Dear Nairalanders, please I caught my younger sister on the act committing adultery with a Married Man in her bedroom through her window.
Please advise me. What should I do?

wedco666:
Dear Nairalanders, please I caught my younger sister on the act committing adultery with a Married Man in her bedroom through her window.
Please advise me. What should I do?

Please dm me her phone number and lemme advise her, instead of advising you

wedco666:
in her bedroom through her window.

How is this possible?

Tolexander:
Please dm me her phone number and lemme advise her, instead of advising you

what kind of advise do you want to give her?

I guess your sister isn't like the regular girls in Nigeria. She got some morals and dicknities.

Thanks to her brother's......... 😯

Tolexander:
Please dm me her phone number and lemme advise her, instead of advising you

Please WhatsApp me on O8108123164.

joseph1832:
what kind of advise do you want to give her?

My brother, I will like you also to advise her.
I will send her to you to advise her when I finish with her 😀

wedco666:

Please WhatsApp me on O8108123164.

Alright bro.

wedco666:
Dear Nairalanders, please I caught my younger sister on the act committing adultery with a Married Man in her bedroom through her window. Please advise me. What should I do?

Why were you peeking through her window though? Is this like a habit of yours or what?

Kobojunkie:
Why were you peeking through her window though? Is this like a habit of yours or what?

I was hearing a sound and became suspicious.

wedco666:
■ I was hearing a sound and became suspicious.

You heard sexual noise coming from the room and the first thing that came to your head was to peek through the window were two supposed adults, one of them your blood sibling, were engaged in sexual acts. Are you joking?

in her bedroom through her window.

What were you looking for to begin with? Start from there then I’ll advice you.

Kobojunkie:
You heard sexual noise coming from the room and the first thing that came to your head was to peek through the window were two supposed adults, one of them your blood sibling, were engaged in sexual acts. Are you joking?

Junkie you are indeed one hell of a junkie. He should have called the police.

Nicepoker:
Junkie you are indeed one hell of a junkie. He should have called the police.

Do you equally advise his sister to call the cops every time she hears sexual noises coming from his room as well? When giving advice, try to first reason the logicality of the solution you offer.

Kobojunkie:
Do you equally advise his sister to call the cops every time she hears sexual noises coming from his room as well? When giving advice, try to first reason the logicality of the solution you offer.

He said younger sister.

Nicepoker:
He said younger sister.

Well, assuming she is of age— at least 18 —, is she not allowed to have sex or what? OP is willing to give her number to strangers so that leads me to believe there maybe something that OP is not telling us in this.

Tolexander:
My brother, I will like you also to advise her.
I will send her to you to advise her when I finish with her 😀

lmao.

Kobojunkie:
Well, assuming she is of age— at least 18 —, is she not allowed to have sex or what? OP is willing to give her number to strangers so that leads me to believe there maybe something that OP is not telling us in this.

I wanted to face this situation with maturity. The young man lives in our area with a wife and three children. I don't want to destroy his marriage and I don't want my sister to be labelled all over the town as a husband snatcher.
I need the best advice.
Any interested can WhatsApp me on O8108123164.

wedco666:
■ I wanted to face this situation with maturity. The young man lives in our area with a wife and three children. I don't want to destroy his marriage and I don't want my sister to be labeled all over the town as a husband snatcher. I need the best advice. Any interested can WhatsApp me on O8108123164.

I am certain your sister and the man are well aware of the consequences of their actions. So, I don't see how your trying to protect the man will help with anything. Sadly, it is true that the warped culture there would label your sister a husband snatcher, and allow the man to go scot-free if you were to expose them. But at the same time, you are turning a blind eye or advising your sister may not change things at all between her and the man. Also, the truth is bound to surface sooner or later, and you may even be implicated at that point. So tell us what exactly you want to see happen here.

Kobojunkie:
I am certain your sister and the man are well aware of the consequences of their actions. So, I don't see how your trying to protect the man will help with anything. Sadly, it is true that the warped culture there would label your sister a husband snatcher, and allow the man to go scot-free if you were to expose them. But at the same time, you are turning a blind eye or advising your sister may not change things at all between her and the man. Also, the truth is bound to surface sooner or later, and you may even be implicated at that point. So tell us what exactly you want to see happen here.

I want her to be warned to quit the relationship.

wedco666:
■ I want her to be warned to quit the relationship.

Then boldly speak to her and then to the man directly regarding the problem at least. And then go from there on what to do next.

Kobojunkie:
Then boldly speak to her and then to the man directly regarding the problem at least. And then go from there on what to do next.

I have advised her to quit the relationship for her own good. I told her I saw everything through her window.
I told her it's for her own good.

wedco666:
■ I have advised her to quit the relationship for her own good. I told her I saw everything through her window. I told her it's for her own good.

Did you equally confront/scold the man? Or are you only interested in scolding your sister and not the married man who walked into her room of his volition?

Through her window,you saw a married man pounding your younger sister?

Even the so called married man self no get dignity because from your write up,it seems the act all happened in your home.....

Kobojunkie:
Did you equally confront/scold the man? Or are you only interested in scolding your sister and not the married man who walked into her room of his volition?

Na my father get that one.

wedco666:
Na my father get that one.

Na your papa get the man wife whose marriage wey you talk say you wanted to protect as well earlier?

Come on! You and I know that the reason you took to scolding your sister alone isn't that she is your sister really, but rather because she is the woman in this. The fact that you took it upon yourself to peek through her window after hearing what you claim were suspicious sounds, shows this had to do with you wanting to assert some sort of authority over her right as a woman. You think she is to blame for the affair and the man is somehow innocent of it all when in fact he is the one who walked with his own two legs into your sister's room.

Kobojunkie:
Na your papa get the man wife whose marriage wey you talk say you wanted to protect as well earlier?

Come on! You and I know that the reason you took to scolding your sister alone isn't because she is your sister but rather because she is the woman in this. You think she is to blame for the affair and the man is somehow innocent of it all when in fact he is the one who walked with his own two legs into your sister's room.

If some women find out, she can be assassinated without knowing it was his wife who was responsible for the murder, or some women can go extra miles into diabolic acts. And you know what that means. They can be glued together.
So it's better she quit the relationship.
As for the man, he can still find another girl and continue with his adultery which is detrimental to the girl, himself and his marriage.
So the best thing is to advise her to quit the relationship and go for regular check up.

wedco666:
■ If some women find out, she can be assassinated without knowing it was his wife who was responsible for the murder, or some women can go extra miles into diabolic acts. And you know what that means. They can be glued together. So it's better she quit the relationship.
■ As for the man, he can still find another girl and continue with his adultery which is detrimental to the girl, himself and his marriage. So the best thing is to advise her to quit the relationship and go for regular check up.

Please stop telling us tales by moonlight abeg!

2. Your sister is in a relationship with the man; it takes two to be in a relationship. You want her to quit the relationship then you advice both of them to quit each other. Anything short of that is bias and nothing more. The man can of course find himself another gal but your primary concern should be that he quit the relationship with your sister. So you need to equally scold him and not tell fantastical tales of why you should not do so.

Kobojunkie:
Please stop telling us tales by moonlight abeg!

2. Your sister is in a relationship with the man; it takes two to be in a relationship. You want her to quit the relationship then you advice both of them to quit each other. Anything short of that is bias and nothing more. The man can of course find himself another gal but your primary concern should be that he quit the relationship with your sister. So you need to equally scold him and not tell fantastical tales of why you should not do so.

Are you a lady?