Guys this is not fair.

Apart from rape case. Why will you pregnant a lady when you know you won't marry her. Which you know it will have future implications on her

There is this girl I meant over a year we have been together. she is ok to be a wife character wise, respect, compact ability and others.

During our conversation in one of our discussions she reveal to me she is a baby mama. (Cold catch me)

I can't battle that mental stress and stigma. See what the whole scenero has caused her.

Guys stop destroying the future of these ladies. Pls be responsible. Ladies pls be wise most guys are crafty especially this generation

nkemjacob2:
Guys this is not fair.

Apart from rape case. Why will you pregnant a lady when you know you won't marry her. Which you know it will have future implications on her

Oga why apart from rape case...?

Biko expatiate!

nkemjacob2:
Guys this is not fair.

Apart from rape case. Why will you pregnant a lady when you know you won't marry her. Which you know it will have future implications on her

sometimes it happens by mistake and sometimes its the ladies stupidity

brain54:

Oga why apart from rape case...?

Biko expatiate!

she can't be in control

nkemjacob2:
Guys this is not fair.

Apart from rape case. Why will you pregnant a lady when you know you won't marry her. Which you know it will have future implications on her

There is this girl I meant over a year we have been together. she is ok to be a wife character wise, respect, compact ability and others.

During our conversation in one of our discussions she reveal to me she is a baby mama. (Cold catch me)

I cant batter that mental stress and stigma. See what the whole scenero has caused her.

Guys stop destroying the future of these ladies. Pls be responsible

that's how one shocked me sometime ago, my interest in her died immediately she told me she had a baby. though babies ain't bad anyway

nkemjacob2:
Guys this is not fair.
Apart from rape case. Why will you pregnant a lady when you know you won't marry her. Which you know it will have future implications on her
There is this girl I meant over a year we have been together. she is ok to be a wife character wise, respect, compact ability and others.
During our conversation in one of our discussions she reveal to me she is a baby mama. (Cold catch me)
I can't battle that mental stress and stigma. See what the whole scenero has caused her.
Guys stop destroying the future of these ladies. Pls be responsible. Ladies pls be wise most guys are crafty especially this generation

just because you cant be with a single mother, doesnt mean many wont.
BTW you are making it seem as if these women are so deluded/brainless that any man that says:" lets have sex with no condoms" then their brain cannot say NO. at the end of the day, the reality is that unprotected sex is sweeter BUT ONLY IF IT IS WITH THE RIGHT PERSON.
remember, having unprotected sex doesnt automatically mean pregnancy... so long as you know how to protect yourself.

but as i always say:
- use contraception, YOU NO WAN DO!
- use pull out technique, YOU NO WAN DO!
- cuum in mouth/nyansh, YOU NO WAN DO!
- morning after pill, YOU NO WAN DO!
- abortion, YOU NO WAN DO!
- give the baby up for adoption, YOU NO WAN DO!
but she wants to now cry crocodile tears because she is a single mother??!?!

The reason ladies need to use contraceptives and insist on condoms. Pregnancies affect women more than men. If it necessitates abortion, you do it. Unfortunately, there are not so many men like me who dread unplanned pregnancies either by conscience or economics. The Nigerian society operates on mistrust and being trickish, so always be on guard.