₦airaland Forum

Gentino:
Those elders are just reminding Tinubu that he is their mates and should quit presidential race with immediate effect. Tinubu is too old to rule Nigeria, he should return to his grandchildren at Iragbiji village asap.

Edu3Again:
This is what happens when you have an Agbero owning & running the state.

God forbid this same Agbero ends up as President, so he can also own the whole Nigeria

Balistic4:
Someone keeps saying he developed lagos and I dare to say that lagos is joke when compared to states of other countries of its mate.

Private businesses developed lagos. I've worked in lagos and I know what businesses surfer in that state. My company then couldn't afford to put sign post in their office for fear of extortion as big as they were. Many offices suffer the same fate.

My friend went to lagos to open a shop, he closed down after three months and ran down to abuja due to extortion. What lagos state government is good at doing is ripping businesses apart.

Zetty177x:
When Tinubu enters, you guys will pay more to MC oluomo's team..if u like don't vote wisely

Carcholce:
Comrade off the Mic please. Don’t loud it

yungz:
@kbower


with emphasis on loyalty, why did you send her out?
i don’t know where women adopt this behavior of disrespecting their spouse once they leave nigeria?

your wife disrespect’s you in nigeria and you still have the mind to relocate her to a country that gives women the veto power to useless their spouse.

sentiment asides, a form of transaction in exchange for exposure or connects would probably hold someday between your spouse and y/friend in liverpool or mr mike.

ps: if your kids are minor please leave them in nigeria.

Carcholce:
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OP, sorry in advance. Not saying she’s going to cheat on you but she’ll so pepper you that you’ll be forced to become a SIMPle gentleman.


I can imagine how you’ll feel when She tells you her new man friend or Mr Mike is coming to help her set up the new TV and then her phone becomes unreachable till the next day because her phone died and Nepa took light in the UK.


PS. Please we need to see picture of her assx for complete data assessment.

Okonandmary:
You will lose your wife soon.
Just a little freedom and she is misplacing her priorities.

Sometimes i winder why it is difficult for some women to play along as a team reaching a goal with their husbands

I will advice you not to worry yourself, the cure for this isn't to run yourself down with hypertension. Stop caring and acting like you cant live without her.

kbower:
Hi Nlanders

We all know no marriage is all that smooth and rosey, we all that are in it have challenges here and there, and for almost 11 years now, out of tolerance, ruggedity, minding my business in terms of taking care of the family have always been something that has held my marriage down, because the majority of the issue I have with my wife have always been issues of trust, transparency, accountability, respect and loyalty.

Some people will say with these things I have listed, that I may be asking for too much, but I can tell whoever would reason that way that it's not too much because am a responsible father/husband that have never for once strayed the family in anyway that will make me lack any of the above stated qualities a man can enjoy from a wife.

Why am I here? Ok.. After enduring so much for 11 years, we are relocating to the UK, she is the main applicant, myself and the 3 children are dependants, she traveled first, leaving myself and the 3 kids behind until she can secure accommodation b4 we leave.

I have heard about countless incidences of how SOME women treat their husbands and the POWER zoned to women in that country which makes it almost impossible for a man with a wife that gives him constant problem to be able to thrive in that country.

I just want to state three peculiar incidences that occured during her 1month stay over there that is already making me feel I have alot to face over there, though I know my God is bigger than anything, I just want people that are over there, or people that are experienced here and all over who are capable of handing a good advise for me on getting there to know how I can fare and withstand what is to come.

Based on the above from the major incidences I have experienced with her, first two weeks of being there, she had gone to check a house b4 heading to school, on her way back to school, she claimed she didn't take enough money and going back home might not be possible, I asked how she would wanna go about it
and she replied saying I will borrow money from Mr Mike, a man she just met at school on her first day of registration. I was like that's wrong, you don't form familiarity with someone you just met in another man's country, I said I will call a friend in liverpool to send you money and you could get your train ticket. She fumed, but I stood my ground and said that's how its going to be. I have asked her to collect a friends account details, since she has not opened an account yet, she said when her class finishes by 8.30pm she'll request details from her friend so the money can be sent. Fast forward to closing period, I messaged her to send me details, she ignored, I called ad she said nobody has an account that I should not worry she will sort herself, I was now like you just got to that country, u have no friends that u know too well to rely on, I am ur hubby and I opened a way for u to get money easily, yet u didn't make any effort to redeem the opportunity, omo she hung up on me then later called back that she gathered few pennies she had to get the ticket, I was now like why didn't u just say this instead of putting me on pressure over how to get money to convey u all the way from london to Luton, over an hour journey at night.

Secondly, on her next school day, she had previously told me prior to her closing hours that her data has finished and she's using schools wifi, that the moment she steps out from school to head home, she won't be having access to internet, etc WhatsApp and all of that, but importantly was to make use of GPS google map, that's what people over there use to navigate their way in order not to get lost, I was like without internet how do u intend to get to ur destination when u know how stressful it was for u getting lost the other day, now the same statement she made was, I will sort myself. I was raged and said woman I will ask my friend to buy u data so u can get home easy and safe, she said no proble, that she's leaving now, I said well since i wont be able to reach you on whats app, I will definitely call you on normal call shortly to give you the data pin to load. She said no P and hung up.

Moments later, my friend had sent me the data pin, na so I begin dey call wifey oo, over 15 missed calls she nor pick. Later she called back and said her phone was in her laptop bag and her hands were frozen so she couldnt put hands in the bag to pick the call and that she didn't even hear it ring.

The issue I posted up there are issues of not being accountable, and attitude of not showing that you don't need me when its not just about that but for security and your well being knowing fully well you are new in the country and proper guidelines needs to be taken.

Another incident happened 3rd week after her arrival, we were video chatting while she was on a train station waiting for train, next thing I noticed was a guy sitting BEHIND her, the guy boldly took a peep into her phone directly, seemingly trying to see who she was on video call with, immediately i called her attention to it, she just smiled and looked back and said silently, nawa some people for this London nor go mind their business. This very day developed a story that transitioned towards few things I will be stating.

The next sunday, I called her in the morin to say hi and all that, next thing I know she dun dey go church, she nor even discuss am with me and na wetin we dn agree on sey we fo jointly choose church wey we go dey go. After church service, she call me sey that guy wey i talk sey dey peep into her phone, sey the guy that very day asked her how long shes been there for, she said, just 3 weeks, sey how come she come take know road when him don dey 3months he nver know road, sey that same guy him coincidentally meet am for the new church wey she come so, sey the guy dey look am, she comot eye, but later the guy come meet am sey are u not the one that showed me way to where I was going. Sey as him meet the guy coincidentally for church, he fit be sey he get why, maybe for job connection or what not. I nor say anything, cos coincidences arent something new in this world. Then the next day, she call me sey that same guy needs an apartment, sey na married guy with 4 kids, but him wife and 1kid dey here, 3 dey nija them nor fit come yet until house is ready, sey him dey ask her if she can help him get someone that can reference for him to get a house, ha him my wife come dey ginger me sey make i help am talk to my friend wey help us reference if him go fit help the guy too. I come sey no problem, she sey she go call the guy now and put us on 3 way call, i sey no p, i come dey wait for call, no call come and madam nor talk again, i come ring her sey hafa u nor do the three way call again? She sey the guy dey work, him nor fit talk,sey she don give the guy my number to call me later, me come sey no p, send him number I go save am down so if he calls i go know sey na him, madam nor gree send number, I come dey wonder sey wetin dey sup sef, normally I nor spose reason ahead, but me my instict dey very strong, i come begin dey put two and two together sey maybe the guy intention was never to get help but to use style dey hit on my madam maybe na why him nor wan talk to me but wan use my madam dey take communicate.

I come ask madam some some questions on previous ish, I come find out sey small lie dey, so I tackler her sey the way she take explain to me about how him meet the guy for train station nor join, she come vex sey me i come am liar, omo as we dey talk for whatsapp, i nor blv sey my madam added this guy to the call without my consent or my knowledge, so as I dey talk, the guy dey the background, i nor even know anything and the dude himself kept quiet, na after the call finish, I see am for call details sey the guy was added to the call, infact the dude even called me directky i nor pick. Now i got very angry, come call madam sey wetin dey sup, u added this dude wey talk sey him dey work him nor fit talk to the call wey me and u dey on and u didnt even notify me, ok lets agree sey if to sey u wan tell me sey u wan add the guy for call sey i nor go gree sey maybe na why u add am without my consent, at least after u add am secretly, u are suppose to talk and sey bae, since u are accusing me wrongly.

I have added the guy to this call so he can clear me out, but she didnt, she just added the guy and the dude himself kept quiet and didnt say a word until I hung up. I got very furious and told her this is the highest level of see finish and dragging in the mud, wetin u want that guy to dey feel like now? She said shes sorry that she only wanted to clear herself, I was now like even if u wanted to clear urself, if that the best way to go about it, the person who is the subject matter is the best person u need to introduce to clear u out? Later on i just bone the matter come apologise sey make we move on, na so she come begin dey yarn plenty, sey she call the guy that my hubby said that the way we met is unreal, sey the guy sef come talk sey wow, so your husband already thinks am sleeping with you, but i cant blame u though, u know u have a big back side, so thoughts like that from him is likely not a surprise, i was hmmmm to hear that, i come tell madam sey if na true this guy talk this thing, shouldnt u already know he has corny itentions, she said well she too dey wonder cos the two times wey them meet she nor wear wetin fit show her bkside so how d guy come take know. The matter end there, next day madam still dey worry me sey shey I go still help d guy, I was like I cant even talk to him, u dun useless me already for him presence, she dey claim sey she nor do anything wrong by adding him to the call, sey the guy know of agency wey fit help me get better job if i arrive, and sey the guy talk sey if me fit connect am to my friend to reference am for house, him go link me up fr the agency. I talk sey i nor dey interested. Omo I weak. Guys I need advise on how to handle issues over there, cos me nor dey take nonsense for nija here, but for there, one needs to chill, but then should it now be sey because we dey live for country wey give woman power, make woman come use that opportunity come dey fumble?

foleskay:

Copy copy party. His media team,after seeing the Atiku attire to the US,decided to release this photo of Tinubu in suit. PDP is still better and more mature than APC times five.

BTW,when is tinubu beginning his campaign tour abi he dey scare of wat to tell the masses. . Atiku don cover three states already,tinubu and obi never cover anything. PDP is more prepared.

niggadee:
Lagos has a potential to be a country

NuruDiddy:
Nothing concern us with Lagos. Nigeria is our mission.
If someone want to be a slave,we can't force them not to be.
Lagosians have vowed that Tinubu will be their god even after his death so it's their fucking business.
Lagosians are so lazy that they always hope on someone to feed them.

Nigeria is our project not Lagos.

Belluski:
Comic relief.... you wore and decided to change, why the change of cloth?.... lol
It’s obvious and clear, it’s not a self decision but a money motived decision...
this Lagos is full of clowns �

hotwax:
Let's tell you how Lagos works.

Tinubu owns both APC and PDP in Lagos.

Jimi Agbaje is Tinubu boy. He has been under Tinubu payroll. He did not contest to dislodge APC in Lagos. He was just contesting under Tinubu's instruction.

Most Yoruba PDP members in lagos worship Tinubu. I knew they will all line up behind tinubu at last minutes especially the Muslims and agbero among them.

Jandon is not loyal to tinubu, but PDP party structure is loyal to Tinubu, that's why they are not supporting Jandon. They are all Tinubus foot soldiers. PDP does not exist in Lagos.

However, the tricky part is PDP voters have increased in Lagos. Yoruba Christians and Igbos. If the election is going to be free and fair, Jandon has a chance.

Ajebaba:
APC has no opposition in Lagos state, know this and know peace ✌️

LeoDeKing:
Slow and steady is the rule for winning the game.

Tinubu is the next president of the fed rep of Nigeria.

oluseyiforjesus:
Take it or leave it, it will be difficult to take Lagos from APC but Nigerians are taking this country back..... Nigeria no bi Lagos

MrFixIt007:
Who were those who counted the people?

The person who counted the 5000 should give accurate details like numbers of women, men, boys, and girls. All the numbers of people defecting are always in whole numbers....You will not see 4996, 4867

Falseprofet2:
China started rebuilding their country in the late 70s. And within a span of 35 yrs have risen so fast
Dubai in the 80s

Nigeria has had several oil windfalls from the 70s to the 90s we have wasted it
Today we either blame America or we blame Jews conspiracy
I pity for blackman and his lack of sense

Those quoting me and saying nonsense god punisj you
Did america stop you from building hospitals and roads in your community
Or did Jewish conspiracy that does not even exist blow up the fake transformers you keep importing

Dreynox:
These Chinese people go just dey do anyhow....

If time is not taken, they'll have Branches of their country in other countries..... Chinese Republic Nigerian Branch,....... Chinese Republic South African Branch ..... Chinese Republic Mozambique Branch......Omo


Stupid you,,,,, who's talking about embassy, or you did not see where I used Republic in place of Embassy, I'm talking about establishing their own Government in certain countries....The problem with people like you is that you think you have sense, meanwhile reverse is the case......Ode....Oponu Ayerada .....Oloshi

HonNL:
SOURCE

Deenee34:
Taking his campaign to USA, Atiku has silent those shouting that he can't visit or enter USA

Shame on you and go hide your face

Bobloco:
The picture below aptly describes your current state

zeuss:
An illitrate speaks.

BATified2023:
Igbos n wailing

NigeriaIsGreat:
Tinubu is sure the next president to succeed Buhari

Tochj:
If Buhari daughter can use our Airforce 1 for her picnic, Any other person can use it for anything.
Buhari presidency has brought the country to ridicle.

Thanksful:
Why should they use it in the first place?

The presidency's honour is almost gone.

Samantha123:
Cat lovers in the house, I need your advise.

I have a cat that I buy cat food for, but this same cat doesn't seems to be content with only its food anymore and would eventually come to me with a big visible full stomach and still beg for food from me whenever I eat.

It wasn't like this before and it only started recently.

I don't believe in beating up domestic animals, especially cats, but I sometimes find myself fighting over a plate of food with this cat and whenever I try to shout at it, most of the time it would meow back at me instead of being frightened.

I'm worried that one day it's gonna display these same manners towards visitors when I offer them food and I know how a lot of black Africans hate cats and can't stand them.

What can I do to make it stop begging for food whenever I eat?

inoki247:
lol with everything we are going through in this country na changing of currency be the next thing.....

Buhari fit neva know like that maybe na inside Newspaper e go read am....

general111:
Calm down, you dont sit in your house and demand that people should be sacked.
You should be asking the cbn chief to explain to nigerians the benefit of what he is trying to do.