komzy589:

Look at this one. You think it’s easy to find a normal man who will pull his dick out to just Bleep random you!
Obviously your mind is still existing in a Stone Age.

Alooone:

Thanks sir...you are like the only light here

DDIA:

Just fvck your shrink to ease the tension.
Or you can get it from the streets.
To find man wey go service you no be hard thing.
To hell with your husband.
Make yourself happy.

Persephone1:
If you have no knowledge of what Op is talking about, kindly shut it and learn!

She's right! Schizophrenic patients are prone to hallucinations. It is like a display of problems within their subconscious. Sometimes these hallucinations are so real that they mistake it for reality. I believe Op's case is not advanced at least she's not violent or evil scheming with the subject adding to her problems ( her husband)
She's here seeking help and not planning how to off the man. It's a good indication she can be managed. Stop making it seem like she's an epidemic to be avoided

Alooone kindly reach out to your shrink to talk to your uneducated man. I'm not surprised at your husband's behavior that's how typical Nigerian husband is. Before you know it he will go dump you at your parents house.
Nigerian women dey marry abeg!

Alooone:
Hello

Am a 32year old lady with 3kids...and my problem is that my husband doesn't like coming close to me.

This year September will make it 1 year since we came back to the house after about 4years of separation.

I have some health challenges I.e I have been diagnosed with Schizophrenia/ Bi-polar disorder so my challenges are peculiar...

He doesn't come close to me, he feels my illness is more spiritual and transferable...anything I make the move to initiate sex first I am met with violence.

Sometimes he makes comments like "leave me alone"..." How are u that what is doing you is not communicable", "how sure am I, that those that are doing you are not after me" etc.

In the course of this 10years of marriage... I have had to endure up to 2years of no sexual contact and is telling on me....my psychotherapist says I need sex to calm my subconscious... Sometimes when I want to sleep or in the night...I see strange men or women that want to sleep with me plus other strange things etc.

I need help please

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Alooone:

Thanks....he is proposing we follow it the African way I.e the traditional way

naijapikin2:
See your face

You look UNTOUCHABLE sef

Kobojunkie:
Your psychotherapist says you need sex to calm your subconscious? Are you kidding me?

OP, no offense but try to be practical abeg! Your number one issue and focus should be your mental health and how to manage your condition best without depending on others for favors. You declaring your husband needs to give you sex for you to calm down screams of potential trouble looming abeg! Please work with your doctors instead to find other ways to dispel all that sexual energy some other way. Running about carrying husband-problem on your head all while dealing with a major mental illness.... these things should not be by force. It is OK to let somethings go so you can better manage yourself and your situation.

Alooone:
@ all...thanks for the contributions.... For those making mockery about the subconscious thing I said up there, please let me explain....as a schizophrenia patient, I suffer from both auditory and visual hallucination( although not on a major scale like the auditory)...now all these hallucinations is a thing of the mind and subconscious and not real...that according to my therapist for me to be seeing strange men and women that want to sleep with me speaks of the state of my unconscious and how sexually deprived I am...that's what brought d whole sex as a therapy issue...
could you believe that since I gave birth to my second child about 6years ago we have met not more than 5times...
Sorry for sounding like a sex freak or something...but this is what am currently going through.

Hsurdluxury:
you have entered one chance marriage

sit him down and ask question

if he is not interested in you anymore,seek for divorce, everythingis not money

remember other good men are out their that needs you

Obierika:
■ Would you willingly marry a person who has a mental problem?

Kobojunkie:
How are you sure you yourself do not have a mental problem?

Obierika:
■ I'm very sure I don't have a mental problem...I wish I could sy that same for you

Obierika:


Do you exhibit any violent tendencies?

It's possible the guy is scared that you will stab him while he's asleep

Kajaard:


Lol, I swear

Her face looks scary. Not sexy at all.

Obierika:


Would you willingly marry a person who has a mental problem?

Beremx:
if your husband is denying you sex, please look for it somewhere. You need sex for healing. If he can't give you, get it somewhere else!!

Hsurdluxury:


by the time you visit most mental hospital ,you will be surprised by the caliber of people coming for treatment

70％ of nigerians already have a mental health problem,but we have categories mental health problem as madness

we all need education,i can tell you the man already has a side chick that solve his sexual problem

not havingsex with your married partner and ignoring them can lead to mental health issues

my advice：if you dont need a woman dont keep her with you,you will only worsen their mental health issues

Obierika:


It is not the lack of sex that caused the mental issue the lady is having.

What I think happened is that the lady developed mental issues along the way and her husband as a result separated from her; along the line some peacemakers came and brought them together again but by this time the husband had already signed off the marriage, that is why he no longer finds her sexually attractive.


I really do not blame the guy because I personally cannot stay married to a person who has schizophrenia or other mental issues, such a person could stab you in your sleep and claim she heard a voice from God asking her to do it. It's impossible to know when they could flip.

Another reason is that the husband does not want to take the chance of having another child who could inherit that gene or trait