Sometimes they tend to make trouble based on the fact that their bro owns da house. useless creeps. i've seen it happen.

happened to u?

No, not to me.

ooo ok

@ Grizzly

Not sometimes, most times.      

2 is a couple and three is a crowd. None should come and live they are free to visit and stay few days after which they must leave.

just my point

Non. Newlyweds should not have anyone living with them atleast for the first year or two. You are still trying to figure out yourselves in the marriage, set boundaries etc. How can you do that when there is an "antenna" there breathing down your back. I say NO NO NO.

nobledanie:

2 is a couple and three is a crowd. None should come and live they are free to visit and stay few days after which they must leave.

supported.

live for where? To your tents oh israel. No, stay in your house and i will stay in mine.

My door is open to all the members of my family and my wife's family.My wife and I have never one day complain that any of them is giving us problem.Please try and live peacefully with your people.

Outstrip:

Newlyweds should not have anyone living with them atleast for the first year or two.

Exactly!

see, from experience, it is better if any in-law from any side is coming to live with newly married it should be this way: if the husband is bringing from the wife side, he should allow a male, and if the wife is accepting from the husband side, should be a female. That way the husband will not try any thing with a male, neither the wife try anything funny with a female . if it is the other way round, na u sabi, anything wey happen after, na ur wahala.

wetin lost for their hand wey dem wan come look for for my house. Please i dont want anybody to come and scatter my union with their jealousy. i dont need any of them around whether male of female. today na she talks to me this way, tomorow is she talks to her husband anyhow, she dosent cook well, she did this and that.


Abeg make dem scram and get their own life.

i have never bothered any of my brothers wives, we get along so well because we rarely see each other. one of them even stays so close to us and he and the wife has been begging us to come visit but trust my mom and siblings, we are too busy with our lives to poke our nose in their biz.

Most of those who say na my brother's house are the unambitous NFA in town.

for instance, i work and go to school and rarely have time for any other thing, when do i have time to do gbeborun abeg, make everybody face his/her life and let couples enjoy their union.

By dis in4matn given by diff girls, it's obvious none of dis girls deserv marriage. They are family destroyers instd of builders. Have they eva wondered dat such action can bring enormity btwn d members of d family for life? Tufiakwa.