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If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by DyshApp: 3:32pm On Nov 30, 2023
A Nigerian man, identified as Emmanuel Emju, has shared a rather controversial take about polygamy that has sparked mixed reactions online.

Emmanuel, in a post shared via his Facebook page, stated that a man is a failure if he hasn’t considered taking a second wife after at least five years of being married to a woman.

According to him, it’s preposterous for a man to have never contemplated the idea of marrying a second wife.

He, however, clarified that he is not forcing men to choose polygamy but believes it is for the betterment of society if they marry more than one wife.”

His post reads,

“If you have been married to one lady for 5 years and you haven’t thought the needs to get a second wife, you are failing as a man.

No one is forcing you to marry more than one wife.. you are only being told what would be better for you and the society. Marry a second wife and stop following undergraduate girls here and there”


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Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by BOSSkesh(m): 3:33pm On Nov 30, 2023
It has crossed my mind many times

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Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by 1TrippleCee: 3:34pm On Nov 30, 2023
Forceful words. Very forceful, tasteless, classless and meaningless.

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Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by muyico(m): 3:45pm On Nov 30, 2023
it required deep though to overcome
Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by Afamsi: 3:50pm On Nov 30, 2023
What has the number of wives he marries got to do with a man's success or failure. It is you that is thinking of marrying another woman that has failed to be the man you ought to be in your house

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Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by Nifobe(f): 3:54pm On Nov 30, 2023
Ok

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Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by MadamVanessa(f): 3:57pm On Nov 30, 2023
shocked

Men are losing their sanity every damn day and it's not funny. It's hard to see a sane man lately and it's not funny again.


Polygamy has never done any man any good right from inception, rather it will cost you a lot.

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Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by LikeAking: 4:10pm On Nov 30, 2023
Simp!
Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by YouandiAllofus: 4:31pm On Nov 30, 2023
How about your wife getting a second husband?
Do to others what you wish upon yourself. If you can't stand it, another surely can't stand it.

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Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by iHateFraudsters: 5:18pm On Nov 30, 2023
YouandiAllofus:
How about your wife getting a second husband?
Do to others what you wish upon yourself. If you can't stand it, another surely can't stand it.

Make she go get 2nd husband na.

Who will live with the stigma? Me or her?
Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by We4all: 5:20pm On Nov 30, 2023
Remove sex from humanity and watch how men will commit suicide.

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Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by Kemadealadire(f): 7:15pm On Nov 30, 2023
Whatever happened to marrying one wife and sticking to that one.

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Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by Mindlog: 7:41pm On Nov 30, 2023
As a Nigerian man, ask him about the health insurance plan he already has that covers him, his wife and children and the provision he is making to extend to the second wife, ask him of the life assurance policy he has taken that will protect his family with financial support when he dies......selective mutism will set in!. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by Kobojunkie: 7:45pm On Nov 30, 2023
We4all:
Remove sex from humanity and watch how men will commit suicide.
You mean most Nigerian men,abi? lipsrsealed

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Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by Nazgul: 8:08pm On Nov 30, 2023
Second wife and possibly more children in this Tinubu's administration. Seems he's addicted to poverty.

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Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by yomi007k(m): 9:33pm On Nov 30, 2023
Mindlog:
As a Nigerian man, ask him about the health insurance plan he already has that covers him, his wife and children and the provision he is making to extend to the second wife, ask him of the life assurance policy he has taken that will protect his family with financial support when he dies......selective mutism will set in!. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

Lol. No be lie.

Do you see us? Our mates in the other side of the globe are looking for solutions to problems, this one is talking about polygamy.

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Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by Klass99(f): 9:54pm On Nov 30, 2023

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Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by lilyheaven: 12:16am On Dec 01, 2023
Lol
iHateFraudsters:


Make she go get 2nd husband na.

Who will live with the stigma? Me or her?
Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by Dtruthspeaker: 1:52am On Dec 01, 2023
Words of a mad fool!

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Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by Dtruthspeaker: 1:53am On Dec 01, 2023
iHateFraudsters:


Make she go get 2nd husband na.

Who will live with the stigma? Me or her?

Both of you. Oil go always stain both the person wey throw am and the person e stain
Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by TheWinterBird(f): 3:03am On Dec 01, 2023
Of all the problems in Nigeria that this nuisance can come up with solutions for, na useless polygamy that's already practiced and that does no good other than overpopulating the already overly-populated country he's advocating for. Well, e no concern me, as it's a criminal offense over here, thankfully. Y'all can continue with your misplaced priorities and remain backwards with your rubbish practices while developed countries keep zooming by.

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Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by AcademicWriter: 6:20am On Dec 01, 2023
Forceful words. Very forceful, tasteless, classless and meaningless...
Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by deewhydoski(m): 6:35am On Dec 01, 2023
I would rather cheat on my wife than bringing in another woman into our matrimonial home. I have to give her that respect. It is not easy to manage one woman talkless of managing two. As man if you don't want to die before your time pls don't have two wives

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Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by YouandiAllofus: 7:37am On Dec 01, 2023
iHateFraudsters:


Make she go get 2nd husband na.

Who will live with the stigma? Me or her?
What stigma?
So there is a stigma when a woman marries more than one husband
But non exist when a man marries more than one wife? kiss
Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by iHateFraudsters: 7:37am On Dec 01, 2023
YouandiAllofus:

What stigma?
So there is a stigma when a woman marries more than one husband
But non exist when a man marries more than one wife? kiss

Keep asking ... One day you'll get answers.
Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by YouandiAllofus: 7:51am On Dec 01, 2023
iHateFraudsters:


Keep asking ... One day you'll get answers.
You obviously lack a solid response.
Double standard practice in our culture such as this, will not do us any good.

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Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by iHateFraudsters: 10:12am On Dec 01, 2023
YouandiAllofus:

You obviously lack a solid response.
Double standard practice in our culture such as this, will not do us any good.

Keep asking ... Answers will come.
Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by DyshApp: 12:21pm On Dec 01, 2023
Nazgul:
Second wife and possibly more children in this Tinubu's administration. Seems he's addicted to poverty.

True👌
Re: If You've Never Though About A Second Wife You've Failed As A Naija Man-Man Says by XAUBulls: 8:21pm On Dec 01, 2023
Klass99:


Really? Why?

Are you sex starved or feeling neglected because wifey is more focused on kids?

A second wife means more bills, more stress and strain. Can you keep up? grin

🤣🤣
@ XAUBulls is this user right or wrong?
"That's Interesting... You asked two pretty valid questions up there."

First off, how's it going @Klass99? It's been a while.
Yup! Indeed, it can lead to "suicide." cheesy wink

But seriously speaking, most men are wired to think of having multiple women [WHO CAN give them near-absolute peace of mind and companionship], because they [men] are visual creatures and they have raging hormones at younger ages [i.e., from below 65 years of age].

Institutionalized laws in some Western countries to regulate polygamy and the state of the economy in traditional societies have curtailed men from having multiple female lovers or wives in their lives.

For some men who have reached a state of mental ascendancy, they just want to be with one woman in a long-term relationship... or even get married to none.

I hope this helps.

Take care.

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