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Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by humilitypays(m): 5:09pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Smile4mee01:You are about to make a lifetime mistake most mumu Nigerian guys do when they arrive abroad, you better slow down. Your priority now should never be woman. Focus, grab the money first, secure your career and papers, ladies will distract you. If you are too hot, go quench it at Russian or Thailand, etc bars or masseurs and forget relationship distractions for now. I know guys like you that arrived abroad and rushed to marry, today they are regretting it while the ones that focused on the bag came back home and picked the best of the best ladies we have in Naija and are enjoying their life to the fullest devoid of dramas and whatnot. If you like allow Konji to mislead you, na you go pay the price later in life. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by delpee(f): 5:10pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
@OP Continue working towards getting your papers. You'll find a suitable Nigerian lady in due course if you persist. 2 Likes |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by SAMBARRY: 5:11pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
omooba969:them dey do but it's easier in Naija to move on but in diaspora after dating a guy for xyz years and then e no work,to enter another relationship go hard but for Naija it's easier to snatch men from any careless woman |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by Omoawoke: 5:12pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
o123456789: Say the ones within your circle are 95% bad. And I must say, change your network. It shows the kind of person you are. The people within my network that I know are all hardworking people, and earning honestly. I really fault your association and the people you roll with, bloody criminals!! 2 Likes |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by SAMBARRY: 5:14pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
humilitypays:I agree with this man However shine your eyes well o.know who you go pick , make you no carry am reach oyinbo land and she dey pursue you Comot for your own house |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by humilitypays(m): 5:19pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
SAMBARRY:All the guys I know that came back to Nigeria to marry aren't having issues, those having issues know what they did 1 Like |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by Gerrard59(m): 5:23pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
ednut1: Apart from those on student visas, I am willing to bet there are more single Nigerian women than single Nigerian men. If true, why don't these our women marry non-Nigerians even if na other black Africans, Caribbean and African Americans? They will call you broke join 🤣 This is a terrible mindset from them. Too terrible. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by kaywhy09(m): 5:24pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Very confused set of people |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by Gerrard59(m): 5:27pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
tosinhtml: East Asians are different from South Asians. To me, there is no difference between South Asians and Africans. Then when you consider the likes of Pakistan and Afghanistan, we are better off. 2 Likes |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by Nobody: 5:28pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
It's called shakara |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by ednut1(m): 5:29pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Gerrard59:black africans- Those men dont want them mostly, they are intimidated by them/ they say our women have masculine energy . They don't like the idea of the billing our women do. Our women too dont want them as they see them as feminine and weak too. Caribbean and African Americans - some of them have poor family values, have different baby mamas and kids they wont take care of. They cheat without remorse.Mostly not religious ( our women carry religion for head). They do 50:50 which our women dont want to hear 😆. And the men prefer whites, fellow AA or Caribbean , latina and Asians over our babes 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by Blakjewelry(m): 5:35pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Klass99:Charity begins at home. I have never met a people who are so hateful about their own country like Nigerians, same unpatriotism they makes them rape and bleed her whenever they can. How does it benefit you to feel superior to your own fellow human being. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by Whatisurproblem(m): 5:35pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Smile4mee01:and if you come Nigeria come carry one go, she go kill you or you kill her, Avoid woman if possible except your mother, e get why |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by sonofthunder: 5:37pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Smile4mee01: They feel they deserve better sometimes. It's complex but I believe you understand this to an extent as I'm too tired to explain right now. Some Nigerian guys treat them poorly because they expect them to be desperate seeing that they naturally have a smaller pool of guys that are interested in dating them. |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by abike12(f): 5:37pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Smile4mee01: I don't recommend a woman with papers dating a man without papers solely because of the many many women that have done it in the past and had negative outcomes, ended up being used and dumped and left alone to struggle as single mothers. it's normal for a man without papers to claim he doesn't need papers but a lot of times they are telling lies, it's all part of the game. if you were of the caliber that it would be believable that you want to relocate to nigeria, they may find it easier to believe. from experience of over 20 years in america, it is wise and prudent to keep immigration matters separate from marriage, with some exceptions. it's not fair but with all that has been happening to women here, it's a necessary safeguard. if you really want to move to nigeria, why not date someone in nigeria and travel back and forth until you are ready to relocate. abi you too don't want someone without american visa?? |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by ImratiiGuy: 5:37pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
We date them here in Riyadh. |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by Gerrard59(m): 5:39pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Smile4mee01: Based on the bold, seek out other black Africans. It depends on where you are based. That is my aim - Kenya, Tanzania, Namibia, Botswana, South Africa, Ghana, Gabon, etc. Even if na Suriname or black from Ecuador, but she must be black. To be fair, some of our men have spoilt our image by marrying for papers. That hurts and humans tend to remember bad deeds more than good. So come clean. 5 Likes |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by weslay: 5:41pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Klass99: The issue is not only with Japarian's.... It's with us as a people. We see it everyday in work places, families and the society generally in the form of segregation and the "I better pass you mentality". Maybe it's more obvious with Japarians, but we have it ingrained in us. That's why different tribes believe they are superior to others.... And like you said, it all comes from deprivation. 7 Likes |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by vickydevoka(m): 5:45pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Smile4mee01:My experience as an abroad base guy. 1. She sized me down, and me I can't beg someone to be with me 2. The second lady, need a very rich guy that will not ask her to spill bills. 4 Likes |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by Gerrard59(m): 5:47pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
ednut1: Interesting. Over here, many black African men go home to marry and come. Others marry Japanese women. Then, there is a set between black Africans and Caribbean women. There are more black men, black Africans, here than women. So a single black woman who has lived at least five years after school is the one who decided to remain single or was born and bred here (an entirely different concept). The homogeneity here makes everyone understand their bearing in the society. You guys there are spoilt for choices. They do 50:50 which our women dont want to hear So, what do these women use their money for? Dem dey practice "my money is mine, but your own is ours"? 4 Likes |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by Kobojunkie: 5:47pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
LadyRosa2:Stop telling these ridiculous tales abeg! 3 Likes |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by omooba969(m): 5:50pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
SAMBARRY: 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂 You crack me up...lol 😂 2 Likes |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by kkins25(m): 5:50pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Klass99: There's this joke on line that when an indian man starts business in a foreign land, expect him to go and pack all his family members to come and join him. Naija here, your best friend, who you suffered together with, will get a job and disappear. Won't even tell you that they are travelling. Just like that video where a man didn't tell his long time girlfriend that he was relocating abroad until he was about to fly out. Something is wrong somewhere with the black man.. Something very strange. 3 Likes |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by omooba969(m): 5:53pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Lol 😂 that's the effect of binging on AfricaMagic/Nollywood. |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by Kobojunkie: 5:55pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
1Sharon:Which ones are those abeg? |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by omooba969(m): 5:56pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
kkins25: I'm glad that finally someone else echoes the same prognosis. 👍 2 Likes |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by Kobojunkie: 5:59pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
LadyRosa2:Wow... yet more ridiculous hasty generalization rolled up in more foolishness....come on! Are you for real? |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by kkins25(m): 6:00pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Gerrard59: you don't need to bet bro... Go on Tiktok match making live streams Some diasporan ladies be like "I don't mind if he's income isn't as much as mine, as long as he's stable"...... Na that very day I know say Twitter no be real place. I recently joined a Facebook group for singles.. 15k women, all over the world, looking for love. I'm like, ah, don't this beautiful women meet men in real life. Are there no men in their country? Abi, Women outnumber men? I no dey understand the mathematics at all at all.. Same thing on TikTok. I have come to the conclusion that all that "talk" about "you don't need anybody to survive" is not for the weak. You're either mentally fortified or have been damaged to the point of no return.. For me, I don't want to be on either end. 5 Likes |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by Otulented: 6:00pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Smile4mee01: Come back to 9ja, look for a good and good looking girl and marry here in nigeria. 1 Like |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by Kobojunkie: 6:02pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Dennisochampa:That's what I have seen happen too....Nigerian men who date them in passing with minds already made up to go back when the time is right to either marry that lady they left behind or even the one arrange for them by those back home. Go the local Nigerian churches for here and you will find that more than half of the men here ended up going back to Nigeria to get themselves wives even after dating women here for many years before. 1 Like |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by Vickylabossbaby: 6:03pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
I feel this is a wrong assumption. You sound as if you're in the UK. There are genuine ladies looking for genuine men to marry them. |
Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by uuzba(m): 6:06pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Smile4mee01:You people travelled overseas because you don't like Nigeria and Nigeria problems. Marry overseas people. - The time you were here in Nigeria, you didn't marry Nigerians here with you. Now you went overseas and suddenly, it is those Nigerians that you are interested in? Your intentions are not genuine and you all know it. Hence you Nigerians overseas will just continue repelling each other. |
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