Woman, when it appears you're losing your home; when you seem to be failing as a wife, friend, mother or even daughter in-law, love and confidence are waning in the home and external influences are getting a stronger hold on ur marriage, I have a key for you,
try being a PARTNER
Be with and be seen to be with him in all he does.

I rather say you ask yourself some questions why things are falling apart then be more prayerful and hardworking than being a dependant.

The questions U ask urself will indeed reveal the reasons the home is falling apart and one area I found out that most women (spiritual, educated, intelligent, friendly, warm, caring, fruitful & beautiful) lose their marriage is their inability to be their husband's PARTNER.

The hardwork there is continuous assessment of ur roles in the marriage & changing ur strategy when necessary. Of course, it's taken for granted that U do all the spiritual exercises.