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Did I Do Wrong? by Sonnobax15(m): 9:45pm On Mar 21
Good evening my fellow Nairalanders ...... Hope you all had a great day....

Well, lemme go straight to the point.....So, just this morning,as I rode my keke out,a lady stopped me and she came on board and sat at the back seat.........Just before I could move, another lady stopped me.....With the help of my side mirror,I discovered she was a plus size lady,like she's fat,sorry no offense sad ........As she came closer,I told her--"madam,na two seats you wan collect?" I didn't know how it fell on her ears as she flared up and was so angry.....She started raining insults on me while the other lady was busy laughing.......I couldn't take it and I had to reply her--"Madam,no be me pump you" angry I knew she was ready for a fight,so I just rode out so as not to spoil my day.......



So my question is,was I wrong to say those words to her? Why do women hate body shaming but at the same time dish out similar insults to men?

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Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Caaz: 9:48pm On Mar 21
Lolz the disadvantages of being on the far side.



Lolxx
Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Caaz: 9:49pm On Mar 21
You sef try construct space for chubby people inside your keke
Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Sonnobax15(m): 9:51pm On Mar 21
Caaz:
Lolz the disadvantages of being on the far side.



Lolxx
. angry Why she no just collect keke as dropping to avoid insults.....That's how one sat and broke my front seat the other time..... Only for her to pay me #100 while I ended up spending #800 just to fix the broken seat angry
Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Nlanalyst: 9:59pm On Mar 21
Caaz:
Lolz the disadvantages of being on the far side.



Lolxx
You must have enjoyed the ban. Welcome back.
Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Nlanalyst: 10:03pm On Mar 21
Caaz:

Omo_odo diaryland renowned bara.
You're boring, as always.
Re: Did I Do Wrong? by RoyalBlu(f): 10:04pm On Mar 21
You know, there are some people you'd tell that exact same thing, and they'd just laugh it off.
*As our faces are different, so are our temperaments.

What you told her can be categorized as body shaming... So now you know better than to 'yab' strangers in that form.
Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Caaz: 10:06pm On Mar 21
Abizz my boy,come caution your boy boy Nlanalyst.


Make una come give ham stipends.

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Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Caaz: 10:08pm On Mar 21
Sonnobax15:
. angry Why she no just collect keke as dropping to avoid insults.....That's how one sat and broke my front seat the other time..... Only for her to pay me #100 while I ended up spending #800 just to fix the broken seat angry
What if she nor de bouyant?
Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Sonnobax15(m): 10:10pm On Mar 21
RoyalBlu:
You know, there are some people you'd tell that exact same thing, and they'd just laugh it off.
*As our faces are different, so are our temperaments.

What you told her can be categorized as body shaming... So now you know better than to 'yab' strangers in that form.

ok ma'am...I really regretted my actions tho...
Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Caaz: 10:13pm On Mar 21
Abizz come take your stooge...birds of a feather.

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Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Puss360(f): 10:18pm On Mar 21
You were wrong on all aspects...
As a keke driver or any business man, once a potential customer comes near either to patronise you or view your merchandise, always be of good behaviour irrespective of the person shortcomings..
The woman is fat, okay that's fine, she's aware, so you just treat her like other passengers... Let her enter..

Even if other passengers don agree to enter, just go like dat.
. Afterall those that are obese are not much... In some cases , a full day, you might not carry one as a passenger...
So she needs your heartfelt apologies...
Lol

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Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Egoat(m): 10:29pm On Mar 21
Caaz:

Abizz,college news,eg.oat call your stooge Nlanalyst the beggar to order.


When I'll get started with him ,none of you should come to my DM to cry me a river.

Weyrey thought I was ban...e nor know say there's life outside nairaland.

How will you know there's life outside nairaland when you're known as a mature boy boy for people wey you senior.

When everything you owned is been donated to you as charity
Lolxx
You're just a lousy, bitter and frustrated attention seeker, Ahnie.
Get a life first.

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Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Acidosis(m): 10:33pm On Mar 21
Plus size people should normalise paying for two seats.

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Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Caaz: 10:34pm On Mar 21
Egoat:

You're just a lousy, bitter and frustrated attention seeker, Ahnie.
Get a life first.
First class bara boy in za hood.your fellow bara protege was the first to tickle my calm side.

Frail legs like that of a tick.

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Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Egoat(m): 10:36pm On Mar 21
Caaz:

First class bara boy in za hood.your fellow bara protege was the first to tingle my calm side.

Frail legs like that of a tick.
Whatever I am is pure bliss.
You should quote me when the sissy you call hubby can ever measure up to even the known least of men.
Shameless set of lowlifers.

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Re: Did I Do Wrong? by NIanalyst: 10:36pm On Mar 21
grin grin

2 by 2 don knack im husband.
Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Caaz: 10:36pm On Mar 21
Egoat:

Whatever I am is pure bliss.
You should quote me when the sissy you call hubby can ever measure up to even the known least of men.
Shameless set of lowlifers.

不不不不
Pure Bliss biscuits.
Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Caaz: 10:39pm On Mar 21
Puss360:
You were wrong on all aspects...
As a keke driver or any business man, once a potential customer comes near either to patronise you or view your merchandise, always be of good behaviour irrespective of the person shortcomings..
The woman is fat, okay that's fine, she's aware, so you just treat her like other passengers... Let her enter..

Even if other passengers don agree to enter, just go like dat.
. Afterall those that are obese are not much... In some cases , a full day, you might not carry one as a passenger...
So she needs your heartfelt apologies...
Lol
You needed to see how the tricycle guy I boarded sped past a plus sized lady heading towards my direction this evening,I had to tap him on his back to stop,he shook his head and sped off.

He cited her size as the reason.
Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Egoat(m): 10:40pm On Mar 21
NIanalyst:
grin grin

2 by 2 don knack im husband.
Shey e for even be person wey we no know her story? From the days of May, mama Divine and co even to her numerous threads showcasing the disgusting looking things she calls children. Werey was in all dms hustling for her daily crumbs.

All of a sudden, na me be the reason wey e no better for her husband. Oloriburuku somebody.

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Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Sonnobax15(m): 10:44pm On Mar 21
Puss360:
You were wrong on all aspects...
As a keke driver or any business man, once a potential customer comes near either to patronise you or view your merchandise, always be of good behaviour irrespective of the person shortcomings..
The woman is fat, okay that's fine, she's aware, so you just treat her like other passengers... Let her enter..

Even if other passengers don agree to enter, just go like dat.
. Afterall those that are obese are not much... In some cases , a full day, you might not carry one as a passenger...
So she needs your heartfelt apologies...
Lol
. My sister,her type dey condemn tyre bearings and also spoil seat..... I'm not trying to sound funny but I'm speaking from experience....
Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Caaz: 10:47pm On Mar 21
E painam egoat take heart. grin grin grin cheesy
I share your pains.
Glad you ve accepted I spoke the truth.
Re: Did I Do Wrong? by NIanalyst: 10:48pm On Mar 21
Egoat:

Shey e for even be person wey we no know her story? From the days of May, mama Divine and co even to her numerous threads showcasing the disgusting looking things she calls children. Werey was in all dms hustling for her daily crumbs.

All of a sudden, na me be the reason wey e no better for her husband. Oloriburuku somebody.
Na the entire family put together dey funny me.
Bunch of misfits. grin
Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Caaz: 10:49pm On Mar 21
Abizz your bara boys are entertaining us....should we get them pure Bliss biscuits??

grin grin

I m more concerned about the one that begged this items

The game pad.
Re: Did I Do Wrong? by RoyalBlu(f): 10:53pm On Mar 21
Sonnobax15:
ok ma'am...I really regretted my actions tho...

We learn everyday. The goal is to become better..

She too might go home and reflect on her actions and realize how differently she could have responded instead of rolling out insults.

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Re: Did I Do Wrong? by garriAndsugar: 10:57pm On Mar 21
Omo na only fat she fat she no kill person grin

Next time just use play play apologize if the fat person dey vex
Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Xosh: 11:29pm On Mar 21
I had to trail those items you said Nlanalyst begged in clearance sales to diary section and I believe you.
Caaz:
Abizz my boy,come caution your boy boy Nlanalyst.


Make una come give ham stipends.





Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Caaz: 11:33pm On Mar 21
Xosh:
I had to trail those items you said Nlanalyst begged in clearance sales to diary section and I believe you.
不不不

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Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Caaz: 11:40pm On Mar 21
Xosh:
I had to trail those items you said Nlanalyst begged in clearance sales to diary section and I believe you.
不不不


The shame drove him way from diary section 2 years ago.
He's a laughing stock there!He can't branch there to cough.
At some point he was fighting over wedding jellof rice不不 them con bounce ham from attending the wedding.

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Re: Did I Do Wrong? by Yashita: 5:21am On Mar 22
Na why I dey try prevent adding weight despite my love for food and no stress embarassed embarassed

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