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Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by Achz(m): 2:31pm On Aug 23, 2025
Okwyjesus:
I don't know why Nigerian men like adultery especially once money start coming.

It's difficult for me to understand .What am l looking for in strange woman
Na poor Libido wey u get dey cause am
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by FameGlory(f): 2:31pm On Aug 23, 2025
My neighbor that changes different girls like boxers every eke market day told me oneday that when he finally marries and settles down, he will never cheat on his wife grin

Delulu....

Kpokrikpo...dem no fit find am grin

I pity the innocent lady that will marry that one.

It will end in premium tears.
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by CodeTemplarr: 2:33pm On Aug 23, 2025
With women or with mannequin?
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by Vision101(m): 2:36pm On Aug 23, 2025
pocohantas:
No wahala.
They should also embrace other men sleeping with their women. After all, na person wife Yul Edochie snatch. Snatch the pikin join. Now Mr Obasi dey cry for TVC news. A married man's sidechick is one single guy's serious babe. So let's all tolerate ourselves and live as one big happy family.
Can you go and pay the bride price of a man? Can your husband change his surname to your maiden name? Can he pack and come live in your paternal home? Can you have more than one husband at a time? Can you make your husband full house husband?
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by okito: 2:36pm On Aug 23, 2025
I dont think the statistics of 90 - 99% cheating men is correct but i know a lot of men cheat even as I have come to find out now that a lot of women cheat as well. Men do it overtly while women do it covertly.

Frankly speaking, a lot of men do it cos they consider it as fun. I know a lot of men who cheat quietly but still love their wives and can give their eyes for their wives.

So, I always tell women who complain about cheating husbands not to leave but if their husbands who do not cheat, abuse them, I encourage them to leave wie. Abuse can lead to death. If you leave your hubby due to cheating, you must be prepared to be single for the rest of your life as there is no guarantee the next man won't cheat.

It's unfortunate I must sadly admit it's a man's world as a man cheating is not considered a big deal but a woman cheating is considered an abomination. Double standards!
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by jaxxy(m): 2:39pm On Aug 23, 2025
So is she a lesbian or what is she talking about?? undecided

Let her go and check the rate of paternity fruad and talk about women cheaters.
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by Aeman(m): 2:40pm On Aug 23, 2025
Okwyjesus:
I don't know why Nigerian men like adultery especially once money start coming.

It's difficult for me to understand .What am l looking for in strange woman
Wailers association
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by pocohantas(f): 2:41pm On Aug 23, 2025
Vision101:
Can you go and pay the bride price of a man? Can your husband change his surname to your maiden name? Can he pack and come live in your paternal home? Can you have more than one husband at a time? Can you make your husband full house husband?
No one is interested in paying your groom price or making you a fulltime husband. But as long as you are sleeping around with WOMEN, not goats __the maths would maths and men would keep sleeping with other men's gfs, fiancees, wives, aunties and mothers. Kiss the fact.


FashionCookie:
Abi na. grin
Salt-pepper-scatter-scatter! 😆 🤣
I done kuku talk am before. Life no hard, na human being dey complicate am.
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by oalandAgents2: 2:42pm On Aug 23, 2025
I agree.
Polygamy is our traditional all over Africa.

Most people have heard of middle aged women who divorce their husband for having a side-chic, only to end up becoming a side-chic for some other married woman's husband.

If she hadn't been deceived by toxic feminism ideals she could remained in her marriage and allow her husband marry additional wives.
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by alizma: 2:42pm On Aug 23, 2025
Okwyjesus:
I don't know why Nigerian men like adultery especially once money start coming.

It's difficult for me to understand .What am l looking for in strange woman
Are you married, how old are you? Your attack on Nigerian men shows your lack of global knowledge of the topic of discussion. Pick a country of your choice, where your ideal marriage of 1 to 1 is practice and compare the single parenting rate with Nigeria let's see what the results look like
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by missionmex(m): 2:43pm On Aug 23, 2025
Okwyjesus:
I don't know why Nigerian men like adultery especially once money start coming.

It's difficult for me to understand .What am l looking for in strange woman
Thank God for grace to overcome such temptation. Look within you if you have any form of sin that you are struggling with that is how some men are struggling with this particular one. We pray for grace to overcome any besetting sin. Amen.
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by thomas2024: 2:46pm On Aug 23, 2025
Creamypie:
Same reason that the moment a woman becomes very rich, she turns her husband to house boy at best. She will not even stay in same room with him. Her son will follow her to events, instead of her husband. What goes around comes around
Do you realise this thing you mention happen to a family member of recently? I used to read it in books, redpoll, etcetera until the incident happened to my big cousin. I was just speechless. Dem still dey solve their matter, nzogbu nzogbu😂😂😂
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by Angelfrost(m): 2:47pm On Aug 23, 2025
Lol... Madam, your gender is keeping pace with the cheating game nowadays.

Should we also embrace Polyandry?!! grin
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by bengdededeng(m): 2:48pm On Aug 23, 2025
joelbooks:
Do the math. If 99% of men cheat, who are they cheating with?
Other men? No.
So, who then? Women, of course.

That means:
99% men cheating = 99% women involved.

Conclusion: If 99% of men cheat, then 99% of women cheat too.
Bro... this your math is everything but right...a 100 men can cheat on their wives with just 1 girl...if 100 men cheated it doesn't mean they cheated with a 100 different women...sorry but not sorry but your logic is severely flawed
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by Sermwell(m): 2:51pm On Aug 23, 2025
Okwyjesus:
I don't know why Nigerian men like adultery especially once money start coming.

It's difficult for me to understand .What am l looking for in strange woman
What do you mean by strange woman? Your wife or girlfriend was once a stranger to you grin cheesy
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by AyeMoJuba: 2:55pm On Aug 23, 2025
You are in a state of denial
The reality is that men aren't made for one woman...he's polygamous in nature
If you like accept it or not, it doesn't matter...it's what it is

Okwyjesus:
I don't know why Nigerian men like adultery especially once money start coming.

It's difficult for me to understand .What am l looking for in strange woman
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by Mariangeles(f): 2:56pm On Aug 23, 2025
Retired side-chic don drop quote.

Mentality of the one who other women's husbands cheated with.

It's like a prostitute saying everybody na ashawo.
No, ma'am!
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by pocohantas(f):
oalandAgents2:
I agree.
Polygamy is our traditional all over Africa.

Most people have heard of middle aged women who divorce their husband for having a side-chic, only to end up becoming a side-chic for some other married woman's husband.

If she hadn't been deceived by toxic feminism ideals she could remained in her marriage and allow her husband marry additional wives.
Better the villain than the victim.
Seeing how you treat your wives, and take the side-chick for vacations disguised as business trips while she is at home pounding akpu and catering to your sick mum __it is not surprising many of them are opting for the sidechick position. Enjoyment with lesser responsibilities and no submission. 👍👍👍
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by chuks212: 3:01pm On Aug 23, 2025
grin
RISQUE:
She don date 99% of the men na. Instead of her to go and marry she's here making senseless statements.
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by Pythagoras001: 3:07pm On Aug 23, 2025
IHate9jerianss:
Did the ban on polygamy in those other societies curtail cheating?
Since the beginning of humankind,the best men in every society have always attracted multiple women.
Monogamous marriage was created for genetically and socially inferior men to have access to reproduction.Therefore,my personal belief is,the worst men in every society should not be encouraged to reproduce offsprings.
maybe I wasn't totally clear in my initial post the ban on polygamy was not about stopping cheating. Polygamous mean cheat also. Having multiple wife or single wife does not stop anyone from cheating. When I meant recipe for disaster it wasn't about cheating but about the problems were very fit men fail to secure a partner become lonely, unfulfilled and they tend to become extremely violent. Masturbaation and ponography can Not entirely solve this. Men have fought and died for access to women. It is very animal thing you can see it nature even with other mammals. There have always been genetically inferior men even till today they always almost never find a partner and hence not procreate. They call them today incels and they have a very large community it could be something as small as deformation in one person face to turn them to incel. I am not talking about incels but genetically fit men but average they would also not find partners because all the average and below women would go to the very fit and successful man "hypergamy" . Mr gate could afford to have tens of thousands of both high medium and low value wife and still cheat . You gerrrit now
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by ZombieDredd: 3:12pm On Aug 23, 2025
Satan dey use these ones overtime.

Gods standard is one man and one wife
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by Shimbo96(m): 3:13pm On Aug 23, 2025
Okwyjesus:
I don't know why Nigerian men like adultery especially once money start coming.

It's difficult for me to understand .What am l looking for in strange woman
Money brings bitches and bitches bring life - 2pac. If you are rich, even if you don't chase after them they will come to you.
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by SURElee(f): 3:19pm On Aug 23, 2025
When Nollywood females speak like this, just know they are frolicking with a married man they want to marry oooo
because if she were married, she wouldn't be asking ladies to embrace polygamy
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by Mariangeles(f):
Angelfrost:
Lol... Madam, your gender is keeping pace with the cheating game nowadays.

Should we also embrace Polyandry?!! grin
You know the best/worst part? Betrayed women don't talk (about their move), they just observe, then...😌
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by Mariangeles(f): 3:25pm On Aug 23, 2025
SURElee:
When Nollywood females speak like this, just know they are frolicking with a married man they want to marry oooo
because if she were married, she wouldn't be asking ladies to embrace polygamy
It's usually comes from a place of envy.
Not just Nollywood females.
Side-chics generally.

No one hate wives like side-chics.
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by chidiokay: 3:26pm On Aug 23, 2025
Okwyjesus:
I don't know why Nigerian men like adultery especially once money start coming.

It's difficult for me to understand .What am l looking for in strange woman
Are the Nigerian Men sleeping with themselves, we resemble gay
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by chidiokay: 3:29pm On Aug 23, 2025
Drsmiles:
After geh gehs class, now promiscuity ambassadorism for men!!! Women really don suffer this month shocked

Men can be faithful if they are focused on growth and raising a wonderful family. Nothing really dey inside cheating like that
You that is not cheating you grow pass Tu face abi you get wonderful family pass portable undecided
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by IHate9jerianss(m): 3:32pm On Aug 23, 2025
Pythagoras001:
maybe I wasn't totally clear in my initial post the ban on polygamy was not about stopping cheating. Polygamous mean cheat also. Having multiple wife or single wife does not stop anyone from cheating. When I meant recipe for disaster it wasn't about cheating but about the problems were very fit men fail to secure a partner become lonely, unfulfilled and they tend to become extremely violent. Masturbaation and ponography can Not entirely solve this. Men have fought and died for access to women. It is very animal thing you can see it nature even with other mammals. There have always been genetically inferior men even till today they always almost never find a partner and hence not procreate. They call them today incels and they have a very large community it could be something as small as deformation in one person face to turn them to incel. I am not talking about incels but genetically fit men but average they would also not find partners because all the average and below women would go to the very fit and successful man "hypergamy" . Mr gate could afford to have tens of thousands of both high medium and low value wife and still cheat . You gerrrit now
Your post is a mish-mash of views.

Let me make my point crystal clear once again;

Since the beginning of humankind,in every society,the most genetically and socially superior/gifted males have always had access to multiple/many women while the less gifted men did not.The elders/leaders in those societies you stated, then created the monogamy tenet so that the less gifted males could have access to atleast one woman because they weren't good enough to attract any.

My view is,superior men should not be punished for the inadequacies of inferior men when it comes to access to women.
If an incel cannot attract one woman and I can attract seven and impregnate five and cater for them,why then should society punish me and reward the incel?!
You need to relax,inferior men are incapable of disrupting society because they are completely powerless.Thats why they have always needed elders/institutions,shaming tactics & threat of violence for them to gain access to a woman.A skill that is supposed to come naturally to them
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by lapintoz: 3:33pm On Aug 23, 2025
Very very very true
Re: 90 To 99% Of Men Cheat, Embrace Polygamy – Bimbo Akintola Sparks Debate by chidiokay: 3:36pm On Aug 23, 2025
Image123:
How's polygamy the answer to waywardness. Two wrongs don't make a right. Which one is 90 to 99%. Oh my goodness, i am in a wrong thread, i feel some virtue/sense just left by reading the OP.
You missed the message probably cos she is not talking to you ..

what she is trying to say is dear ladies give yourself peace, manage your expectations and embrace reality Men will cheat, deal with it

when you have a prepared mind, it gives you a leverage.... how about that
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