My ex and I live here in Lagos, I was critically ill that I was unable to go to work for about a month sometimes last year and my fiancee only showed up on the 3rd week giving excuses about tight schedule at work.

While I was wondering why I would be sick for about a month and she was only showing up after 3 weeks, she was asked by my mum to get some of my drugs from a nearby pharm store and she just started complaining wondering what she would have gone tru if she had been here earlier.

She left about 2 hours later promising to see me again the following day bein a Sunday and that was the last I saw of her. She stoped answering my calls and didnt reply my sms too.

I hate her so very much after my sickness that I stoped calling her, and it was her birthday few weeks after, so i refused to give her the gifts i'd kept for her b4 the day.

She sent my cousin to me yesterday requesting we meet at our usual spot when the goin was smooth. I've recvd 8 sms from her today telling me how sorry she is and howmuch she has realised her life is meaningless without me.

The truth is that am not really happy in this present relationship am having as i was with her, my new babe and I have so many differences which we're just trying to patch to forge ahead.
WHAT DO I DO?

Forget her. She's shown she can't be relied on in a crisis. You need a lady who'll be there for you, through thick or thin.

But, it's your decision, good luck whatever you decide.

Siena:

Forget her. She's shown she can't be relied on in a crisis. You need a lady who'll be there for you, through thick or thin.

But, it's your decision, good luck whatever you decide.

@Topic!

Why Siena?   Let the man quench!!!!!

Good!  I would have dumped your arse too!   Who knows what is making you sick.  Spreading diseases all over the place!  What is baffling me is what she wants to come back for.  Maybe to finish you off.  ------------- Very good idea then!  Next time stay the hell out of my way! COW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BTW----------take a triple dose of your name---Agbo3----- and see if it cures your lousy craw craw "lakpa-lakpa"---akpanigogo arse!!!  Awobi!!!!

lol @ bebelove you be really acid. girl, you talk am well

_{coming to finish him off}

omoge:

lol @ bebelove you be really acid. girl, you talk am well

_{coming to finish him off}

Yes now! Beni!!! See the man no gree quench--she is coming to make sure he goes down this time-----"The return of the Jeddi"!!!!!

Ah, Militia - as crazy and loveable as ever!

i swear, the chica is one reason i come on NL, doesnt fail to amuse me

Siena:

Ah, Militia - as crazy and loveable as ever!

Hello baby!  Happy Sunday to you!  How is the[b] queen? [/b]

Why are you supporting this cassanova?  Who probably has some contagious "host" in him.  Please let him be dumped over and over again! See you are too much of a correct dude to fall into this mess.  I see you are still as handsome as ever---boy a love your teeth and smile!!!!. You are a real lady killer!!!! Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!  Well still plan to visit you in london when I visit again oh!  Hope you do not mind?  

_{The show must go on---you know we have unfinished business oh!!!!}

Oh! hi aloib!!!!----how iz you!  Any advice for the "sick" dude!

Lol, Militia - visit away!

me is fine my dear, lol, advice ke, lol name sef get as e be

siena, am i welcome also

aloib:

me is fine my dear, lol, advice ke, lol name sef get as e be

siena, am i welcome also

Aye, come one, come all!

Siena:

Lol, Militia - visit away!

I will work out a plan with one of ma sister in laws who is familiar with my "runs". I will give you her work phone number soon and a code to ward off nosey Nairalanders.

aloib:

me is fine my dear, lol, advice ke, lol name sef get as e be

siena, am i welcome also

You too? he he he he he he! No wahala!

Siena:

Aye, come one, come all!

That's rightyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!! The more the merrier! Ashewo people!!!!!

Now back to topic! Since we have settled[b] "other matters"!!!! [/b] Where is that Agbo2---you don quench?

babelove , which one be ashewo again

aloib:

babelove , which one be ashewo again

Just using the most frequently used word in Nigeria!  You dare not accidently splash water on a hungry Nigerian citizen with your car oh!  The first thing you will hear from im mouth is A-S-H-E-W-O!!!! If you piss off and Okada rider na----------- A-S-H-E-W-O!!!  Everything na ashewo, ashewo now  he he he he he he he he!  A-S-H-E-W-O!!!!!!  Na sunday praise worhip now!!!! A-S-H-E-W-O!!!!!! Gosh! Got to love them! A-S-H-E-W-O!!!!! Kai!!!!!

_{laffing ma self to tears!!!}

Crazy girl!

Siena:

Crazy girl!

You are so soooooooooooooooooooooooo looking for ma trouble Siena! Take that picture down oh!!!!

I am still comng to London! Whether you like it or not! Nonsense!!!!

Well Militia, get yourself down to London sharpish!

Be nice to put a face to the name, right now, you're just a woman of mystery!

Siena:

Well Militia, get yourself down to London sharpish!

Be nice to put a face to the name, right now, you're just a woman of mystery!

I will suprise you! When I get there, I will tell you how to meet me! Just hold up to your own end of the bargain!

_{By the way--what do yo do to your "mystery women"---have you ever met one before----I usually make plans for my mystery men!?}

BABEELOVE:

I will suprise you! When I get there, I will tell you how to meet me! Just hold up to your own end of the bargain!

_{By the way--what do yo do to your "mystery women"---have you ever met one before----I usually make plans for my mystery men!?}

Never met a "mystery woman". But, I'm intrigued!

_{* Hmm, always try to avoid temptation. Is it always possible?*}

Mmmm. . . . . .

Siena:

Never met a "mystery woman". But, I'm intrigued!

[sub]* Hmm, always try to avoid temptation. Is it always possible?*[/[/b]sub]

[b]Mmmm. . . . . .

Somethings are not worth fighting against! So let's just say---we shall see?

Hehe! You want to bet? I have a great capacity to resist, my dear Militia!

big bro, what are u resisting here
your little sis is here o
am peeping

why did keep me waiting the 
u kno now

Siena:

Hehe! You want to bet? I[b] have a great capacity to resist[/b], my dear Militia!

You only make me wanna chase harder! ---I like those "hard" to get types! You go Romeo! Go hide! I shall definitely seek ye forth!

efuah:

big bro, what are u resisting here
your little sis is here o
am peeping

why did keep me waiting the
u kno now

Sorry sis, had a client turn up, and he wouldn't stop talking!

BABEELOVE:

You only make me want to chase harder! ---I like those "hard" to get types! You go Romeo! Go hide! I shall definitely seek ye forth!

And I run faster! With my size 13 feet, I could practically run up the side of a building!

Militia, the guy said he was sick and it could be anything from pneomania to bronchitis, your 'spreading disease' tirade was totally uncalled for. . . or perhaps you know a lot more about the guy on a personal level, no?

Siena:

Sorry sis, had a client turn up, and he wouldn't stop talking!

And I run faster! With my[b] size 13 feet[/b], I could practically run up the side of a building!

how far can an almighty size 13 triple wide load run for heaven's sakes?---hmmmmmmmmm! there is a lot you can do with a size pair of "feet" oh! But too much meat to run fast!   Even if you are Shaquille O'neal?   Look- a- Hia!

_{Aint no mountain high enough!---aint no river wide enough to keep me from youuuuuuuuuuuuu!!!!!}

grafikdon:

Militia, the guy said he was sick and it could be anything from pneomania to bronchitis, your 'spreading disease' tirade was totally uncalled for. . . or perhaps you know a lot more about the guy on a personal level, no?

he he he he he he he he he he!   I see!  Where were you when he was vomitting his own personal tirade?   You Nairalanders never seize to amaze my "humble" self.----you and your gang mentality---I may be silent when you attack me, but don't think I have be any means forgotten.  I just wait for the right time to give it back to you served cold and damp!  So Mr. grafikdon--anything else?

BABEELOVE:

how far can an almighty size 13 triple wide load run for heaven's sakes?---hmmmmmmmmm! there is a lot you can do with a size pair of "feet" oh! But too much meat to run fast! Even if you are Shaquille O'neal? Look- a- Hia!
_{Aint no mountain high enough!---aint no river wide enough to keep me from youuuuuuuuuuuuu!!!!!}

Ah, but like an automobile with big, wide tyres, my size 13's give me better stability round corners!

Can lift heavier loads too, without tipping forward! ^{*Think of a forklift truck*}

Siena:

Ah, but like an automobile with big, wide tyres, my size 13's give me better stability round corners!

Can lift heavier loads too, without tipping forward! ^{*Think of a forklift truck*}

Ouch!!!!! Mad man! Like I said---loaded with options---sounds good! We just have to workirrrrrout!

BABEELOVE:



he he he he he he he he he he! I see! Where were you when he was vomitting his own personal tirade? You Nairalanders never seize to amaze my "humble" self.----you and your gang mentality---I may be silent when you attack me, but don't think I have be any means forgotten. I just wait for the right time to give it back to you served cold and damp! So Mr. grafikdon--anything else?

Militia Milli Da Milli, I think you're are mixing me up with somebody else . I am not familiar with the poster because this is the first time I came across that name on this forum. . . don't see the poster insulting you on the thread. . . perhaps whatever it was he said to you was deleted. . . I have no idea. I am very positive I have never attacked you nor anyone on this forum for that matter (except Mohadana/Dimka/Okoroamadi/Pilas, ABA4Lyfe and Chichi88 and I did not even attack them. . . I merely asked them to shut it 'cause their tribal tirade was getting too ugly). If you think my reply to you was an ''Attack/insult", you got it all wrong. I merely thought your outburst was unnecessary.

If you had a beef with the poster on another thread, you shoulda said so instead of accusing me of 'ganging up and insulting' you.

grafikdon:

Militia Milli Da Milli, I think you're are mixing me up with somebody else . I am not familiar with the poster because this is the first time I came across that name on this forum. . . don't see the poster insulting you on the thread. . . perhaps whatever it was he said to you was deleted. . . I have no idea. I am very positive I have never attacked you nor anyone on this forum for that matter (except Mohadana/Dimka/Okoroamadi/Pilas, ABA4Lyfe and Chichi88 and I did not even attack them. . . I merely asked them to shut it 'cause their tribal tirade was getting too ugly). If you think my reply to you was an ''Attack/insult", you got it all wrong. I merely thought your outburst was unnecessary.

If you had a beef with the poster on another thread, you shoulda said so instead of accusing me of 'ganging up and insulting' you.

Now good!  Next time do not jump into something you know nothing of!   Go back and read his posts  okay!   Unlike most---I may have occupationally harzardous insomnia---but not retarded in the least.  I have an excellent memory!  I did not think you were insulting me ooooooooooooh. Just wanted to set the records straight!
The beef is obvious when I said that he should "stay the heck out of ma way"!!!!  Well, now we are straight!  Nothing spoil.

_{I don't "bitch" with guys! Unless they have a "P***Y" between their legs-and boy you have quite a few of them here!}

Militia, what[i] are [/i] you doing up at this hour? I thought I was the insane one with insomnia!