A video circulating online shows the bride's brother presenting her with a car gift on her wedding day, which has sparked mixed reactions.

The brother of the bride stepped forward onto the stage where the bride and groom were seated, holding a microphone. He publicly announced, "On behalf of the bride's family and the boys," then handed her a car key. He further announced that the bride's mother had promised to fuel the car with N1.5 million, eliciting cheers and screams of joy from the crowd.

Well-wishers in attendance subsequently escorted the bride and groom outside to where the car was parked.

However, this kind gesture has sparked mixed reactions on social media platforms as many opined that the public presentation of the gift was unnecessary, expressing that it should have been kept low-key rather than publicized.

What are your thoughts on this? Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments section.




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Hmm salivating already with what all these my brothers will gift me on my own day, I'm definitely getting a 🏠. Cars won't move me, I'll inform them before hand 😆. I love gifts no matter how small, just get me gifts, it mustn't be expensive. Package a popcorn 🍿 and gift me and I'll scream in excitement

What people are saying on X

People no get joy

Na still the husband property.

But how is this even a problem, all this poverty people mindset sha, her blood brother spoiling my wife so what’s there, as long as it ain’t no ex or bestie I’m good… if unna dey hate then go spoil ur own sis too now

Iamicekid:
But how is this even a problem, all this poverty people mindset sha, her blood brother spoiling my wife so what’s there, as long as it ain’t no ex or bestie I’m good… if unna dey hate then go spoil ur own sis too now

Naiija thing bro. In this part of the world, we value our ego more than anything. A man will be very poor but will be too proud to accept some odd job that can pay his bills.

benuejosh:
Na still the husband property.

👌👍💯

But the man has to be on top of his game too.


RoyalRoy

As a Nigerian woman, the biggest enemy of your progress is going to be the Nigerian society and the type of man you marry. Two big stumbling blocks if you’re not careful

Haters will always have what to say. All haters should go do their own weddings then spell the rules. Nothing wrong with a car gift or house gift on wedding day.

Werey people na im full X. If you want sensible reaction concerning the matter, go to Instagram.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with the public presentation of the car gift

Na bride papa dey dash daughter house as wedding present in the presence of guests. It is up to the newly wedded bride to add the husband's name to the property's document or not.

benuejosh:
Na still the husband property.

Legal owner, as per say na im name dey inside the car papers.

The brother knows who the sister is marrying.

Mindlog:
Na bride papa dey dash daughter house as wedding present in the presence of guests. It is up to the newly wedded bride to add the husband's name to the property's document or not.

Yea, I personally don't see any issue with that. Once the lady is cool and truly Inlove with the guy, everything will be fine. As a man, you just have to get something going for yourself too, so as not to totally depend on your wife's gifted properties.

Mindlog:


Legal owner, as per say na im name dey inside the car papers.

The brother knows who the sister is marrying.

😁😁😁😁

Nonsense reactions from bad belle people!

Why should the car gift be presented on a low-key Is it to massage the husband's ego or what? The husband is clearly happy with the whole thing, so why are these reactors taking paracetamol for another man's headache?

Obviously, those reacting negatively to this kind gesture are simply jealous of the couple! The fact that you're from a poor family who can't afford to gift you a car on your marriage day shouldn't make you react nonsensically when someone from a richer family is gifted a car unless of course, you're a witch!

Hmm, very wrong. They would have given it to the man of the house and also done it privately, they just fall the Man hand and also Dem don give the woman upper hand for the marriage, me way never get money, what do I no?.

bobbybrown007:
Hmm, very wrong. They would have given it to the man of the house and also done it privately, they just fall the Man hand and also Dem don give the woman upper hand for the marriage, me way never get money, what do I no?.

His brothers in-law bought a car as a wedding gift for their sister and should have registered the car in the groom's name as the man of the house and should have done so privately, so his fragile ego will not be bruised?

I guess if the bride's father was to give landed property as a wedding gift to his daughter, he should have the groom's name on the property documents as the man of the house?

If a man is struggling financially, I guess he is "safer" marrying a woman from a very financially poor background, so the woman will not be given upper hand in the marriage when her family gifts her plastic buckets and cups!

bobbybrown007:
Hmm, very wrong. They would have given it to the man of the house and also done it privately, they just fall the Man hand and also Dem don give the woman upper hand for the marriage, me way never get money, what do I no?.

The spirit of poverty has built duplex on your head, that's why you're reasoning this way. But I'll help you.

Go and buy a brand new bell, then lay your right hand on your head and use your left hand to ring the bell vigorously screaming poverty die die die poverty die.

Poverty die oooo poverty die.

Do it for at least 30 minutes and you'll be fine..

This I have seen.

Lol.. why the man dress like dat nah? Like Barman....
Na wa ooo..

Lol, smh.

Puss360:
Lol.. why the man dress like dat nah? Like Barman....
Na wa ooo..

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

FalseProphet1:

The spirit of poverty has built duplex on your head, that's why you're reasoning this way. But I'll help you.

Go and buy a brand new bell, then lay your right hand on your head and use your left hand to ring the bell vigorously screaming poverty die die die poverty die.

Poverty die oooo poverty die.

Do it for at least 30 minutes and you'll be fine..

This I have seen.

(I AM NOT THE PERSON YOU QUOTED O)


Thanks God u re talking like Christian. I will advise you to go and read what really caused feuds between SAUL & DAVID in the Bible.

In as much I'm not really going against the idea, but on many occasions, just little ACTION", could "destabilise", relationship, Marriage, family,business,even country.


What the brothers-in-law did, if the two couples don't handle it with "extremely great caution", .....the bride would be sent back to brother-in-law before a year wedding anniversary.(most especially if the husband yet to buy a car)

If I'm to be in position of brother in-laws and want go public.

I WILL PRESENT IT TO THE COUPLE BY HANDLING THE KEY TO THE GROOM, BUT THE PAPER WOULD CARRY BRIDE's NAME.

if I'm in position of bride.

IMMEDIATE THE BROTHERS HANDED OVER THE KEY TO ME, I WOULD HAND OVER IT TO MY HUSBAND.

all these are needed in other not to bruise egos and to fashion in peace in the marriage, I biliv the ultimate goal of parties involved is to have long lasting and peaceful marriage.

PEOPLE DO BLAMING MARRIAGE INSTITUTION WHEN IT FAILS, BUT NOT BLAMING THE ACTIONS AND INACTIONS THAT LED TO ITS FAILURE.

Fiscus105:
If I'm to be in position of brother in-laws and want go public.

I WILL PRESENT IT TO THE COUPLE BY HANDLING THE KEY TO THE GROOM, BUT THE PAPER WOULD CARRY BRIDE's NAME.

if I'm in position of bride.

IMMEDIATE THE BROTHERS HANDED OVER THE KEY TO ME, I WOULD HAND OVER IT TO MY HUSBAND.

all these are needed in other not to bruise egos and to fashion in peace in the marriage, I biliv the ultimate goal of parties involved is to have long lasting and peaceful the marriage.

PEOPLE DO BLAMING MARRIAGE INSTITUTION WHEN IT FAILS, BUT NOT BLAMING THE ACTIONS AND INACTIONS THAT LED TO ITS FAILURE.

Nice one, bro. At least the groom will not feel belittled or lesser of himself. But then, it all boils down to understanding.

Congratulations to them

benuejosh:
Na still the husband property.

how is it the husband property? Is the husband's name written on the car receipt?

Villa12:
how is it the husband property? Is the husband's name written on the car receipt?

😁😁😁

bobbybrown007:
Hmm, very wrong. They would have given it to the man of the house and also done it privately, they just fall the Man hand and also Dem don give the woman upper hand for the marriage, me way never get money, what do I no?.

go and make money and stop reasoning like a toddler. How can i be angry because my wife siblings or friends gift her a car? I be witch or i be enemy of progress? If a man feel intimidated by ordinary car gift given to his wife, tell me how that man will feel if his wife got multi-million dollar contract?

My kinda guy

Gud4her