mutter:

Why did your family take care of the bill for two months
You all are quite gullible . Do you think his people would not have come up with the money You all are enabling this man.

Baba1010:

Thanks to all for the comments.

My Sis is the only girl-child in the family and you can imagine how the parents will want the best for her so all the expenses were been sorted out based on the fact that the husband claimed not to have the funds and the best  thing parents can do is to at least treat their son-in-law the same way they would treat their daughter. 

She has however made up her mind to opt out of the marriage today after the husband came home smoking weed in their living room. She has moved out ds evening with the daughter to a temporary apartment while the police will be involved tmrw morning to ensure the husband sign some statements that nothing must happen to her, the child and other members of the wife's family as his target was the little funds he thinks the family has.
Hey Mutter, I hope the little note above explains why you think we were all gullible. How else do you want your in laws to treat you other than the way they treat their son/daughter.

Baba1010:

Hi Guys,  this is our story oo.

My Sis showed up with a guy (now her husband) around late 2010 which everyone in the house was kinda against cos we all didn't need a prophet to tell us the kind of guy he is (talk of first impression). A month later she came out straight that she's already some months pregnant for the guy, guess they both had to use pregnancy as the way out as everyone was against her starting a relationship with the guy not to talk of them getting married.  Our parents are Christians and they try as much as possible to lead us aright in every situation, but they were however begged into arranging a traditional wedding for the two of them cos of the pregnancy. This wedding was 99% funded by my parents.

The husband had a ghastly accident (cranial fracture, internal bleeding and all sorts) after leaving one of his girlfriends place buh momc was called upon being a nurse. His hospital bills, other expenses & were duly taken care of by our family as his family members deserted him due to lack of funds. He stayed in the hospital for two months and his survival was a testimony though.


However, he has started showing his true colour without remembering what my family had gone through all because he married my sister.

1.) [b]He claimed not to have money during his wife's labour (This guys works with a Top Naija bank). All hospital expenses taken care of by momc.

2.) He claimed to have been a christian from childhood but was born by Muslim parents. His new rule now his that his wife must not attend church again and must convert to Islam.

3.) Threatened to send my sister packing claiming he married her for her parents money and her parents are not spending the money on him as he thought (My parents are ordinary civil servants for crying out loud)

4.) Also threatened to send her packing if my Uncle or myself do not send him an invitation to US or Canada where we reside.

5.) Wants my sister packing and he wants to be in [[/b]b]possession of their 1 year daughter between them[/b].

There are other witty details to the few issues I have raised above. I also believe my sister was gullible to take him hook line and sinker despite the family's stand against her getting married to him but I know she's already regretting her mistakes. We cannot neglect her in this though, the marriage is just 1 year and few months old now. Its too early for this kind of rancor to occur between them, the way the whole situation is going now, it seems divorce might be the only way out but popc is kinda adamant that she must stay with her husband and she mustn't move out unless her husband takes her property out himself cos she was sternly warned before venturing into it.

I would want fellow nairalanders to suggest advice for us to get out of this mess.

Baba1010:

Hi Guys,  this is our story oo.

My Sis showed up with a guy (now her husband) around late 2010 which everyone in the house was kinda against cos we all didn't need a prophet to tell us the kind of guy he is (talk of first impression). A month later she came out straight that she's already some months pregnant for the guy, guess they both had to use pregnancy as the way out as everyone was against her starting a relationship with the guy not to talk of them getting married.  Our parents are Christians and they try as much as possible to lead us aright in every situation, but they were however begged into arranging a traditional wedding for the two of them cos of the pregnancy. This wedding was 99% funded by my parents.

The husband had a ghastly accident (cranial fracture, internal bleeding and all sorts) after leaving one of his girlfriends place buh momc was called upon being a nurse. His hospital bills, other expenses & were duly taken care of by our family as his family members deserted him due to lack of funds. He stayed in the hospital for two months and his survival was a testimony though.


However, he has started showing his true colour without remembering what my family had gone through all because he married my sister.

1.) He claimed not to have money during his wife's labour (This guys works with a Top Naija bank). All hospital expenses taken care of by momc.

2.) He claimed to have been a christian from childhood but was born by Muslim parents. His new rule now his that his wife must not attend church again and must convert to Islam.

3.) Threatened to send my sister packing claiming he married her for her parents money and her parents are not spending the money on him as he thought (My parents are ordinary civil servants for crying out loud)

4.) Also threatened to send her packing if my Uncle or myself do not send him an invitation to US or Canada where we reside.

5.) Wants my sister packing and he wants to be in possession of their 1 year daughter between them.

There are other witty details to the few issues I have raised above. I also believe my sister was gullible to take him hook line and sinker despite the family's stand against her getting married to him but I know she's already regretting her mistakes. We cannot neglect her in this though, the marriage is just 1 year and few months old now. Its too early for this kind of rancor to occur between them, the way the whole situation is going now, it seems divorce might be the only way out but popc is kinda adamant that she must stay with her husband and she mustn't move out unless her husband takes her property out himself cos she was sternly warned before venturing into it.

I would want fellow nairalanders to suggest advice for us to get out of this mess.

Baba1010:

Hi Guys,  this is our story oo.

My Sis showed up with a guy (now her husband) around late 2010 which everyone in the house was kinda against cos we all didn't need a prophet to tell us the kind of guy he is (talk of first impression). A month later she came out straight that she's already some months pregnant for the guy, guess they both had to use pregnancy as the way out as everyone was against her starting a relationship with the guy not to talk of them getting married.  Our parents are Christians and they try as much as possible to lead us aright in every situation, but they were however begged into arranging a traditional wedding for the two of them cos of the pregnancy. This wedding was 99% funded by my parents.

The husband had a ghastly accident (cranial fracture, internal bleeding and all sorts) after leaving one of his girlfriends place buh momc was called upon being a nurse. His hospital bills, other expenses & were duly taken care of by our family as his family members deserted him due to lack of funds. He stayed in the hospital for two months and his survival was a testimony though.


However, he has started showing his true colour without remembering what my family had gone through all because he married my sister.

1.) He claimed not to have money during his wife's labour (This guys works with a Top Naija bank). All hospital expenses taken care of by momc.

2.) He claimed to have been a christian from childhood but was born by Muslim parents. His new rule now his that his wife must not attend church again and must convert to Islam.

3.) Threatened to send my sister packing claiming he married her for her parents money and her parents are not spending the money on him as he thought (My parents are ordinary civil servants for crying out loud)

4.) Also threatened to send her packing if my Uncle or myself do not send him an invitation to US or Canada where we reside.

5.) Wants my sister packing and he wants to be in possession of their 1 year daughter between them.

There are other witty details to the few issues I have raised above. I also believe my sister was gullible to take him hook line and sinker despite the family's stand against her getting married to him but I know she's already regretting her mistakes. We cannot neglect her in this though, the marriage is just 1 year and few months old now. Its too early for this kind of rancor to occur between them, the way the whole situation is going now, it seems divorce might be the only way out but popc is kinda adamant that she must stay with her husband and she mustn't move out unless her husband takes her property out himself cos she was sternly warned before venturing into it.

I would want fellow nairalanders to suggest advice for us to get out of this mess.