Godsongang:
Where una they see wife marry? I don look for sote na hookup girls I dey end up with.

valentineuwakwe:
Check if she had pains or some kind of illness down there or in her stomach.....
Did you notice this before the marriage or after cos it would have been discuss with her n you assist her to resolve the issues.
I can confidently tell you it's not as a result of your penis size but that your wife is suffering from an illness. Help her!

toneawe:


First of all, congratulations on your marriage.
I understand how you feel cos I’ve been there. Reason your wife feel pain is because she doesn’t get wet at all or enough due to low libido. I am not a doctor but my wife and I have visited doctors in time past but non gave any solution. They all kept saying that it is her mindset and psychological. It can be as a result of hormonal imbalance which in this case she will need to do a test called hormonal assay.
However, we got a solution at last after my wife made a serious research and kept on asking question.
Though it is advisable to visit your doctor and if she wants to see any doctor, let it be a female doctor. They understand the woman body better. One of our doctor who happened to be a woman, with the advice she gave, it went a long way to help. It was some of her advice that help us to overcome certain habit my wife was practising that caused the dryness and pain.
First of all, let her treat any infection if she has. Women are always prone to infection. It never ends. So let her clear that angle and be sure there is no hidden infection.
This next step is very keep and 90% of women practice it, not knowing that is killing their sexual life. let her stop douching. What that means is that she must stop dipping her hand into her virginal wen washing. Most ladies feel that they smell down there so the best thing to do is to wash it by dipping hands deep inside to clear off the mucous. Believe me wen I say those mucous are what makes a woman wet and not feel pain during intercourse. She should also stop sitting on hot water to douch. Some ladies even add salt to hot water and seat on it. It’s not good. It kills the good cells that makes that place clean and wet. The virg natural has its own cleaning agent and ladies feel those mucous are the dirty. Nooooo. Those mucous are the good bacterial they need to keep the virg healthy. If she wants to wash, let her just use with a mild toilet soap and wash just the labia(outer part of the virg ) and not even think of deeping her fingers inside to scrap out only God knows what she wants to scrap out.
Once she has done the above, she can head on to the next step below.
Buy this drug for your wife. EVENING PRIME ROSE OIL(EPO). It’s a capsule of 30 gels. They have it in 500mg and 1000mg. U can buy the 500mg. One morning and one evening. The first two weeks, u will notice a change. Ur wife will start feeling honey for u and by so doing she will start getting wet for u. Once she can get wet, that is the end of pains. Note that the drug is totally safe. It even promotes healthy hair in women.
There is another good one but very scarce. The name is Flibaserin. If you can’t get this one, go for EPO, evening prime rose oil.
Try it and thank me later. She can take it for as long as 6 to 8 weeks. Na she go Dey rush you. Don’t forget to quote me wen it works.
Shalom.

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

folake4u:


Firstly, Congratulations on your marriage.

My humble opinion:

Maybe you should communicate with her on what she likes, and what turns her on (feet, neck, hand, boobs etc).

Focus more on romance, dry humping or whatever than the actual act itself. Make sure she's lubricated too. You can spice the sexual act itself by playing sensual songs that can get into her feelings too.

Instead of going straight to penetration.

In no less than 500 words kindly explain the picture uploaded in simple and concise grammar.

Your time start now

Persephone1:
In no less than 500 words kindly explain the picture uploaded in simple and concise grammar.

Your time start now

folake4u:


Firstly, Congratulations on your marriage.

My humble opinion:

Maybe you should communicate with her on what she likes, and what turns her on (feet, neck, hand, boobs etc).

Focus more on romance, dry humping or whatever than the actual act itself. Make sure she's lubricated too. You can spice the sexual act itself by playing sensual songs that can get into her feelings too.

Instead of going straight to penetration.

doggedfighter:


Folake4u, are you sure law is your calling ?

Omg ! Omg !!

Behold our sex therapist and counsellor !👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋

folake4u:


DG, wetin be this? 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣

Nor be only sex therapist. This is just basic knowledge nau. I feel his wife's pain. 🥲

folake4u:


🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

See set up oh.

But on a more serious note, many men don't understand the romance assignment.

No be set up oooo, wait till i tell you to submit 20 minutes visual presentation nah .

You are very correct Sis! Little wonder they complain that their women hoard sex from them. If she enjoys it at least 90% will she hoard? That's why they have plenty side chicks and debit alert. Mumu people

doggedfighter:



You feel the pain wella
Until you come draw diagram join 😂😂😂🤣😂🤣
😂🤣😂

I need sexual advice too

folake4u:


Firstly, Congratulations on your marriage.

My humble opinion:

Maybe you should communicate with her on what she likes, and what turns her on (feet, neck, hand, boobs etc).

Focus more on romance, dry humping or whatever than the actual act itself. Make sure she's lubricated too. You can spice the sexual act itself by playing sensual songs that can get into her feelings too.

Instead of going straight to penetration.

Persephone1:


No be set up oooo, wait till i tell you to submit 20 minutes visual presentation nah .

You are very correct Sis! Little wonder they complain that their women hoard sex from them. If she enjoys it at least 90% will she hoard? That's why they have plenty side chicks and debit alert. Mumu people

Babtunz:


I thought your job is to advise and represent clients on legal matters. When did you start a venture in sexology?

folake4u:



🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Na why I nor like to dey talk too much be this oh.


Can I know my offence?🥲

Babtunz:


None committed. In fact, I'm taking notes of your wisdom.

folake4u:


Perse please!!! 😭😭🤣🤣

Women enjoy sex when their partner is keen on exploring their bodies. Heck, most men just want to pound abi dig, as if they're digging well. They don't even care if their wives are pleased. And that's why many women haven't experienced orgasm in their lives. Many won't even experience till they die.

Some of them can't even press boobs well. I see some of them squeeze pure water sachet, I imagine them squeezing their partner's boobs like that too and I cringe. That thing can be painful when not handled well.

I don't even blame women that hoard sex oh. If na me, I go begin press phone.

And yes, you're right. If they channel the money spent in chasing side chicks to investing in their wives and pleasuring her, there will be more happy homes.

But they don't understand this logic. A case of a fool and his money are soon parted.

Blessedarethepe:

You will be a good educator on sex.
Can you take me on a short course about satisfying a lady?

folake4u:


Give me 500k for the short course. It's an introductory course with 10 modules.

folake4u:


Give me 500k for the short course. It's an introductory course with 10 modules.

kkins25:


Hope it's not PDF?

GloriousGbola:


I am interested

Please confirm that this will be a one on one interaction with direct feedback from the instructor.
And multiple performance assement sessions

Training in handling of mammary glands
Gluteus maximus, erogenous zones, g spot, cunninlingus, digital, oral and penile penetration

😈😈

folake4u:


No Sir.

I have a team of trained professionals who'd attend to our clients.

kkins25:


Ah, let me dust my CV. I'm looking for internship.

folake4u:


We currently do not have internship program in our establishment. Maybe we'd consider this in the nearest future.

kkins25:
It's the role play for me >>>>>>>>>>

folake4u:


Give me 500k for the short course. It's an introductory course with 10 modules.

YoshihideSuga:


Entirely false. Sex is biological and should continue till one dies.

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

Jewessgratitud3:
She's not sexually attached or attracted to you because trust me, if a woman has feelings for you, a small touch will make her wet and ready for you and she won't have that pain.

Secondly, make sure you set the mood right for sex before penetrating her. Not that you'll just jump on her after a stressful day or when she's not in the mood, that place will be very dry and will cause serious pain.

Lastly, make sure to smell fresh and clean before going close cos mouth and armpit odour can we quench a woman's desire.

XAUBulls:

The first paragraph... That's another major possibility, but then sex hormone differences in you women varies in terms of oxytocin and progesterone secretions. So there could be a deficiency.

Your second tip... On point. (Smirk)