OP, just let her be! Ok?

Try to move on, stop flashing her with hidden nos.

Stop sending message to her,

Stop calling. Ok?
She wants out and you can't do anything to change her, not even begging.

Trust me, the more you beg the more irritated she becomes.

It might take awhile but when a ladies mind is made up.....it's very very difficult to change.
Let your people know its over and try to move on, c'est la vie.

It makes you stronger.

Hugs for you

She's gone & for good, dont let ur emotions guide u. Dont ever persuade any girl into any relationship or being with u due to symapathy, try & take ur mind off her completely. Like I always tell guys never u beg any girl if not u'll be messed up.

Sorry OP, she is gone for good, forget about her, stop sending friends to her and move on with your life. There is a girl out there who will love you and appreciate you more.

Awwww. Young love. The truth is she left you long ago. Forget her and move on. Your heart will mend after a while.

OP, I sympathize with you. I have an idea of what you are going through . . . been in a similar position before.

Okay follow these steps because right now, you are not thinking straight and you are too weak to make up your mind about this girl.

1) NEVER call her again EXCEPT on her birthdays and make the call brief, very brief! (Don't call her, not even on Christmas).
2) Move on with your life! Take your mind off her. The easiest way to do that is to have a new GF. You have a bright prospect so don't worry, the girls will come.
3) Move closer to GOD (whatever your religion). ONLY GOD heals the heart!
4) Forgive her COMPLETELY! If you don't, she'll remain in control of your life!
5) Find a job. Something to keep you busy!


Follow these steps and trust me, you'll be fine. As for the chick, she'll be back!!! Just stop begging and acting desperate. She simply wants to taste a different meat for a change.

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I disagree on calling her on her birthdays. Don`t call her for whatever reason. She is past so must remain in your past.

First try to do away of anything that will remind you of her, then think of all the negatives in her life that you hate. Focus on the those negatives and you will see yourself loving her less, the love will die naturally.

Get really busy with yourself and career. Discover the strength of your new gurl. It`s a matter of time she will be completely deleted from your head.

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@op, welcome on board. I understand how u feel but only time will heal ur heart. Get busy, make friends nd dont shut ur self out from the world cos there is another girl out there for u. Pls quit calling her for now nd dont make her ur enemy. All will become history. Move on.

Okay - I have since stopped calling her, deleted her number but still have it off hand, also I haven't deleted her on facebook cos she's hardly there - 2 be sincere, I still care much about her but I now know she doesn't care about me too although she keeps saying she wishes me well and t o honest, I don't wish her well or any happiness because of what's she's done - why should th e wicked choose t o remain happy - I still don't know why some people have this inbuilt selfishness deep down In them -
I'm happy with my new stress free life, @least now I have 2 worry only about myself and myself alone - I can't be friends with her not under any condition not in this life nor d next - its everyone 2 their own path and tent


.F.uck it

@OP

Bro you don`t need to be bitter with her. You are according this girl so much attention, it`s not worth it. Live life as she never exist. I was once in your shoe, I loved this chick with my whole being and gbam she left with another guy. Immediately I shut her out of my life. Somehow she is the one looking for my friendship. I can`t risk life with such nonsense anymore.

Abeg use your energy on more useful things than on one useless girl that is not worth it. If your current chick is not your type then continue picking until you find the right one.

Thank u

d first mistake you did is having her to apologise to your family after she cheated.sorry, but dats too dumb of you. and that is why shw is taking you more for mugu. the girl is a total s.l.u.t and unrepentant b.i...tc.h. the next message you are gonna send her is blast the hell outta her. danm!!! let her know you ae in control of ir emotions andU no send her.

As a woman, I know how irritated i feel when i get calls from someone i have no interest in talking to. Don't give her power to dominate your world like this and disconnect yourself completely.
No one is perfect and some deserve a second chance but I think you're finding it hard to let go because you're scared you'll never love anyone the way to love her. You may or you may not love like this again but please don't waste your time on this woman anymore because she is clearly not interested. Which is her loss because many people go thru life without experiencing what true love is!

Being in a rebound relationship is worse and would advise you to take it very slow with your new girlfriend till you heal and can focus more clearly. It's won't be fair to the new gf if she's made to suffer for something that is not her fault.
x

Op stop makin ur ex,feel shes all just move on..shes careless abt ur feelins...she does not regard ur family,,,cant u get it just put ur self togeda..i knw s not easy,but try and move on that gurl s just 2 full of her self. na dat kain gurl u be wan put 4 house

Dats tru

OP, that relationship was meant to fail. Let your heartbreak, then put it back together. Don't be desperate, focus on your job and other things that can give you joy until you find Mrs. Right.

Sorry, stuff happens, we have to deal with it.

@ OP: ow re u feeling? i understand wat u're goin thru. i know that when a guy genuinely loves a woman, he loves her wit his whole being. i ll just advice u to 1. let the gal go. don't cal her anymore, d temptation ll be hard b'cos no matter ow hard u try, u can't forget it. and also forgive her cos when u re bitter against someone, u re only hurtin urself n puttin urself in bondage. 2. get closer to God, only Him can heal u. Talk to Him, tell Him u re heartbroken, cry to Him n He ll heal u. 3. end ur relationship wit ur new gal. she ll only be competing wit ur ex's shadows. u cann never love her for now and she ll know. u have to get healed b4 u can give urself out again. 4. please n please, don't be afraid to love again. don't be scared to give urself to another woman later. it wouldn't be easy but decide that u wouldn't let ur ex deprive u of livin life to d fullest. 5. finally, remember that in future, ur ex may never tell u but she ll weep in future that she threw a great opportunity away! take care of urself! i pray that God heals u real soon n make sure u don't stay isolated! u need genuine n faithful friends now.

Bro, life can be unfair sometimes. However, what can you do? Just take it in you stride and move on. Months or years down the line, you will have cause to be grateful to God that this break up happened now.

Guy, I don't want to sound rude but you sound so depressing that its quite sickening. You sincerely need a REAL JOLT to the Head, to make you understand she's GONE for good.
I recommend you SMOKE her out of your system. Two wraps of weed and a chilled bottle of Odeku, should do the trick. WAKE UP SON!

abi o chaircover, he really will laugh at himself in a few years.
op, time heals.move on

I rili hp d OP listens n takes ur advices
Gosh, dis cld b so hard u know, only him can help himself, kill her in u, let everyth abt her b dead
She's all gone

Thank u bur wat if she calls again - wat do I do
If she sends an sms - wat do I do

I'm nt thinkin abt her cos I have my head on sumtin important
But d issue nw is wenever d witch calls - it confuses me.
She said she won't call again and I've asked her stop -
Do u think she still would + its my bday in 2weeks I dnt knw if
She would capitalize on that 2 torment me again

Awwwwwwwwww
Pele Poster, you will get over it
Please stay this nice and don't let this one life experience turn you to a maniac when it comes to your next girlfriend, trust me, it might seem impossible to you that you can ever love any other person but you will.
Love nwatintin. It is well.

titans: Thank u bur wat if she calls again - wat do I do
If she sends an sms - wat do I do

I'm nt thinkin abt her cos I have my head on sumtin important
But d issue nw is wenever d witch calls - it confuses me.
She said she won't call again and I've asked her stop -
Do u think she still would + its my bday in 2weeks I dnt knw if
She would capitalize on that 2 torment me again

OP, I sympathize with you. I have an idea of what you are going through . . . been in a similar position before.

Okay follow these steps because right now, you are not thinking straight and you are too weak to make up your mind about this girl.

1) NEVER call her again EXCEPT on her birthdays and make the call brief, very brief! (Don't call her, not even on Christmas).
2) Move on with your life! Take your mind off her. The easiest way to do that is to have a new GF. You have a bright prospect so don't worry, the girls will come.
3) Move closer to GOD (whatever your religion). ONLY GOD heals the heart!
4) Forgive her COMPLETELY! If you don't, she'll remain in control of your life!
5) Find a job. Something to keep you busy!


Follow these steps and trust me, you'll be fine. As for the chick, she'll be back!!! Just stop begging and acting desperate. She simply wants to taste a different meat for a change.


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Until you forgive this girl, you wouldn't move on. Take that from me!

One last thing to add, Titans, be graceful!

Remember, I am talking from experience and that is why I am adamant because I know the pains you are going through. It is never easy but try to follow those steps I typed. It worked for me, I might work for you!

Btw, if she calls, pick up and be normal! Don't hate but forgive and move on. I repeat, if she calls, pick up and be normal. In fact, joke with her! This will send a message to her subconscious that she is no longer in control of you!

if she calls, do not pick her calls and do not reply her sms.You need to heal first and this would not happen till you deal with your emotions