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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by jubrilELsudan: 2:09pm On Mar 01
YOU AND YOUR WHOLE FAMILY IS VERY STUPID

10 YEARS OF FVCKING YOUR SISTER FOR FREE AND YOU ARE STILL ASKING IF HE IS SERIOUS

I DEY VERY SURE SEY NA YOU BE THE SISTER

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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by rapheal5(m): 2:11pm On Mar 01
spartachico:
A whole 37 years old man, na him you dey call boy, someone that is near 40 is a boy to you ...speechless undecided undecided
Yes you can be 40yrs and still act like boy, I've seen alot of a fool at 40...

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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by toujurs: 2:14pm On Mar 01
lacapine:
Please house help me. My sister has been in a relationship with a guy for the past 10 years and the relationship is sexual. The boy is 37 while she is 34. The boy keeps claiming he doesn't have money to marry her, my sister will say why am I pushing marriage,will I give them money to sustain the home? I have called the guy and asked him questions and he said if I have 100k, I should give him, so they can marry. Abeg how do I handle this issue?

My sister works but she is always broke. The guy is an artist who does art work but sales is poor. Not that I ever knew when sales was good.

How should I handle it?
Your sister is 34? O ti lor grin. Evening newspaper preloaded.

Even if he settle down, it would never be your sister, He has seen your sister finish, there is a way a guy would Bleep a girl. Within him, he is done with her. Nothing in her entices him anymore.

She should better, look for a man, she can hang on, her retired puna.

Your sister, is still broke at 34? Kai it's her type that is plenty at the church.

Waiting for a bait, who would see her as a God fearing child. Women ehn. grin grin

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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Maobichek: 2:16pm On Mar 01
Jewessgratitud3:
Your sister is an adult and should know when to quit if a relationship is not leading anywhere. It's not you doing the calculations and taking decisions for her.

If the man is not financially ready at that age it's a bit disturbing, and looking at her own age too it's not advisable to continue waiting for him because the way this economy is going I don't think he will even be encouraged to do anything now. So, If she sees another man who's ready in all ramification let her go.

I'm not totally writing off her guy because anything can happen in just a twinkle of an eye but again, it may not happen so soon and your sisters age is climbing.. except she doesn't see who she likes because me na wetin still keep me at 42 I never see who I really like like my ex. I don't pray for hers to delay like mine.

If after trying to talk her out of the relationship she doesn't listen, let her be. Dem no dey tell blind man say run don start..

Good afternoon, it's not as easy as you think ok! 10 years sexual relationship is more than just a relationship. I believe that you are a woman but if you are not, please ask any woman what a 1p years sexual relationship means.

In a committed relationship,the more a woman have sex with a man, she changes mentally, emotionally and in other aspects of her life towards the man. Have you not realize that when a man and a woman is in a committed sexual relationship that the tend to resemble each other? It's not just physical but in all aspects.

She should talk to her sister but it would be easier for the man to adjust compare to her sister ok!

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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Kingrshd3: 2:19pm On Mar 01
lacapine:
Please house help me. My sister has been in a relationship with a guy for the past 10 years and the relationship is sexual. The boy is 37 while she is 34. The boy keeps claiming he doesn't have money to marry her, my sister will say why am I pushing marriage,will I give them money to sustain the home? I have called the guy and asked him questions and he said if I have 100k, I should give him, so they can marry. Abeg how do I handle this issue?

My sister works but she is always broke. The guy is an artist who does art work but sales is poor. Not that I ever knew when sales was good.

How should I handle it?

With my experience in life I realize longer relationships don't end in marriage ..
Both of them has already exhausted all what they should have enjoyed in marriage..

The truth is if the guy meet a new love or new heartrobe now sharperly he go marry am.

So it's not about financial stuff at all naturally him go get the money to do the marriage even if na small one..

So your sister should be waiting for her breakfast anytime soon or later ✍️

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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Ebukamatth(m): 2:21pm On Mar 01
You didn't just buy the crazy milk
You even bought the crazy cow
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by winner37(m): 2:22pm On Mar 01
lacapine:
Please house help me. My sister has been in a relationship with a guy for the past 10 years and the relationship is sexual. The boy is 37 while she is 34. The boy keeps claiming he doesn't have money to marry her, my sister will say why am I pushing marriage,will I give them money to sustain the home? I have called the guy and asked him questions and he said if I have 100k, I should give him, so they can marry. Abeg how do I handle this issue?

My sister works but she is always broke. The guy is an artist who does art work but sales is poor. Not that I ever knew when sales was good.

How should I handle it?

If truly you want the best for your sister give the guy 100k and see if he really wants to marry your sister..

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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Maobichek: 2:23pm On Mar 01
TrackerSK:
may God forgive our sins.I dated a lady like this for 15yrs but didn't marry her.

May God forgive you Amen.

This is evil in its highest realm.

God is not a man but you wasted someone daughter's life.
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by greypencils: 2:24pm On Mar 01
Bitter truth, even if she breaks up today, emotionally she isn't prepared for another relationship until the next 3-5 years. At age 34 - 39 there are only few people that will look your sister's way. The best option is for her to get serious with her job and get serious with saving. Then she should get pregnant for this guy and be prepared for any eventuality. If he takes up responsibility, claims the child and marries her, all good. If he doesn't, she should gird her loins, do away with the father and take care of her kid. Your sister must keep that child whether he wants it or not. 10 year relationship must not end like that without something to show for it. She will feel like the biggest loser ever. She won't recover from that slump. At 40, she would have become the bitter, old, dramatic baggage-lady lots of men would avoid.

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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by siant: 2:27pm On Mar 01
Drag that boy come my prayer mountain. He needs deliverance.

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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by finallybusy: 2:27pm On Mar 01
Encourage your sister to find a serious man if na marriage concern you. Something tells me both parties are happy in the situation, na only you get problem with am. The man may pick up financially in future. For now, however, he isn’t doing you or himself any favour.
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by DryMouth: 2:32pm On Mar 01
TheWinterBird:
Your sister is a big, big fool. And the man (a 37-year old male is a man, not a boy; I hope you don't address him as "a boy" to his face because that's likely enabling him to continue being lazy) who had the audacity to ask you to give him 100k to marry her is a chronic loser and moocher. I wonder why you didn't chase him away with a stick after he said that. You seem like a mumu for a big brother. Moreover, if you say your sister works but she's always broke, it's likely because she's giving him money. You need to find a way to talk some sense into her frontal lobe so she can leave him before she wastes another 10-years with him and continues being his atm. She's still young at 34 and should leave him now but the decision is hers to make.



34 years old woman is still young?

Keep dreaming

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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Majikmaleek: 2:34pm On Mar 01
You handle it by minding your business
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by MASTERCHIEF0847(m): 2:36pm On Mar 01
The guy is not serious and your sister as well.
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Bimpe29: 2:39pm On Mar 01
What a bizarre relationship! 10 long years without a clear cut plan for marriage is a sorry situation.

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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by LordReed(m): 3:01pm On Mar 01
lacapine:
Please house help me. My sister has been in a relationship with a guy for the past 10 years and the relationship is sexual. The boy is 37 while she is 34. The boy keeps claiming he doesn't have money to marry her, my sister will say why am I pushing marriage,will I give them money to sustain the home? I have called the guy and asked him questions and he said if I have 100k, I should give him, so they can marry. Abeg how do I handle this issue?

My sister works but she is always broke. The guy is an artist who does art work but sales is poor. Not that I ever knew when sales was good.

How should I handle it?

Stay out of it. Why are you pokenosing in the business of 30yr old adults? Stay in your lane abeg.

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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by spartachico(m): 3:13pm On Mar 01
cheesy cheesy grin
AfahaAbia:


He is right. That 37 years old mofo deserves to be called a boy. Keeping a woman that long without marrying her is a big red flag!
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by femi4: 3:14pm On Mar 01
lacapine:
Please house help me. My sister has been in a relationship with a guy for the past 10 years and the relationship is sexual. The boy is 37 while she is 34. The boy keeps claiming he doesn't have money to marry her, my sister will say why am I pushing marriage,will I give them money to sustain the home? I have called the guy and asked him questions and he said if I have 100k, I should give him, so they can marry. Abeg how do I handle this issue?

My sister works but she is always broke. The guy is an artist who does art work but sales is poor. Not that I ever knew when sales was good.

How should I handle it?
Leave them alone. Are you ready to take care of them and kids when they come to you for food
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by fortunechy(m): 3:15pm On Mar 01
Why don't u admit u are the sister here? Why do people in this platform always hide in the name of"she's my sister or my brother" if u say it's you will heaven fall?? Mchteeeeeeew!!
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by patorial(m): 3:24pm On Mar 01
Nah 37 year old you dey call boy??
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by zedegit: 3:31pm On Mar 01
lacapine:
Please house help me. My sister has been in a relationship with a guy for the past 10 years and the relationship is sexual. The boy is 37 while she is 34. The boy keeps claiming he doesn't have money to marry her, my sister will say why am I pushing marriage,will I give them money to sustain the home? I have called the guy and asked him questions and he said if I have 100k, I should give him, so they can marry. Abeg how do I handle this issue?

My sister works but she is always broke. The guy is an artist who does art work but sales is poor. Not that I ever knew when sales was good.

How should I handle it?

Na see finish dey cause this nonsense. He get mind say make you lend am money to marry your sister. Like you go still keep money for rent, Pampers, baby food.
He see say una dey desperate naim give am mind.

Your sister no kuku get sense sha. Kpele. sad

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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Tonytonex(m): 3:34pm On Mar 01
TheWinterBird:
Your sister is a big, big fool. And the man (a 37-year old male is a man, not a boy; I hope you don't address him as "a boy" to his face because that's likely enabling him to continue being lazy) who had the audacity to ask you to give him 100k to marry her is a chronic loser and moocher. I wonder why you didn't chase him away with a stick after he said that. You seem like a mumu for a big brother. Moreover, if you say your sister works but she's always broke, it's likely because she's giving him money. You need to find a way to talk some sense into her frontal lobe so she can leave him before she wastes another 10-years with him and continues being his atm. She's still young at 34 and should leave him now but the decision is hers to make.



❤️❤️❤️👍🏼

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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by ibinaboonline: 3:47pm On Mar 01
except she doesn't see who she likes because me na wetin still keep me at 42 I never see who I really like like my ex. I don't pray for hers to delay like mine.
Chai.

Jewessgratitud3:
Your sister is an adult and should know when to quit if a relationship is not leading anywhere. It's not you doing the calculations and taking decisions for her.

If the man is not financially ready at that age it's a bit disturbing, and looking at her own age too it's not advisable to continue waiting for him because the way this economy is going I don't think he will even be encouraged to do anything now. So, If she sees another man who's ready in all ramification let her go.

I'm not totally writing off her guy because anything can happen in just a twinkle of an eye but again, it may not happen so soon and your sisters age is climbing.. except she doesn't see who she likes because me na wetin still keep me at 42 I never see who I really like like my ex. I don't pray for hers to delay like mine.

If after trying to talk her out of the relationship she doesn't listen, let her be. Dem no dey tell blind man say run don start..
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by GboyegaD(m): 3:50pm On Mar 01
What kind of home did you guys grow up in? How was the relationship between your parents?

Your sister being in a relationship for that long leading no where (quite obvious) at her age speaks of deeper issue than the relationship overall.
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Sctests: 3:52pm On Mar 01
If he really wants to marry her, he can start with a little payment of dowry.

In reality, dem no dey marry woman finish.
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by spiceadole: 3:56pm On Mar 01
lacapine:
Please house help me. My sister has been in a relationship with a guy for the past 10 years and the relationship is sexual. The boy is 37 while she is 34. The boy keeps claiming he doesn't have money to marry her, my sister will say why am I pushing marriage,will I give them money to sustain the home? I have called the guy and asked him questions and he said if I have 100k, I should give him, so they can marry. Abeg how do I handle this issue?

My sister works but she is always broke. The guy is an artist who does art work but sales is poor. Not that I ever knew when sales was good.

How should I handle it?

Sorry to say but your sister is a fo.ol

The guy will not marry her even if he is rich

As for your 100K,give it to your sister to invest in her business and end that useless relationship

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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by MrDoGood(m): 3:58pm On Mar 01
lacapine:
Please house help me. My sister has been in a relationship with a guy for the past 10 years and the relationship is sexual. The boy is 37 while she is 34. The boy keeps claiming he doesn't have money to marry her, my sister will say why am I pushing marriage,will I give them money to sustain the home? I have called the guy and asked him questions and he said if I have 100k, I should give him, so they can marry. Abeg how do I handle this issue?

My sister works but she is always broke. The guy is an artist who does art work but sales is poor. Not that I ever knew when sales was good.

How should I handle it?

It cost less than 30k for statutory marriage. They should do that and be legal. Then do payment of bride price and blessing of marriage (if necessary) when they have free money.
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by MobilityMFR(m): 4:07pm On Mar 01
Your sister and the guy are not serious. Ten years she has been a "wife", yet still girlfriend. Don't waste your 100k, it's a scam.

lacapine:
Please house help me. My sister has been in a relationship with a guy for the past 10 years and the relationship is sexual. The boy is 37 while she is 34. The boy keeps claiming he doesn't have money to marry her, my sister will say why am I pushing marriage,will I give them money to sustain the home? I have called the guy and asked him questions and he said if I have 100k, I should give him, so they can marry. Abeg how do I handle this issue?

My sister works but she is always broke. The guy is an artist who does art work but sales is poor. Not that I ever knew when sales was good.

How should I handle it?
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by enemyofprogress: 4:09pm On Mar 01
Your sister is thirty four I just dey laff you sister. O ti lo
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by opera1(m): 4:09pm On Mar 01
You/your sister may not have a single child on earth IF care is not taken.
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by drlateef: 4:12pm On Mar 01
lacapine:
Please house help me. My sister has been in a relationship with a guy for the past 10 years and the relationship is sexual. The boy is 37 while she is 34. The boy keeps claiming he doesn't have money to marry her, my sister will say why am I pushing marriage,will I give them money to sustain the home? I have called the guy and asked him questions and he said if I have 100k, I should give him, so they can marry. Abeg how do I handle this issue?

My sister works but she is always broke. The guy is an artist who does art work but sales is poor. Not that I ever knew when sales was good.

How should I handle it?


Take my assurances to the bank, he does not want your sister as a wife. Otherwise he would have been the one pushing you guys to accept whatever he has for the marriage. Imagine that he is asking you to give him 100,000 for marriage? Is he joking or what?

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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Exceed15: 4:19pm On Mar 01
All his body language is telling your sister to avail herself for any man that is ready.

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