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Please I need help from married people, your advice would make a a difference.

I am currently married and my wife is pregnant, 3 months gone. I have been sexually active since forever and since my wife is pregnant, the symptoms and everything is helping either.

People who have gone through this, how were you able to cope without s_x for the whole pregnancy period.

It’s already affecting my concentration on day to day activities.

Bro, I really respect your honesty — this is something many men go through but rarely talk about. First, congratulations on the pregnancy — it's a huge blessing.

I’ve been through this too, and I’ll be real with you — it’s not easy. Pregnancy changes a lot for women physically, emotionally, and even mentally. One thing that helped me was shifting my mindset: I had to remind myself constantly that this was just a season, not forever.

I also tried to stay emotionally close to my wife — talking, cuddling, praying together — because intimacy isn’t just about sex. And when the urges became hard to manage, I had to be intentional about avoiding triggers, staying busy, and finding healthy outlets (like exercise, hobbies, or even just spending more time around positive people).

Most importantly, talk openly with your wife. Let her know how you feel — with love, not pressure. It’s a journey you’re both on, and communication can help you both find little ways to stay connected.

You’ve got this. Stay strong and stay faithful. This phase will pass, and your patience now will strengthen your marriage in ways you won’t believe.

this is just 3 months and the pregnancy remains 6 or 7 months to go.

then another 6 month wait after childbirth.

You can do it my guy. Don't give into sexual immorality it is a sin oh. 😂🤣😁

annolomy:
congratulations on the pregnancy — it's a huge blessing.

Everything after this was just a summarised manual on subtle simping