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Am in love with this guy and we been together for a year plus now, and we both love each other so so much and planned to seal it up in marriage, but two weeks ago he told me something and i have not been able to put myself together after that, he told me he once dated a girl 5 years ago and the girl got pregnant and said she is not ready for a baby and he gave her money to do away with it, and only for the girl to show up after 5 years with the baby and the mum and dad are on his neck that he has to marry her, that with or without his conscent they will go and pay the girls bride price

Please help me out cause am king of confuse cause i love this guy so so much and i have agreed to accept the baby as mine but i can't watch the only man i love been taken away from me, but one thing i still find hard to believe is how can the parent force him to marry the lady against his will and the guy on the other hand keep telling me to be patient, but can i be able to fight the family when the heat gets hurt.

pls matured advise

All he said is you should be patient? What is he saying about marrying the lady?

Babe, relax, agaracha must come back. U dont need to do anything but love yourself more, trust me, It works!!! Keep cool, sit back and watch!

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no one can force no one to marry if they dont will it.
ask your boyfriend what he is doing to handle the situation.

@OP
i would understand if the gal was pregnant now BUT that was 5 long years ago. what are they hoping to achieve by forcing their son to marry this stranger? or is that a story that your bf concocted to get rid of you and marry someone else?

@poster

Sometimes we r the architect of our misfortune. All said but I will like to know whether u guy still loves this babe. How could u accept someone else child when
She is still alive.I want you to think twice because there are many men out there that are single that u can gradually develop love for than forcing urself into this relationship despite knowing what is happening because u may end up loosing out

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@OP_babe dnt worry, everythings gonna be alryt. But never ask him what to do since he loves you or encourage him to disagree with his parents! That can easily make him think u'r in a haste to get married to him. But if u've already done that, hmmm pray he doesn't focus his attention on it__just be quiet when he raise the issue during your conversation with him. Its time to play hard! Behave the same manner u behaved when he first met you, i repeat 'Never sound cheap or hasting to him' i'm talking out of experience cos such words has cost me my relationship with a lady__i'v said my own

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