Good day nairalanders.. please I need advice on what to do.. am married with three kids, 5, 3 , and a year old.. I own a bussines.. but for now my bussines is down, the has been very good and lucrative.. but due to lack of capital to invest more on it. It was now shaking.. but the thing now is that.. I have the capital to invest on the bussines.. but now am saying should relocate abroad with the money and leave my 3kids and wife back home or invest on the bussines.. cus am traveling with a tourist visa and it’s a Europe country and I don’t how long it will take to get my papers over there please Nairaland I really need ur opinion not make future mistakes

Thanks

You want to relocate your family on tourist visa Your wife will simply claim asylum and claim you are an abuser while in Nigeria or she marries an old white man for papers. Either ways you lose out😆

Which country are you going to?

ednut1:
You want to relocate your family on tourist visa Your wife will simply claim asylum and claim you are an abuser while in Nigeria or she marries an old white man for papers. Either ways you lose out😆

Read and rehearse this write up like about X10 before you leap

Am traveling alone why they stay back in negeria

ednut1:
You want to relocate your family on tourist visa Your wife will simply claim asylum and claim you are an abuser while in Nigeria or she marries an old white man for papers. Either ways you lose out😆

pansophist:
Which country are you going to?

any schengen country am just planning have not started the process yet.. just need an advice if is good to leave wife and kids behind and travel

SIXTEENTH:


Read and rehearse this write up like about X10 before you leap

walahi i just woke up and was rushing to prepare for work. I no read am well 🤣🤣

Gwin007:
Am traveling alone why they stay back in negeria

https://www.nairaland.com/7904131/germany-deport-14000-nigerians-fg#126854018

You can only get papers if you marry citizen there. Oyinbo self don wise and know what many Nigerian men are up to . you also have to deny your wife and kids and claim single. To work illegally these days in europe na just pure suffering.

Gwin007:
Good day nairalanders.. please I need advice on what to do.. am married with three kids, 5, 3 , and a year old.. I own a bussines.. but for now my bussines is down, the has been very good and lucrative.. but due to lack of capital to invest more on it. It was now shaking.. but the thing now is that.. I have the capital to invest on the bussines.. but now am saying should relocate abroad with the money and leave my 3kids and wife back home or invest on the bussines.. cus am traveling with a tourist visa and it’s a Europe country and I don’t how long it will take to get my papers over there please Nairaland I really need ur opinion not make future mistakes

Thanks

no dont do that. Tourist visa is a dead end.

Gwin007:
Good day nairalanders.. please I need advice on what to do.. am married with three kids, 5, 3 , and a year old.. I own a bussines.. but for now my bussines is down, the has been very good and lucrative.. but due to lack of capital to invest more on it. It was now shaking.. but the thing now is that.. I have the capital to invest on the bussines.. but now am saying should relocate abroad with the money and leave my 3kids and wife back home or invest on the bussines.. cus am traveling with a tourist visa and it’s a Europe country and I don’t how long it will take to get my papers over there please Nairaland I really need ur opinion not make future mistakes

Thanks

Don't do that if you love yourself.

If u r going to eruope it will be a hard task. And of you are going with tourist it's not gonna be easy. Revamp ur business and fire up to a high level of knowledge in business empire

Gwin007:
Good day nairalanders.. please I need advice on what to do.. am married with three kids, 5, 3 , and a year old.. I own a bussines.. but for now my bussines is down, the has been very good and lucrative.. but due to lack of capital to invest more on it. It was now shaking.. but the thing now is that.. I have the capital to invest on the bussines.. but now am saying should relocate abroad with the money and leave my 3kids and wife back home or invest on the bussines.. cus am traveling with a tourist visa and it’s a Europe country and I don’t how long it will take to get my papers over there please Nairaland I really need ur opinion not make future mistakes

Thanks

All way is a way but ask yourself, can your wife make the sacrifice, I know someone who just came back after five years from the US had the same situation as yours cos he had 3 children too.

The truth is that under BAT this country will NOT get better, so just have that in mind and it’s better than going to do juju cos that’s what BAT and the devil has signed.

ednut1:
walahi i just woke up and was rushing to prepare for work. I no read am well 🤣🤣

U couldn't read a 15 line write up yet had the empty skull to write trash! Leaves me wondering how you got that job and what it is u do there exactly!

..if u can't support a brother, don't talk him down.

Okay.. thank u

MatrixReloaded:
If u r going to eruope it will be a hard task. And of you are going with tourist it's not gonna be easy. Revamp ur business and fire up to a high level of knowledge in business empire

Lildav07:


U couldn't read a 15 line write up yet had the empty skull to write trash! Leaves me wondering how you got that job and what it is u do there exactly!

..if u can't support a brother, don't talk him down.

does nairaland pay me , did i not later advice him in my subsequent comment I got my current job based on competence lol. Rest

Gwin007:
any schengen country am just planning have not started the process yet.. just need an advice if is good to leave wife and kids behind and travel

It is not a good idea. If you were single, it would have been easier.

One thing you must know is that, there are three channels immigrants use to make their stay permanent in Europe. First one is through family (eg marriage), international protection (refugees), and highly skilled (work permit, scientists) etc.

If you dont fall in any of the category above, then it is almost impossible (actually impossible) to be a permanent residence. Although another possible route that is difficult also, but possible, is if you go as a student.

But again, your pocket will be deep, as in, very very deep. It is expensive, and this route takes long. So you pick a country that makes it easier for foreign student to stay after studies, then follow that path until permanent residency.

Okay thank you

pansophist:


It is not a good idea. If you were single, it would have been easier.

One thing you must know is that, there are three channels immigrants use to make their stay permanent in Europe. First one is through family (eg marriage), international protection (refugees), and highly skilled (work permit, scientists) etc.

If you dont fall in any of the category above, then it is almost impossible (actually impossible) to be a permanent residence. Although another possible route that is difficult also, but possible, is if you go as a student.

But again, your pocket will be deep, as in, very very deep. It is expensive, and this route takes long. So you pick a country that makes it easier for foreign student to stay after studies, then follow that path until permanent residency.

Gwin007:
Okay thank you

Europe is changing its immigration policies due to the social tensions immigrants, especially if you know you know , have caused in the continent. I strongly discourage a married man or someone who lived a stable and fairly comfortable life in Nigeria from migrating via a tourist visa to Europe. The only place I can agree on is the US. Such that even if you return without a passport, the money you could/would have amassed would be worth the struggles. But Europe? Worse na Asia? You won't like it.

If you must relocate via a tourist visa and wish to remain, which is illegal by local laws, the best option is the US. Anywhere else is off-limits. In fact, you could be duped via the tourist visa issuance as na dem agents, not actual embassies, go issue you the visa. In summary, re-invest the money into your business, cut costs in your present lifestyle, and do a vasectomy to prevent having another child(ren).

Thanks

Gerrard59:



Europe is changing its immigration policies due to the social tensions immigrants, especially if you know you know , have caused in the continent. I strongly discourage a married man or someone who lived a stable and fairly comfortable life in Nigeria from migrating via a tourist visa to Europe. The only place I can agree on is the US. Such that even if you return without a passport, the money you could/would have amassed would be worth the struggles. But Europe? Worse na Asia? You won't like it.

If you must relocate via a tourist visa and wish to remain, which is illegal by local laws, the best option is the US. Anywhere else is off-limits. In fact, you could be duped via the tourist visa issuance as na dem agents, not actual embassies, go issue you the visa. In summary, re-invest the money into your business, cut costs in your present lifestyle, and do a vasectomy to prevent having another child(ren).

My brother that did this is now 7yrs in Europe without papers and he doesn't want to marry Oyinbo because of his fmly. He hasn't visited home till now,so my brother think 100 times ooo because life will be miserable 😩 when it knocks you down

Thank u

Kennyg290:
My brother that did this is now 7yrs in Europe without papers and he doesn't want to marry Oyinbo because of his fmly. He hasn't visited home till now,so my brother think 100 times ooo because life will be miserable 😩 when it knocks you down