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Hi. I'm Reverse Engineer, or Christian, if you would, and I trust you're feeling okay

There is a need for this public notepad of mine to be out here, as I felt the urge to do so, and I can only connect the dots looking backwards, not fowards, like you too

This is going to be filled with everything from religion to science to philosophy to family to spirituality, to movies to songs to politics to relationships.
They're going to be short and simple posts, and If there's need for a long post, I'll do so, make it a separate topic, and include the link here. Buckle up

Entry No 1: The Birth of Pick-up Artistry in you — boy or girl, man or woman

I've read relationship posts here on nairaland by Harddon, Benee1000, Ubunja, CaveAdallum, and too many I'll remember later. Outside of nairaland, I've read countless books, Neil Strauss, mystery, Ross Jeffries, Papa, Venusian arts...name them. Book of Pook...
Some of these books or contents I completed, others I found too complex for me to understand that I dropped halfway. There wasn't a foundation for me to build on, I felt. I felt that something was missing that could make a shy but bright guy go from that to ******

Yes. Something was missing, and this is it. Now, pay close attention.
Pick-up or cold approach will work when you're vulnerable enough for the person you're talking to to see you as a relatable person/human with struggles/imperfections, AND also when you give them the opportunity to be vulnerable with their weakness to you without feeling judged, scorned at arrogantly by you, or despised.

Why do you think Chatgpt/Gemini knows people (employee , husband, wife, boyfriend, brother, sister, girlfriend, friend) deepest darkest secrets better than you, the person who claims to be supposedly close to them?
Have you ever observed the reply of chatgpt when you tell it something or reveal a secret part of you to it? Go do so now.

Pick-up is quite easy. But it's mechanics is so much that I can type here in one post, neither do I claim to be all knowing.

Be vulnerable, and allow others to be vulnerable to you to. Simple, right?
Lol, wrong.

I know some girls I've tried suggesting to to go pickup some guy on the street. And these girls are fine in every sense of the word, but they told me No. They don't feel comfortable with it, because it's the men that's supposed to walk up to them, and not the other way around. That's being invulnerable, and that's what pride is. That which is hardest for you to do (especially those that prevents us from giving or receiving love) is where your salvation lies.

Entry No 2: Continuation of entry No and a grand reveal

Another nugget I'll drop to help you in this journey of vulnerability.
Man is not less woman, sun is not less moon, hot is not less cold, disease is not less good health, North is not less south, and lies is not less truth.
What do I mean by all that?

Courage is not the absence of fear. You don't have to kill fear to be courageous. You can feel fear and still be courageous. You think those fireman that charge into burning buildings don't feel fear of not coming back to their family in one piece?
Fear could be 80, courage is also 70, and they're both inside 1 human being.
A human just have to grow the side of courage in them. Did you notice that 80+70 = 150, and not the 100 we've been taught to scale things to? Courage and fear are independent with their independent scales for measurement!

Life is simultaneous. Please. Reread this when you do have time. Life is simultaneous, that's why you can draw a 9 on the sand, and someone on the other side will see it as a 6.
9 and 6 are happening together. They're independent realities, but It's just that we humans have been taught or primed to see X as less of Y, or Y as less of X.

Full post: Truth Is Not Less Lie, Man Is Not Less Woman, Courage Is not less fear https://www.nairaland.com/8757091/truth-not-less-lie-man

Entry No 3:The Absence of Straight lines in nature and its effects on mans creation
There are no straight lines in nature, and please don't confuse this with man-made buildings or ancient man-made artifacts/structures that are quite obvious that man created, when you Google search.
So what's the concept behind the creation of rectangular solar panels? To capture sun rays that DO NOT MOVE IN STRAIGHT LINES with straight-lined solar panels?

What about your freezers? What's the concept behind the creation of cuboid freezers? What aren't there cylindrical freezers?