I wish to have kids at early age. I have my own business,If I decide to marry right now now I can take care of the family alone but I have important things I want to do like building my own house.. We don't have a family house in my village. Building house is not easy especially in this present economy. If I can continue with the current pace in my business right now without problem, I can build the house in next 3 to 5 years.
I know I'm still young but when I see people who started family very early I wish I could do the same but I don't want to start what I cannot finish. I know marriage is not easy and requires maturity from both parties.. For me, I'm 28 but I can say I'm more matured than average.. I'm not making mouth 😊.. Age is not a measurement for maturity. I just can't get off the thought of having my own kid before 30 😢

Did you marry before 30? What was your experience ?Where you financially stable? What's your advice?
I wish this can be moved to front page 🙏

having children is a big responsibility just like building a house.... if you dont have enough money to do both, then choose wisely what you want to do 1st.

There is no formula for this thing. Just do it when you are convinced you have found a great life partner and you are both ready for it.

Dem no dey tell person o. You no dey stable, you wann go carry woman make e dey suffer with you

Your eyes will see shegee

Marrying wife and having kids na achievement?? You better build a house at least it's better and nack olosho.

Well, I'm single and I can't relate....

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I wish to have kids at early age. I have my own business,If I decide to marry right now now I can take care of the family alone but I have important things I want to do like building my own house.. We don't have a family house in my village. Building house is not easy especially in this present economy. If I can continue with the current pace in my business right now without problem, I can build the house in next 3 to 5 years.
I know I'm still young but when I see people who started family very early I wish I could do the same but I don't want to start what I cannot finish. I know marriage is not easy and requires maturity from both parties.. For me, I'm 28 but I can say I'm more matured than average.. I'm not making mouth 😊.. Age is not a measurement for maturity. I just can't get off the thought of having my own kid before 30 😢Did you marry before 30? What was your experience ?Where you financially stable? What's your advice?
I wish this can be moved to front page 🙏

Building a house is not easy in this economy but you think raising kids is?

And many here like to hate on me for declaring Nigerian parents as some of the worst in the world.

Kobojunkie:
Building a house is not easy in this economy but you think raising kids is?

And many here like to hate on me for declaring Nigerian parents as some of the worst in the world.

Nigerian parents are not the worst in the world. The condition and hardship in this country has shaped everyone to survival mode. They're trying their best.. You can't say the same for most wealthy parents ,they takes care of their children very well.

Kobojunkie:
Building a house is not easy in this economy but you think raising kids is?

And many here like to hate on me for declaring Nigerian parents as some of the worst in the world.

Building project can wipe like 5million you made in 2years at once but if you use it to take care of your family ,it can sustain you for a long time while you still replace some part of it from your day to day business.

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■ Nigerian parents are not the worst in the world. The condition and hardship in this country has shaped everyone to survival mode. They're trying their best.. You can't say the same for most wealthy parents ,they takes care of their children very well.

That was the same bloody excuse you lot used almost 60 years ago while raising kids in what what be considered conditions of abject poverty, and here you are offering up the same even now that you lot are more educated as a nation. Have you no shame at all? Na by force to have children when you know well you can't even afford to give them what they need to succeed? Na to continue to dey born like rats always carrying excuse for mouth una know to do well.

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Building project can wipe like 5million you made in 2years at once but if you use it to take care of your family ,it can sustain you for a long time while you still replace some part of it from your day to day business.

Millions of children in Nigeria alone are homeless and destitute, without anyone to care for them. They roam your streets every day with many entering and ending up in the hands of slave traders and pimps at the end. These children did not fall out of nowhere. They were born by people like you giving meaningless excuses for why it is OK to make babies when there is no money or resources available in hand to properly care for them. Yet even with all that, you think of yourself wiser than the 10s of millions before you who have more than proven it is a bad idea to raise kids in poverty. Again, I say, very wicked human beings!

Kobojunkie:
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Na you know wetin day make you para.
You're talking out of point.. Back to the topic.. I didn't say I'm poor to the extent I can't raise a kid. I didn't mention the number of kids I want to have. For me I can take care of at least a family of two.. If I have a perfect family house I would go straight and marry. Marrying and raising a family early has always been my greatest wish in life more than anything. I believe you have yours too.

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■ Na you know wetin day make you para. You're talking out of point.. Back to the topic.. I didn't say I'm poor to the extent I can't raise a kid. I didn't mention the number of kids I want to have. For me I can take care of at least a family of two.. If I have a perfect family house I would go straight and marry. Marrying and raising a family early has always been my greatest wish in life more than anything. I believe you have yours too.

As I said... Nigerians are among the most wicked parents in the world.