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| What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by chudez0147(op): 3:29pm On Dec 05, 2025 |
Good day and happy weekend to everyone out there. Please I need your advice on this. A friend of mine called me yesterday to suggest what he should buy for the man that got him a job. He knew the man longtime ago. But he was employed by this good man into a government board. Though he was employed with his O level and his salary is the normal minimum wage of 85k. Initially he planned to buy the man a goat but just last month he lost his granny and doesn’t have enough cash to buy the goat. What else should he buy for the man in appreciation for the job he got for him? |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by PureSperm: 3:36pm On Dec 05, 2025 |
A goat untop 85k salary Please Tell him to wait till Christmas Eve so that he can buy a chicken and give to him. |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by chudez0147(op): 3:43pm On Dec 05, 2025 |
85k salary x 11 months. I don’t think it’s too much . Besides, he’s going to continue earning till he retires. But his doesn’t have the cash now. Is there any thing else he can buy for him just to appreciate him? |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by Youonlyliveonce: 4:22pm On Dec 05, 2025 |
Scam post, only fools will dm u for the fake government job lol |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by Double0h7(f): 5:17pm On Dec 05, 2025 |
A bottle of something he likes would be enough as a gift. If he doesn’t have the money now then he could save up and present the gift when he can afford it. To give his “destiny helper” a cheap gift could cause more friction than giving it later on when he could afford something befitting. |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by chudez0147(op): 5:42pm On Dec 05, 2025 |
Youonlyliveonce:Where did i write that you should DM for government job. Are you sure you’re not a band!t ? |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by chudez0147(op): 5:44pm On Dec 05, 2025 |
Double0h7:Thank you. A bottle of what he likes and maybe one life Chicken . What do you think ? |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by Double0h7(f): 6:48pm On Dec 05, 2025 |
chudez0147:Sure if that’s something he would like. Are you thinking a bottle of perfume or alcohol? |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by chudez0147(op): 6:55pm On Dec 05, 2025 |
Double0h7:I’ll confirm if he takes alcohol otherwise I’ll ask to get him a perfume. Thanks once again |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by Double0h7(f): 7:30pm On Dec 05, 2025 |
chudez0147:I think you could get him a nice bottle of perfume rather than alcohol. Alcohol will only destroy his health. A gift should be a blessing and last for a while so that the person can remember your kindness. Also a designer perfume costs a lot so just a bottle of perfume would be enough as a gift but if you add live chicken then you have gone above and beyond to show your appreciation. |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by chudez0147(op): 8:27pm On Dec 05, 2025 |
Double0h7:What perfume would you recommend?? I think this is a good advice. It shouldn’t be more than a hundred thousand 100k. 80k would be perfect, so that I can use the remaining 20k for the life chicken . |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by Double0h7(f): 8:33pm On Dec 05, 2025 |
chudez0147:Hopefully someone else can help with this answer because we’re in different countries so I don’t understand your currency and what perfumes are available where you are. I’m sure if you check IG there’s bound to be shops advertising their Xmas sales. This is the best season to get designer perfumes on sale. |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by chudez0147(op): 8:53pm On Dec 05, 2025 |
Double0h7:Alright. Thank you for your attention to this matter. |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by hakeemhakeem(m): 9:12pm On Dec 05, 2025 |
PureSperm:85k is small but envelope package is bigger |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by We4all: 9:32pm On Dec 05, 2025 |
chudez0147:Most Nigerians hardly show appreciation for a kind gesture, and I am impressed that your friend is trying to show his appreciation. However, the amount you are quoting is way too much. Someone that earns 85K shouldn't be budgeting 100K so he can buy his helper a gift. He should just budget no more than 20K. With that amount, the list of what you can get is endless. Cologne, Christmas hamper, live chicken....just name it. Don't go overboard with your gift because even the man is aware that the salary is meagre. |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by chudez0147(op): 9:39pm On Dec 05, 2025 |
We4all:Wow thank you for this too. I’ll also talk to him about this. Maybe he can cut down his budget. God bless you. |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by chudez0147(op): 9:59pm On Dec 05, 2025 |
hakeemhakeem:What are you trying to say here ?? |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by hakeemhakeem(m): 1:14am On Dec 06, 2025 |
chudez0147:Those guys feeds on bribery and co |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by ChybuzzDD(m): 5:22am On Dec 06, 2025 |
Youonlyliveonce:Some of you are just full of s! lly, negative thoughts and conspiracy theories |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by chudez0147(op): 9:44am On Dec 06, 2025 |
hakeemhakeem:Hmmm. What about those guys feeding in bribery and co Or maybe you don’t know how to express yourself. I understand |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by Youonlyliveonce: 11:35am On Dec 06, 2025 |
ChybuzzDD:Both of you should continue, hand go soon touch una lol |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by chudez0147(op): 10:17am On Dec 07, 2025*. Modified: 10:42am On Dec 07, 2025 |
Double0h7:Hello. I trust you’re doing well. Do you think he should go with someone or he should go alone?? |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by Double0h7(f): 11:11am On Dec 07, 2025 |
chudez0147:I think going alone is more intimate and they could have a comfortable conversation without a third party just standing there or worse trying their luck at a job for themselves 😆 |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by chudez0147(op): 12:38pm On Dec 07, 2025 |
Double0h7:Okay. Lastly, should he request to know his house so that he can take the gift to his house or he should take it to his office? It seems he doesn’t know where he lives. |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by Double0h7(f): 2:38pm On Dec 07, 2025 |
chudez0147:His place of work seems easier and more convenient for the person receiving it. I’d give him a call and say I have something special to give you, when would be the best time to catch you at work? I think the present should be a surprise so don’t mention it until you hand it to him. |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by chudez0147(op): 2:56pm On Dec 07, 2025 |
Double0h7:Perfectly said. Thank you so much for your attention to this matter. God bless you. |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by Double0h7(f): 3:21pm On Dec 07, 2025 |
chudez0147:You’re very welcome, lovely 😊 and May God bless you even more. |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by chudez0147(op): 3:39pm On Dec 07, 2025 |
Double0h7:Amen . |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by Double0h7(f): 5:17pm On Dec 07, 2025 |
chudez0147:I forgot 😆 you can’t take an alive chicken 🐓 to his office so maybe arrange for that to be taken to his house. Once at the office, hand him his gift and inform him that you have a chicken for him and ask him how you could get that to him 😂 |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by chudez0147(op): 5:48pm On Dec 07, 2025 |
Double0h7:Ohk. I told you am not the one. But I’ll tell him all you said. I just checked your dp. Are you a Nigerian?? If that’s you on your dp, you’re damn beautiful |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by Double0h7(f): 5:52pm On Dec 07, 2025 |
chudez0147:I know you said it’s for a friend but it’s just easier to say you instead of saying; “your friend” Thank you for your kind words and I’m Fulani 😋 |
| Re: What Do I Gift My Destiny Helper? by chudez0147(op): 7:53pm On Dec 07, 2025 |
Double0h7:Fulani |
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Or maybe you don’t know how to express yourself. I understand