ronkebp: Don't say anything, your husbands knows that you will bring down hell with what happened, if i were you, i will disappoint him by not bringing down hell, go and cool off first and then come back.

jennykadry: What was the girl's body language like when you walked in?

Are you back commenting on posts like this?
Very soon you will start complaining that they are driving you insane.

@OP,
Have a serious discussion with your hubby as to why he is cheating on you.
Locking his office door on a woman sounds fishy and looks suspicious.

Otosdd: I went 2 my husband office 2 see him only for me to find out that the door leading to his office was locked. The security had 2 cal him dat d wife is around dat he should open d office door for me 2 come in, he took him 30mins 4 him 2 open d door only 4 me 2 enter d office i met a girl in d office. He has been telling me d girl is just a friend he has nothing 2 do with her, nd dat anytime he is in d office he likes locking d door. But its not my firs time of going 2 d office d door is always open.pls somebody should advice me on wat 2 do because right now i am going mad.i need mature advice no insult pls.

coogar:

maybe your husband is a gynaecologist - he's checking something very private
and the door needs to be locked.

you didn't catch him pants down with the woman.
if i were you, i wouldn't talk about it again.

Otosdd: U could see guilt on my husband face even dat of d girls face both of them were uncomfortable wen they saw me. Even right now my husband is not taking with me its as if nothing happen business as usual. I am really unhappy about everytin dat happen, u know wen u have this trust about ur husband dat he cannot cheat on u but only for u 2 find out dat he is not wat u think. Its realy painful. I dont know wat 2 do i am stil crying uptil now d painful tin is dat i am pregnat. Its just 2 much for me 2 handle.

rose~75:


Mr coogar, I find it hard to believe that you're serious. What silly check was that?. A gynae overnight?
(hisses)

Otosdd: U could see guilt on my husband face even dat of d girls face both of them were uncomfortable wen they saw me. Even right now my husband is not taking with me its as if nothing happen business as usual. I am really unhappy about everytin dat happen, u know wen u have this trust about ur husband dat he cannot cheat on u but only for u 2 find out dat he is not wat u think. Its realy painful. I dont know wat 2 do i am stil crying uptil now d painful tin is dat i am pregnat. Its just 2 much for me 2 handle.

Otosdd: @dayokanu. Must he lock d door wen he is inside with a lady. This is not my first time of going 2 d office nd they ve not for once lock dat door tel me wat can explain dat.

Otosdd: U could see guilt on my husband face even dat of d girls face both of them were uncomfortable wen they saw me. Even right now my husband is not taking with me its as if nothing happen business as usual. I am really unhappy about everytin dat happen, u know wen u have this trust about ur husband dat he cannot cheat on u but only for u 2 find out dat he is not wat u think. Its realy painful. I dont know wat 2 do i am stil crying uptil now d painful tin is dat i am pregnat. Its just 2 much for me 2 handle.

Otosdd: I went 2 my husband office 2 see him only for me to find out that the door leading to his office was locked. The security had 2 cal him dat d wife is around dat he should open d office door for me 2 come in, he took him 30mins 4 him 2 open d door only 4 me 2 enter d office i met a girl in d office. He has been telling me d girl is just a friend he has nothing 2 do with her,[size=18pt] nd dat anytime he is in d office he likes locking d door.[/size] But its not my firs time of going 2 d office d door is always open.pls somebody should advice me on wat 2 do because right now i am going mad.i need mature advice no insult pls.

dayokanu:

Several reasons for a boss to lock the door when with a colleague male or female.

They might be discussing some business sensitive issue,
He might be scolding her and would let others to hear his voice or what the subject matter is,
He might be discussing some people at the place of work,
He might be discussing promotion of other colleagues- Who to promote and who to sack

There are a million and one things that can be discussed and needs to be discussed behind closed doors.

Do you work in an office environment? Has there been a time your boss or colleague told you to come into his/her office and shut the door?

The fishy part is a man thats phocking his colleague, If they told him his wife is around, Most times he would panic and not take up to 30mins before attending to you, But if his hands are clean he would see no reasons to hurry with the colleague

Outstrip:

None of those requires the door to be locked. He could have just shut the door if it was such a serious issue

jas0n:
honestly,you need someone u can talk to face to face...reach out to a friend and cry ur heart so the person can console u...dont bottle your emotions abeg

Otosdd: I have never for once deniel him of sex even with my pregnancy if he say he want sex 3times a day i stil do it. I dont know where i have gone wrong, or wat i have done wrong 2 make him stoop so low as 2 do wat he did. I am just praying for God 2 give me strenght. I am really hurt.