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@ topic my questions are:

are you still living at home, a student or working?

is mum still paying your bills

be aware that your mum wants what is best for you! that is her own way of looking out for you( even if its wrong)

she is your Mummy (your progenitor) even if the sun refuses to shine no more.

you can't buy a new mother in the market!

Obviously you are in love with this Guy and if in your heart of hearts this is who you want to spend the rest of you life with then:stand your ground

this will be more easier if you are completely independent from your Mum! ^{( hence the questions above)}

if you are not you can still make her understand your choice and your decisions _{prophet or no prophet}

above all take your problems to God in prayers, he has a unique way of dealing with 'em

dunno what to say here.
indeed a tough situation.

hope u find answers soon!

@Hypraise

You really need to pray and ask for God's direction.

It is well

smtimes parents are against their children's choice of life partner and the irony of it all is that most times they are right. in ur case i think you and your guy shld visit ur pastor and pray about this thing to gether becos ur mom might just be right and again she might be wrong. it is only God's leading that can help u. Dont 4get that if u rush into marriage, u end up rushing out. pray about it and if God says he is the one, then he is the one. Goodluck

What your mother would see sitting down,you might not see standing on an iroko tree.

I understand how you feel but just take your time and pray about it.Ironically,parents are mostly right(though not always)

Trust me you dont wanna go into marriage without parental blessings, those who did hardly have a lasting marriage.

Goodluck

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wuz ere

@poster! if ur mum suddenly change her heart towards your boyfriend, it could be that she might have seeing something u did not see cause the love u are having for him hsa blinded u or ur mum has some soft spot for him and want him for herslf. it could be. just take ur time to investigate her very well and meet the prophet that she claim told her the marriage will not work and ask him why it wont work. it now left for the both of u to have faith in each other. Is there any thing too hard for God to do