Dear Nlers, I need your advice, please. I have a guy that we are planning to get married soon. Both of us have good jobs, though people speculate I earn high salary by nature of my workplace. Recently, I noticed that during our discussions,the guy always wants to know "how much" whenever money issue is mentioned. Few days ago, he jokingly told me that he's intimidated already about me. Right now, am confused about going ahead with the relationship because I really want to settle down with a man who loves me for who I am than what I am.
Please, your advice, suggestions etc are welcomed.

Hmmm... I will suggest you give it a lil more tym. Time will tell if u two will work out. Please n please don't rush into marrying him.

Cheers!

La femme: Dear Nlers, I need your advice, please. I have a guy that we are planning to get married soon. Both of us have good jobs, though people speculate I earn high salary by nature of my workplace. Recently, I noticed that during our discussions,the guy always wants to know "how much" whenever money issue is mentioned. Few days ago, he jokingly told me that he's intimidated already about me. Right now, am confused about going ahead with the relationship because I really want to settle down with a man who loves me for who I am than what I am.
Please, your advice, suggestions etc are welcomed.

I suggest you forget the guy. He sounds young. Women like you need older men who will love you for yourself and not what you have. Trust me it's not your money they want.

Please remove to the Romance section please!

@ Tgirl4real, Johndoe100- Thanks for your advice.
@ chaircover - he asked about my earnings and the cost of every item I bought.

chaircover: If you are getting married soon, then I would have thought that by now you should both know how much the other is earning.

Seconded!