Please i need to know what makes one a big girl. Money, age, maturity, carriage or what?

Her size! The bigger her size, the bigger a girl she is

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Please i need to know what makes one a big girl. Money, age, maturity, carriage or what?

Sweetie u said it all.
Money- or at least access to steady supply
Age- above 18yrs definitely. Height plays a good role
Maturity- speaks for itself
Carriage- you can say that again. speaks volumes

may i also add- your choice and circle of friends?

Some called by the name BIG GIRL is not a lay who is rich, beautiful or has alot of boyfriends. Thers is a saying that once you are BIG you are BIG. A BIG GIRL is some one who is old enought to think for her self, respect herself where rever she goes. Some one who you can look up to as a role model that is some one good enougth to be called a BIG GIRL

maturity and independence

i think i agree with evermag to some extent. .

what makes one a big girl is basically confidence, security and independence added to the values already mentioned

zigbo:

i think i agree with evermag to some extent. .

me too

Her style, confidence, body stucture, how loaded she is financially, her connection, her level of education, her exposure in terms of where she visit, her circle of friends-her level, the way she speaks, walk, and interact with people. Just to mention a few.

Her style, confidence, body stucture, how loaded she is financially, her connection, her level of education, her exposure in terms of where she visit, her circle of friends-her level, the way she speaks, walk, and interact with people. Just to mention a few.

Nice one, to me her carriage,charisma and level of education.
Also a 'big girl'should be able to reason well and be financially
okay to an extent.
Her clique of friends also matter a lot.

COOL THREAD, TO ME HER CHARISMA, INDEPENDENCE, MATURITY, SELF RESPECT AND HUMILTY COUPLED WITH NICE HEIGHT AND GOOD APPEARANCE MAKES D LADY A BIG GIRL

you have said it all .

is doesn't necessarily mean that the level of your money or education will quantify one in the class of big girl. i think a big is one that will take responsibility at all time , some whom you can give a work to do and the person will do it better than the way it was before and another thing is your PRO to people around you cos that counts as a big girl cos if one lacks that no big girl.

one who can manager little resource to archive efficiency without duress nor fret and your courage when it comes to dealings.

maturity, intelligence, friends, ride, clothes, job, glasses , choice of perfume , height, backside ,and maybe small pepper

her maturity and if she know what life is all about, don't be suprise alotta gurls don't what life is all about to them, !

By virtue of socializing, a big girl could also be called a Diva.

Being a big girl could either be possitive or negative, possitive big girl is the type that fits this description:

carriage,charisma and level of education.
Also a 'big girl'should be able to reason well and be financially
okay to an extent

I'll put people like Princess Diana there.

While negative big girl is the former: She goes about with airs, her shoulders and nose raised high, looks down on people she considers not up to her standard, totally self centered and fashion crazy, always competing with others, you name it.

Does height really counts? One thing i know of big girls is that they always have money to spend and use expensive accessories, jewelries, perfumes and have a network of big guys in their chain. But they hardly want to get married why?

Ability to be laid for money. Never get pregnant unintentionally. Cheats on boyfriend and never gets caught (date more than 1 guy at a time)
Must not eat in bukas, drinks only bottled water and patronises all the ok joints, katangwa, Yaba, Badagry etc. Never fails an exam as she knows all her lecturers bedroom/account number and so on

nossycheek:

Ability to be laid for money. Never get pregnant unintentionally. Cheats on boyfriend and never gets caught (date more than 1 guy at a time)
Must not eat in bukas, drinks only bottled water and patronises all the ok joints, katangwa, Yaba, Badagry etc. Never fails an exam as she knows all her lecturers bedroom/account number and so on

If that is what it takes to be a "big girl", then what are you?

A small mama

I believe "mama" is reserved for those with children or sugar mummies

@Topic

Having a job and taking care of your responsiblities. Yes. Maturity, independence, sophistication, having a sense of direction in your life and doing your own thing without a giving a damn as to what people think. Especially when it is none of their damn business!

almondjoy:

@Topic

Having a job and taking care of your responsiblities. Yes. Maturity, independence, sophistication, having a sense of direction in your life and doing your own thing without a giving a damn as to what people think. Especially when it is none of their damn business!

almondjoy:

@Topic

Having a job and taking care of your responsiblities. Yes. Maturity, independence, sophistication, having a sense of direction in your life and doing your own thing without a giving a damn as to what people think. Especially when it is none of their damn business!

You are such a bitter person why all the bitterness?

abi

firstly, what is your definition of a BIG GIRL?

ask them

Confidence, independence and intelligence

think fergie has said it, d fact dat you dont cry makesw you a big girl

almondjoy said it all.

bindex:

You are such a bitter person why all the bitterness?

It is called "assertiveness" not "bitterness".  Big girls are also assertive.

What is there to be bitter about when life is so dammmmmmmmmmn good?


So my brother, speak for thyself!

Have a Nappy New Year!