₦airaland Forum

Forget progress in life.
You are looking back while carrying enormous burden.

My mum was the bomb.

I can't say the same of my dad.

Parents shpould never deliberately fail their children. The child carries the failure as an adult alone.

The world would judge you, and not your parents as an adult.

[quote author=suckprick post=137265794]Your eyes go open wen dem kpai.


Leave am na, make him just dey play. Is like he has not known the value of parents until he lost them

suckprick:
Your eyes go open wen dem kpai.

My own don kpai. Nothing still happen!!

Resentment towards your biggest fans!

Hello, they only want you to be the best of they so much on your case.

Those two are the only people in the world who genuinely wish you well and keep you at heart always.

You won’t appreciate them till you lose them.

..

Sellfish:
Parents owe their children everything for unilaterally bringing them into this stressful world without their consent

Children owe their parents nothing because they are merely results of their parents' sexual recklessness

If as a parent, you give your child any reason to detest you, you deserve whatever results from that child's dissatisfaction

If you can't give your child the best, don't birth...Simple

A large percentage of the problems we have on this earth result from inadequately raised kids

You watch too high school movies.
and are simply a
"Western wannabe."

enemyofprogress:
both of them are correct. One is British English, while the other one is American English, I chose to use the American English which is my mother tongue.

Taaaa

its not proper to use "George" in reference to act of judgement.

What are you telling me?

judge is a doing verb, while George is a noun and name of person.

What are they teaching you people in that america?

Well, my bible tells me in Matthew 15:4 - For God said, 'Honor your father and mother' and 'Anyone who curses his father or mother is to be put to death.

suckprick:
Your eyes go open wen dem kpai.

I had this friend from somewhere at Ebonyi, who claims his parents assisted his elder brother in trying to use him for money rituals when he was just nine. He ran away from home since then.

But somehow, the guy don come dey better off than all of his siblings and he currently dey send dem osusu anytime he feels like. Dem no dey disturb him but he does that.

He said Jesus made him forgive and forget. Since then, I no dey use that guy play as he's as blunt and sharp with any matter.

Some families make me dey everyday dey thank the gods for mine. Although mine was because of the way our parents and their siblings lived. So we the children swore from very young that we would be different. Only 3 never marry. 2 women and myself wey no go marry but we still dey tight knit. Any man wey wan marry my sister is made to know say for this family, e get as we dey do things and we won't let area scatter enter.


We thank the Gods for the peace of mind we have in our family. I wish others same.
SMH

Nwaikpe:
You watch too high school movies.
and are simply a
"Western wannabe."

Your opinion, however irrelevant to me, is your entitlement

ZombieDredd:
Taaaa

its not proper to use "George" in reference to act of judgement.

What are you telling me?

judge is a doing verb, while George is a noun and name of person.

What are they teaching you people in that america?

you're not current in English sintax. Had it been you were current in sintax, you won't be arguing with me. I have work to do. Have a nice day Mr judge.

suckprick:
Your eyes go open wen dem kpai.

he won't miss anything. Some parents are overrated.

[quote author=Mrdealer4all post=137264174]I have so much resentment towards my parents.


If I were you I'll bring back my words and forgive myself for saying such horrible words to my own parent.
Nevertheless you don't know their value and importance until you lose them.
May God have mercy on you.

enemyofprogress:
both of them are correct. One is British English, while the other one is American English, I chose to use the American English which is my mother tongue.

:
Kaaaaaaaaaaaaaaiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii! ! ! ! !

Olodumare, Chineke, Osanobua!

Qualityoffer:
Well, my bible tells me in Matthew 15:4 - For God said, 'Honor your father and mother' and 'Anyone who curses his father or mother is to be put to death.

that was then. Not any more.

/

There are no written laws or guarantee that an irresponsible person would change because s/he becomes a parent.
Some men sexually abuse their daughters. Some mothers love-vendor out their daughters. Some men physically abuse
their sons. Some mothers verbally abuse and psychologically damage their sons.

There may be some plausible reasons someone may despise her parents.


/

Wise words from you Sir.Good to know that sensible people like you still exist!

untoldtruth:
Don't worry, it'll pass. One day, future you will look back and laugh at this you. Hang in there

The parents themselves will.pass, too, so, one way or another, it will pass, right?

Issokay!

As for me, I'm bursting with love for my parents. I miss my Dad, who departed a few years ago, and I love and support my Mom till now.

Anyone who cannot forgive and love their parents could spend their lives wishing they were killed in the womb (aborted), or hope they die sooner than later, while steeping in bitterness. The choice is free to make.

enemyofprogress:
that was then. Not any more.

Well, I'll leave you with what my bible tells me in 2 Timothy 2:14-15 - Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth.

Hahaha, apart from other factors mentioned, I personally believe it is also associated with your beliefs. People wonder how and why they were born into a poor family, that they were brought here especially Nigeria to suffer.

Well,, let me borrow the Grail message" I am not propagating it or something but there is some of the teaching I key into cos, it explained issues like this in a way that makes sense.

For your parent to born you into a poor background, it is belief that their souls attracts yours and that of your siblings.
You have something in common.

So it is not their fault. It is just like a bird of a feather.

However, you can change the situation if you strive to be a better person and create your own path in life.

So, I laugh when I see stuff like this.

Mrdealer4all:
I have so much resentment towards my parents

Please, seek therapy for yourself. Your parents may have been bad, but that is not a reason enough for you to fill yourself up with resentment, which in the end never leads to anything good— physically, mentally, or emotionally.

3kay945:
Hahaha, apart from other factors mentioned, I personally believe it is also associated with your beliefs. People wonder how and why they were born into a poor family, that they were brought here especially Nigeria to suffer.
Well,, let me borrow the Grail message" I am not propagating it or something but there is some of the teaching I key into cos, it explained issues like this in a way that makes sense.
For your parent to born you into a poor background, it is belief that their souls attracts yours and that of your siblings.
You have something in common. So it is not their fault. It is just like a bird of a feather. However, you can change the situation if you strive to be a better person and create your own path in life. So, I laugh when I see stuff like this.

Nonsense and eegridient ! 🥱🥱🥱

Qualityoffer:
Well, my bible tells me in Matthew 15:4 - For God said, 'Honor your father and mother' and 'Anyone who curses his father or mother is to be put to death.

Nonsense and eegridient! 🥱🥱🥱🥱

suckprick:
Your eyes go open wen dem kpai.

The ones wey eventually kpai their parents in cold blood, their eyes open too? Nonsense and eegridient! 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense and eegridient! 🥱🥱🥱🥱

My bible didn't mince words when it says in Ephesians 5:6 - Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these the wrath of God comes on the children of disobedience.

ukaface:
No one receives a manual titled “How to Be a Parent.”
Parents are simply individuals — each with their own personalities, strengths, weaknesses, and flaws — who happened to grow older. They still make mistakes, they’re still learning, and most of the time, they’re just doing the best they can. Remember, it’s a cycle: they were once raised by their own parents and shaped by the experiences and knowledge they had.

I may not know your personal story, but try to see them as people who never had it all figured out — they just moved through life, doing what they thought was right.

It is well.

check my signature and do the needful

3kay945:
Hahaha, apart from other factors mentioned, I personally believe it is also associated with your beliefs. People wonder how and why they were born into a poor family, that they were brought here especially Nigeria to suffer.

Well,, let me borrow the Grail message" I am not propagating it or something but there is some of the teaching I key into cos, it explained issues like this in a way that makes sense.

For your parent to born you into a poor background, it is belief that their souls attracts yours and that of your siblings.
You have something in common.

So it is not their fault. It is just like a bird of a feather.

However, you can change the situation if you strive to be a better person and create your own path in life.

So, I laugh when I see stuff like this.

bros, life is deeper than your grail message

Sellfish:
Parents owe their children everything for unilaterally bringing them into this stressful world without their consent

Children owe their parents nothing because they are merely results of their parents' sexual recklessness

If as a parent, you give your child any reason to detest you, you deserve whatever results from that child's dissatisfaction

If you can't give your child the best, don't birth...Simple

A large percentage of the problems we have on this earth result from inadequately raised kids

How old are you?

ukaface:
➜No one receives a manual titled “How to Be a Parent.”
➜ Parents are simply individuals — each with their own personalities, strengths, weaknesses, and flaws — who happened to grow older. They still make mistakes, they’re still learning, and most of the time, they’re just doing the best they can. Remember, it’s a cycle: they were once raised by their own parents and shaped by the experiences and knowledge they had.
➜ I may not know your personal story, but try to see them as people who never had it all figured out — they just moved through life, doing what they thought was right. It is well.

1. Everyone grows up knowing right from wrong. That happens to be the only manual one needs to be a good parent, wherever one finds oneself.

2. Everyone, including good parents, makes mistakes. Bad parents go a step beyond making mistakes. Not only do they reject every opportunity to learn from them to become better parents, but many also go a step beyond to pour all of their regrets on those kids whenever possible.

3. You mean like Boko Haram and your Nigerian Politicians move through life doing what they think is right, abi? Nonsense!

Wait to go, trying real hard to blur the line between what is right and what is wrong! You must think you did well there. 🙄🙄🙄

Druss:
➜ How old are you?

He is right, actually!

Qualityoffer:
➜ My bible didn't mince words when it says in Ephesians 5:6 - Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these the wrath of God comes on the children of disobedience.

Nonsense and eegridient!

You religious folks are worse when it comes to raising kids. Apart from the regular religious brainwashing, your kids grow up to be among the worst of citizens in any country out there — incapable of thinking or reasoning for themselves.