I traveled and handed my keys to a close friend. We've known each other for over 6 years. Left behind some raw food items (rice, beans and garri) and provisions (indomie, milk, honey, custard etc).

I couldn't believe my eyes that my food items and provisions were exhausted. He would clean the house and whenever it was time to leave he would go with food items. My bag of rice wasn't left out, what is left is less than two custards of rice. Wait 🤔, did he sell my rice? All these without even informing me and I'm not even dead o 😲. All these just within two months.

Some friends are just leeches and opportunists. Am I alone in this boat or someone has done similar thing to you?

He was taking them as wages for cleaning and maintaining your house

Dude needed to eat

Do you have any agreement with him to help clean the house?

Anyway, cut him off. He is not a friend!

If he is a friend, he would have used his discretion in taking those things at least at a minimum/acceptable level and also dignify you by asking upfront.

He is one of those that thinks they are smart while others are not. Very entitled and wicked lots. If you think my opinions are wrong, just ask him why he did that. He will play down the whole thing by saying the things he carried where not as much as you are saying and he might even get angry with you.

Arrrrrrrh

You didn't tell him what to touch and what not to touch. You didn't remove anything that might entice his eyes. You didn't remove a spare keg that has all your valuables locked inside a room. Your assumptions has brought this on you.


Anything, food if you no want give no dey keep am for people's reach. Hunger dey! Hungry man no dey see free food leave am. This matter no be trust matter na hunger man. Next time, lock your valuables or just zero your mind on it that it will be used.


I don't blame your friend, I blame you. This has nothing to do with trust or betrayal.

Your friend definitely thinks you are richer than him and taking your foodstuffs away, you will easily buy new ones. Let him know that you are disappointed in him and you wont be able to leave the house for him next time.

Use him buy AMG


Carry am go baba alawo

My dear
No reason am
Let it go
I know there's hunger in the land and see it as the price you paid for his services.

Don't even end your friendship too but see a way you can limit him from coming to your place becos he believes you'll replace those things.
I hope you have collected your keys

@dawnomike 😁, a little wouldn't have bothered me. Just within two months

Dude needed to eat but not emptying my foodstuffs.

@Stevenbright No agreement to clean the house. The spare key was just in case of emergency.

@gaius01 I didn't tell him what to touch and what not to. He asks me whenever I'm around but taking it without my notice is what pissed me off

@kernniejay He saw the disappointment in my tone already

@vincenteger I've already taken my keys

Your friend will betray your due to her 🔥🥵😍
https://youtube.com/shorts/0Gbzlbhm3Es

Such a healthy leech.

6 years you said?
If its 6 years, all those foods items are perishable if not properly kept, it will go bad, though he doesn't have right to touch your things without your permission.
But you traveled for 6 years and expect to meet those foods item in that house? House that you gave someone the key....

GravityDefier:
I traveled and handed my keys to a close friend of over 6 years. Left behind some raw food items (rice, beans and garri) and provisions (indomie, milk, honey, custard etc).

I couldn't believe my eyes that my food items and provisions were exhausted. He would clean the house and whenever it was time to leave he would go with food items. My bag of rice wasn't left out, what is left is less than two custards of rice. Wait 🤔, did he sell my rice? All these without even informing me and I'm not even dead o 😲.

Some friends are just leeches and opportunists. Am I alone in this boat or someone has done similar thing to you?

What he did was wrong but if he didn't always go to your room to clean it up, rat and other insects would have invaded the food.

He was supposed to ask your permission before taking anything or eating your stuff tho.

One word; greed.

Op, for how long were you gone?
Did he know when you were coming back?

vincenteger:
My dear
No reason am
Let it go
I know there's hunger in the land and see it as the price you paid for his services.

Don't even end your friendship too but see a way you can limit him from coming to your place becos he believes you'll replace those things.
I hope you have collected your keys

So?
Does that justify greediness and entitlement mentality?

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

You didn't tell him what to touch and what not to touch. You didn't remove anything that might entice his eyes. You didn't remove a spare keg that has all your valuables locked inside a room. Your assumptions has brought this on you.


Anything, food if you no want give no dey keep am for people's reach. Hunger dey! Hungry man no dey see free food leave am. This matter no be trust matter na hunger man. Next time, lock your valuables or just zero your mind on it that it will be used.


I don't blame your friend, I blame you. This has nothing to do with trust or betrayal.

Stop being silly. Hungry dey na him bag of rice miss. Smh. Thieves

Wujio:



Stop being silly. Hungry dey na him bag of rice miss. Smh. Thieves

When you create a boundary, anybody that cross over has breached the boundary. But when you assume and think people won't cross then you are joking. Cause when they cross you shouldn't be angry or surprise cause your assumption bagged the result you have.

Urexcellency:
6 years you said?
If its 6 years, all those foods items are perishable if not properly kept, it will go bad, though he doesn't have right to touch your things without your permission.
But you traveled for 6 years and expect to meet those foods item in that house? House that you gave someone the key....

We have known each other for about 6 years plus. I was away from home for two months

Zanzibar1:
What he did was wrong but if he didn't always go to your room to clean it up, rat and other insects would have invaded the food.

He was supposed to ask your permission before taking anything or eating your stuff tho.

We've known for 6 years. I was away for just two months

mariahAngel:
One word; greed.

Op, for how long were you gone?
Did he know when you were coming back?



So?
Does that justify greediness and entitlement mentality?

All these things happened just within two months. He was surprised to see me. He thought I would stay longer and this is even the first time I handed my spare keys to him while away

Please don't worry much about it @ GravityDefier!
May your success and abundance continue to "defy gravity" (ie naysayers and negative people).

He's your brother.. Men should help each other because they never betray you...
And also your rewards await you in heaven. Unlike Women.

I for chop the food too, even the nlders you dey complain to for do even worse.