very well captured. This is not far from the truth and the reality of the average Nigerian in the UK. 2 Likes |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by Fatbam005: 7:25pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
This shows the vanity of life. No Satisfaction in this temporary world. 2 Likes |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by tensazangetsu20(m): 7:25pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
Lol aside food, easy pussy and family, I miss nothing from Nigeria. |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by FashionCookie(f): 7:25pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
E ti bere Ogini kwa nu? |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by jara: 7:29pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
There is more to food than satisfying the belly. A basic necessity if you are poor.
Food also has social fulfillment in Naija you cannot find anywhere.
Foreign olosho, be careful. Some young football players from the States were accused of rape in Canada over paying more when she found out they were highly paid. It can rarely happen in Nigeria.
All others factors listed are recommended by phycologists for long life. You cannot beat Nigeria after satisfying and learning your lessons abroad. 1 Like |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by casppyjay: 7:30pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
uche87: There is no gain without pain in life. We must sacrifice something for whatever gain we make. Remember the concerted efforts made by the late pop legend, Michael Jackson, just to be able to shop in a mall in disguise. Inasmuch as relocating to the UK is a life-defining move and experience, it entails leaving behind some vital aspects of your life for better economic opportunities and a higher standard of living. These aspects will always be missed. Let's recount the interesting aspects of the Nigerian life below:
(1) Food:
You can easily get Nigerian delicacies in some cities in the UK, but that local flavour is always missing. I feel it needs the hands of the rugged women within the crude environment to get it right. For example, which Amala in the world can replace the famous Amala Skye in Ibadan?
(2) Social life:
The social life in the UK is either poor or strange to Africans. People in London are stepping it up with events but other cities are still lagging behind. Even when you organise social gatherings and send out invites, most people ignore them and pick shifts instead. This is unlike Lagos where people easily 'turn up'. Remember what singer Banky W said about social life in Lagos, "Ain't no party like the Lagos party"
(3) Women: Nigerian women are easily accessible as long as you have the money. You can easily see what Lagos socialite and other celebrities are doing with the dream women of people. Even when you are broke and you are organised as a man, you might still have your way. In contrast, the relationship market is different in the UK. It is a very conservative setting that abhors strangers. Ephemeral factors like skin colour, accent, ethnic background and visa status play key roles in who dates you.
(4) Work-life balance:
If you believe the hustle in Lagos is real, then you haven't seen the one in the UK. With the cost of living rising, I have seen people working 24 hours to make extra bucks. I once met a 48-year-old man who confided in me that he had been working 24 hours for 3 straight days. Most immigrants who set unrealistic targets for themselves end up living to work.
(5) Friendliness:
Nigerians are culturally friendly, especially if you are someone of high repute. Even when you are a nobody and you dress well, people easily get attracted to you. These people try to socialise with you. The UK will unconsciously teach you the differences of the terms; colleagues, friends and acquaintances. Most people only relate with themselves either on a professional or strictly needs basis.
(6) Church: Sunday mornings are lovely in Nigeria. People wear elegant dresses and head to church. The praise and worship session lightens your mood. It is always a moment of expression of joy. But in the UK, the roads are mostly deserted on Sunday mornings. This is because most people are nursing hangovers from the escapades on Saturday. In fact, you will doubt if the Britons actually introduced Christianity to Nigeria via Henry Townsend in 1842.
(7) Friends/Naija vibes: It is easier to get people together in Nigeria than in the UK. In Nigeria, most people do 9-5 jobs and the weekends are sacred. Over here in the UK, every day seems the same. When you are free, your friend or neighbour is fully engaged. When you are on a day shift, he might be on a night shift. With Nigerians back home 'billing' the ones in the diaspora more than Ikeja Electric, people work throughout the week to send something home.
( Weather: Nigeria has one of the best atmospheric conditions in the world. The weather is moderate and with technological devices, you can create your own comfort. In the UK, the weather is so cold and unpredictable. Most times, your sense of fashion goes out of the window. You just want to avoid being sickened by the cold, by wearing big jackets. These jackets make you look like Ninja Turtles. The weather remains more unstable than the mood of a woman seeing her period.
(9) Family Support: When you start having kids in the UK, you will value family support. It is mostly unavailable. Even when your family is here, most of them will be engaged because time is too valuable. In Nigeria, your parents, grandparents, aunties, uncles and other family members will always be available to support you. All you have to do is to grease their palms, no matter how faint the oil is. At all at all na imm bad pass.
(10) Christmas and other festivities: The Christmas Day vibe in Nigeria is second to none. People cook the best meals and share them in the neighbourhood. Visitors show up at your place for memorable times. In the UK, it is a bank holiday and some workplaces that can't afford to close, lure people to work with double pay. A greedy Nigerian will take the money and postpone the celebration for the following year. At the end of the year, all your memories might hover around depressing moments at work if care isn't taken.
Osahon George Osayimwen is a Journalist and a Psychologist. He writes from the UK. well said u just had an encounter today that will forever remain with me because of childcare and it’s Damn expensive.. 1 Like |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by Nonexisting: 7:31pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
maureensylvia: Don’t japa Stay here let’s make Nigeria better
Japa is cowardice I share your sentiments. But I will not stay one month in this hellhole once I have a son. This place is for mean hustlers like me, not for my unborn generation. I'll never subject them to this jungle life where one struggles to have everything but security of his life is not guaranteed. 1 Like |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by IPG25(m): 7:33pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
How true is this article |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by Goldbw122(m): 7:33pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
rezy15:
You forgot the most important: In Nigeria you can piss anywhere That is very true, I think that is one thing most people who are actually miss.. That means if a person can't control his or her bladder |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by Chetas81(m): 7:34pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
uche87: There is no gain without pain in life. We must sacrifice something for whatever gain we make. Remember the concerted efforts made by the late pop legend, Michael Jackson, just to be able to shop in a mall in disguise. Inasmuch as relocating to the UK is a life-defining move and experience, it entails leaving behind some vital aspects of your life for better economic opportunities and a higher standard of living. These aspects will always be missed. Let's recount the interesting aspects of the Nigerian life below:
(1) Food:
You can easily get Nigerian delicacies in some cities in the UK, but that local flavour is always missing. I feel it needs the hands of the rugged women within the crude environment to get it right. For example, which Amala in the world can replace the famous Amala Skye in Ibadan?
(2) Social life:
The social life in the UK is either poor or strange to Africans. People in London are stepping it up with events but other cities are still lagging behind. Even when you organise social gatherings and send out invites, most people ignore them and pick shifts instead. This is unlike Lagos where people easily 'turn up'. Remember what singer Banky W said about social life in Lagos, "Ain't no party like the Lagos party"
(3) Women: Nigerian women are easily accessible as long as you have the money. You can easily see what Lagos socialite and other celebrities are doing with the dream women of people. Even when you are broke and you are organised as a man, you might still have your way. In contrast, the relationship market is different in the UK. It is a very conservative setting that abhors strangers. Ephemeral factors like skin colour, accent, ethnic background and visa status play key roles in who dates you.
(4) Work-life balance:
If you believe the hustle in Lagos is real, then you haven't seen the one in the UK. With the cost of living rising, I have seen people working 24 hours to make extra bucks. I once met a 48-year-old man who confided in me that he had been working 24 hours for 3 straight days. Most immigrants who set unrealistic targets for themselves end up living to work.
(5) Friendliness:
Nigerians are culturally friendly, especially if you are someone of high repute. Even when you are a nobody and you dress well, people easily get attracted to you. These people try to socialise with you. The UK will unconsciously teach you the differences of the terms; colleagues, friends and acquaintances. Most people only relate with themselves either on a professional or strictly needs basis.
(6) Church: Sunday mornings are lovely in Nigeria. People wear elegant dresses and head to church. The praise and worship session lightens your mood. It is always a moment of expression of joy. But in the UK, the roads are mostly deserted on Sunday mornings. This is because most people are nursing hangovers from the escapades on Saturday. In fact, you will doubt if the Britons actually introduced Christianity to Nigeria via Henry Townsend in 1842.
(7) Friends/Naija vibes: It is easier to get people together in Nigeria than in the UK. In Nigeria, most people do 9-5 jobs and the weekends are sacred. Over here in the UK, every day seems the same. When you are free, your friend or neighbour is fully engaged. When you are on a day shift, he might be on a night shift. With Nigerians back home 'billing' the ones in the diaspora more than Ikeja Electric, people work throughout the week to send something home.
( Weather: Nigeria has one of the best atmospheric conditions in the world. The weather is moderate and with technological devices, you can create your own comfort. In the UK, the weather is so cold and unpredictable. Most times, your sense of fashion goes out of the window. You just want to avoid being sickened by the cold, by wearing big jackets. These jackets make you look like Ninja Turtles. The weather remains more unstable than the mood of a woman seeing her period.
(9) Family Support: When you start having kids in the UK, you will value family support. It is mostly unavailable. Even when your family is here, most of them will be engaged because time is too valuable. In Nigeria, your parents, grandparents, aunties, uncles and other family members will always be available to support you. All you have to do is to grease their palms, no matter how faint the oil is. At all at all na imm bad pass.
(10) Christmas and other festivities: The Christmas Day vibe in Nigeria is second to none. People cook the best meals and share them in the neighbourhood. Visitors show up at your place for memorable times. In the UK, it is a bank holiday and some workplaces that can't afford to close, lure people to work with double pay. A greedy Nigerian will take the money and postpone the celebration for the following year. At the end of the year, all your memories might hover around depressing moments at work if care isn't taken.
Osahon George Osayimwen is a Journalist and a Psychologist. He writes from the UK. WHAT GOOD ABOUT NIGERIA AS A NATION, FOOOOOOLISH CITIZEN PREFER TO BE SLAVE SOMEWHERE AROUND THE GLOBE 🌍, BECAUSE THEY HAVE NO CONTRIBUTION HERE IN NIGERIA, THEY THINK SOMEONE DEVELOPED THEIR MOTHERLAND FOR THE NIGERIAN CITIZEN, PRISON IS VERY CHEAP, LOOK AT EKWEREMADU CASE IN LONDON, HE BECOME PRISONER IN NO TIME, ADVANCE COUNTRY IS NOT FOR THE NIGERIAN CITIZEN |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by Tayorshd87: 7:34pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
You really got me with this number 1 I and a friend have actually left Lagos to Ibadan just to eat amala Skye 😊 it' was a fantastic experience 😛😜 uche87: There is no gain without pain in life. We must sacrifice something for whatever gain we make. Remember the concerted efforts made by the late pop legend, Michael Jackson, just to be able to shop in a mall in disguise. Inasmuch as relocating to the UK is a life-defining move and experience, it entails leaving behind some vital aspects of your life for better economic opportunities and a higher standard of living. These aspects will always be missed. Let's recount the interesting aspects of the Nigerian life below:
(1) Food:
You can easily get Nigerian delicacies in some cities in the UK, but that local flavour is always missing. I feel it needs the hands of the rugged women within the crude environment to get it right. For example, which Amala in the world can replace the famous Amala Skye in Ibadan?
(2) Social life:
The social life in the UK is either poor or strange to Africans. People in London are stepping it up with events but other cities are still lagging behind. Even when you organise social gatherings and send out invites, most people ignore them and pick shifts instead. This is unlike Lagos where people easily 'turn up'. Remember what singer Banky W said about social life in Lagos, "Ain't no party like the Lagos party"
(3) Women: Nigerian women are easily accessible as long as you have the money. You can easily see what Lagos socialite and other celebrities are doing with the dream women of people. Even when you are broke and you are organised as a man, you might still have your way. In contrast, the relationship market is different in the UK. It is a very conservative setting that abhors strangers. Ephemeral factors like skin colour, accent, ethnic background and visa status play key roles in who dates you.
(4) Work-life balance:
If you believe the hustle in Lagos is real, then you haven't seen the one in the UK. With the cost of living rising, I have seen people working 24 hours to make extra bucks. I once met a 48-year-old man who confided in me that he had been working 24 hours for 3 straight days. Most immigrants who set unrealistic targets for themselves end up living to work.
(5) Friendliness:
Nigerians are culturally friendly, especially if you are someone of high repute. Even when you are a nobody and you dress well, people easily get attracted to you. These people try to socialise with you. The UK will unconsciously teach you the differences of the terms; colleagues, friends and acquaintances. Most people only relate with themselves either on a professional or strictly needs basis.
(6) Church: Sunday mornings are lovely in Nigeria. People wear elegant dresses and head to church. The praise and worship session lightens your mood. It is always a moment of expression of joy. But in the UK, the roads are mostly deserted on Sunday mornings. This is because most people are nursing hangovers from the escapades on Saturday. In fact, you will doubt if the Britons actually introduced Christianity to Nigeria via Henry Townsend in 1842.
(7) Friends/Naija vibes: It is easier to get people together in Nigeria than in the UK. In Nigeria, most people do 9-5 jobs and the weekends are sacred. Over here in the UK, every day seems the same. When you are free, your friend or neighbour is fully engaged. When you are on a day shift, he might be on a night shift. With Nigerians back home 'billing' the ones in the diaspora more than Ikeja Electric, people work throughout the week to send something home.
( Weather: Nigeria has one of the best atmospheric conditions in the world. The weather is moderate and with technological devices, you can create your own comfort. In the UK, the weather is so cold and unpredictable. Most times, your sense of fashion goes out of the window. You just want to avoid being sickened by the cold, by wearing big jackets. These jackets make you look like Ninja Turtles. The weather remains more unstable than the mood of a woman seeing her period.
(9) Family Support: When you start having kids in the UK, you will value family support. It is mostly unavailable. Even when your family is here, most of them will be engaged because time is too valuable. In Nigeria, your parents, grandparents, aunties, uncles and other family members will always be available to support you. All you have to do is to grease their palms, no matter how faint the oil is. At all at all na imm bad pass.
(10) Christmas and other festivities: The Christmas Day vibe in Nigeria is second to none. People cook the best meals and share them in the neighbourhood. Visitors show up at your place for memorable times. In the UK, it is a bank holiday and some workplaces that can't afford to close, lure people to work with double pay. A greedy Nigerian will take the money and postpone the celebration for the following year. At the end of the year, all your memories might hover around depressing moments at work if care isn't taken.
Osahon George Osayimwen is a Journalist and a Psychologist. He writes from the UK. |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by Bfly: 7:37pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
Stupid right up |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by ezegenigbonine: 7:38pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
maureensylvia: Don’t japa Stay here let’s make Nigeria better
Japa is cowardice Hahahahaha, na your type your children go ask where you dey when your mates pass you. 1 Like |
Re: UK: 10 Things You Will Miss About Nigeria When You JAPA by Deogratiasfx: 7:39pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
maureensylvia: Don’t japa Stay here let’s make Nigeria better
Japa is cowardice So you still believe in this scam called Nigeria? 1 Like |