Good day nairalanders

I had my surgery 3weeks ago, my mom was with before and after surgery, but she is diabetic and sick as well ...so my hubby asked her to go and rest, it's been 7 days she left, my hubby is trying his best to take care of me.

Today he complained bitterly about how he feels that he feeling single and not married, he is tired and he feels he will break down, I understand it is overwhelming for him because I have been d one doing everything before I fell sick, he is not used to chores.

Yesterday I forced myself to wash some clothes d outcome was crazy, I was shaking and dizzy and d pains just came back.

After his complain today I just feel worthless since I'm not doing anything, d doctors said I shouldn't do anything for 2months.

Having a house help is not even easy in our location, pls what can I do to help my husband, I don't like d way he complained and he is having body pains already.

Has anyone been in dis kinda situation, if I help do chores and take pain killer , what will be d consiquences of my action?

Pls help

Your husband should learn how to do it.
Perhaps, he might call one of his siblings for help.

Please oh don't work o just obey your doctors because if your operation relapse you could land back in the hospital with life threatening double Wahala.
Some of our men are just too arrogant and full of pride, what is there in taking care of the house?
Normally as a bachelor i wash, i clean, i cook and fetch the water i use, pls remember your doctor knows best.