chaircover: Hey Debrief wake up and stop slacking. . . . Its not called a "fold" it's called a cabal

Anyway I am out of here because Ify is rationing "kpekus" and I don't want my portion rationed. A kpekused woman is a happy woman & a kpekus a day keeps the doctor away

chaircover: Hey Debrief wake up and stop slacking. . . . Its not called a "fold" it's called a cabal

Anyway I am out of here because Ify is rationing "kpekus" and I don't want my portion rationed. A kpekused woman is a happy woman & a kpekus a day keeps the doctor away

chaircover: Cotton, Don’t mind jenny o! She hasn’t been taking her meds lately. She is supposed to be on my side but she has decamped to Mr CC’s side. What happened is that I heard that there was petrol shortage on the News so I just branched into one yeye BP Petrol station to buy for £1.41 only to drive past ASDA a few minutes later to find out that it was £1.35. I felt like going back to BP and asking them to remove the petrol and give me back my money

BTW here is an update on the X5 – Mr CC told me with a straight face that he has bought me a keyholder that I will be using to hold the key to the X5 and what I need to do now is to have faith that in time God will provide the money to buy the key so that I can be using the keyholder he has bought me.

I no know again sef. The guy just dey use agbari for me. Few weeks ago, I just mentioned in passing that I like Black Prados. He just suddenly jumped up (see drama o!) and said that now I have confused him; that now he doesn’t know what to buy, that he may buy the wrong thing and he doesn’t want to do that. See psychology LOL. I just said oga abeg buy anything make we hear word jare

All I know that when it is time for my princess to marry Justin Beiber, our list will not comprise of Yams and suitcase. I must get that X5 somehow

uche13: @ Jennykadry, I have been able to analyse your post and i was able to deduce two things.

1. You have no problem with people posting and you are not discouraging people from seeking counsel about their problems.

2. You are however, pissed with people who post and wallow in pity rather than act on their advice they are given here.

One has to be patient to analyse the thoughts you wanted to communicate but looking at your post face value, it rather looked that you were irked with the frequent complains people were posting. Firstly, as a medical personnel yourself i think, you get to see lots of cases at the hospital because it is only the sick that have need of a physician. It does not however mean that the majority of folks living have one ailment or the other but by virtue of your work place exposure, you may come home feeling depressed and tired of the many cases of sickness you have seen.

Also, if I spend so much time in the crime section, believe you me, I would live a life of fear because i would become so crime conscious and fear would creep into my heart. A pathway i always pass on the normal day would look so creepy because i would feel someone is lurking around waiting to strike. The solution is not the people posting because whether they post or not doesn't mean that crime does not exist neither does it reduce its frequency. For my personal sake, i may need to take a conscious break from the section because of the negative impact it has built in my subconscious.

On the issue of people not heeding to counsel given, i need you to understand that whether or not the original poster listen does not mean that someone else has not learnt from what you said. Even Jesus in the bible had secret disciples you know. If you also take time to scroll down, you would notice that the number of guests viewing a topic is more than the number of registered members. That simply means that the impact of the advice given in this forum cannot be undermined. So no counsel is a waste whether or not the poster listens.

But seriously, anybody who logged in with the intention of sharing a problem would simply keep quiet and out of fear decline to share on account of the topic of the post.

Cheers!

neyostica: Wil you girls shu.t the f**kup, you are annoying, na you go first marry Damn!

jennykadry: Dayo,oya leave this thread. Stop Derailing it ashewo.

neyostica: Wil you girls shu.t the f**kup, you are annoying, na you go first marry Damn!

ronkebp:

EEeeyah and it is a woman that will marry you ooo!!!!! hey !!! see pity in buckets. It is well.

jennykadry:

You get time. Me, I have left them to knock their heads and kill themselves over my posts. Tomorrow, trust me to post the things they hate reading . It's my job to drive them insane.

@Dayo shut up joo. Okobo

Richvkunt: ^^^
I thought you were an inmate at Yaba left,must have got you confused with some one else .

Tiana155: From my point of view, in marriage you have to work it, That's what some women fail to do, then when things go wrong they start crying, making agonizing stories, saying how worst things have become, meanwhile they did't do their homework, whatever my marriage is today i worked it and i leave the rest for God.

Afamdman: I have only one thing to say, @debrief from reading in as many topics as poßsible, you only have one advice, leave that man. Don't get me wrong it could be a good advice, but if its your only advice to every problem, them your advice is suspect. Even in cases where the woman is clearly the problem you always find a way to question the man's action say its his fault the woman is acting like this, clearly something you preach against if its the woman getting the wrong end of the stick. Sometimes I wonder if you dislike men so much, why did you get re-married. Me thinks there are better advices for women out there dig deep and find such and advice and dish it out, clearly some women listen to you so please give good councel. Whatever happened to a woman reporting the case to the police, and have that stupid man be dealt with in the cell, and b4 you say it don't happpen ask, police don't condole wife beating, they will beat the crap out of any man that beats his wife. @jenny no be today I have learnt how to ignore your post a long time ago, thank God your not God we for all don die since. Amebo number 1 leave these women to come here and find solution to their various problem abeg and thankfully you don't own nairaland. Thankfully. Oya let the bashing of me start.

Afamdman: @queensmith my advice to women in abusive relationship, for me I'll always want to find out the cause of the abuse. From the cause most times you get the solution. Now any man that beats his wife is a coward and should receive the same treament back, as a woman if your husband beats you, pls report his ass to the police so he can get his own share back, how do you as a man beat yourself, cause that what you do as you beat your wife and batter her face. Now to stop the abuse, its always in what caused the man to be abusive in the first place, but truth be told some women can drive a man insane, please ladies let a man be a man. The solution to abusive relationships lies in both parties wanting to learn how to be better partners for their partner and it actually takes 2 to fight it also takes 2 to learn to succeed in marriage..