Shalommy:
Op, allow those strange men and women to smash you to calm your urge. Chaii.... Ogbanje!

Kobojunkie:
Good! I made mine my support too and that paid off for me in many ways. They didn't really understand but they has no choice but to accept me as I am.

Please be understanding! You can't force knowledge or acceptance on your husband or anyone for that matter. So as far as advice, there really isn't anything you can do to force him to become the right partner for your situation. And it isn't your fault that he choose ignorance nor is it your fault that he rejects you. Life, even marriage, does not always turn out the way we want it but that shouldn't stop us from working on ourselves regardless.

ahnie:
Kobojunkie may I please ask the major cause of this bipolar thingy?

Kobojunkie:
It could be genetics, chemical imbalance or even triggers(stress). Each case is different.

ahnie:
■ Stress another silent major factor.

Kobojunkie:
I believe the vast majority are stress induced. A small portion are in fact genetics.

Kobojunkie:
Ok, so tell us! The trained therapist and psychologist in that situation did what in that particular case? Helped the husband resolve his issues with his wife so he could once again begin to give her sex in other to calm her subconscious - is that what happened in that case?

cunny88:
■ professional counselling has helped repair many homes.
■ The man attaches spiritual undertone to her mental issues. He probably needs some education. If he has taken her back after 4yrs, he should perform his conjugal duties

gssdobi:
Op
Cast all your burdens on Jesus,He cares for you.

Shalommy:
Op, allow those strange men and women to smash you to calm your urge. Chaii.... [/b]Ogbanje![b]

Alooone:
Hello
Am a 32year old lady with 3kids...and my problem is that my husband doesn't like coming close to me...this year September will make it 1 year since we came back to the house after about 4years of separation....I have some health challenges I.e I have been diagnosed with Schizophrenia/ Bi-polar disorder so my challenges are peculiar...he doesn't come close to me, he feels my illness is more spiritual and transferable...anything I make the move to initiate sex first I am met with violence...sometimes he makes comments like "leave me alone"..." How are u that what is doing you is not communicable", "how sure am u, that those that are doing you are not after me" etc.
In the course of this 10years of marriage... I have had to endure up to 2years of no sexual contact and is telling on me....my psychotherapist says I need sex to calm my subconscious... Sometimes when I want to sleep or in the night...I see strange men or women that want to sleep with me plus other strange things etc
I need help please

Kobojunkie:
It could be genetics, chemical imbalance or even triggers(stress). Each case is different.

Kobojunkie:
OP, you definitely do not need to add this delusion to your cup of tea abeg! Please focus on healing from the ones that currently afflict you and not try to enter into this tunnel which millions of Nigerians have yet to see the end of.

Jewessgratitud3:
■ Keep quiet! Mechi onu there. Stop fighting the name of Jesus.

Kobojunkie:
Lol...See these one's and name of Jesus. Do you know of any other people's on the planet who scream the name of Jesus pass you religious folks in Nigeria? Look around you and tell me how that meaningless ritual you lot engage in, all in ignorance of who Jesus is by the way, has bettered your lives and communities. Tell us how thos who don't engage in the same ignorance are worse off.

You want a woman suffering real world problems to be screaming name of Jesus meaninglessly all for the heck of it abi. All in order that you lot can beat your chests like the JW say she don join una group. No be wickedness be that!

azpekuliar:
I have an HIV+ friend who has also been diagnosed as being Schizophrenic due to late commencement of HIV treatment. Men she is a handful! Highly annoyingly unpredictable. She could be calm this minute and the next minute she has flown into a rage. Omo I no fit deal abeg, I run but for your husband while I emphasize with him, there is no running away Is he afraid that this mental condition is sexually transmittable? He needs counselling to be able to provide you the support you need at home.

Jewessgratitud3:
■ I didn't mention you to start opening that your tap mouth.just shush it!

Kobojunkie:
I am just saying make una stop trapping people with the lies of your pastors and mogs. Those lives have more than ruined 10s of millions of lives in Nigeria and left the country with a religious industry far larger than all its other industries put together if we are to check. Why try to pull down more innocent souls into that already massive trap filled with lies? What do you gain from that?

Jewessgratitud3:
■ You wey come be Mr know all, how many you don come help? Na to dey bad mouth others all the time yet you're worse off.

Abegi!

Kobojunkie:
Bad mouth others? What others? Be specific!

Jewessgratitud3:
■ You don't know the people you badmouth? The MOG you always talk against? They are better than you if you don't know. So stop criticizing them when you are the heartless one here.