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Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by Cheers01: 7:56pm On Jun 28, 2012 |
emöfine2: Before she met me |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by Nobody: 7:02am On Dec 28, 2013 |
This hijab talk mehn! E get as e be jor. |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by dareabiola98(m): 9:29am On Dec 28, 2013 |
Gud for u emofine.... U see,the hijab is not really what Islam emphasizes...but covering of the body.This is a Message from our creator,he knows what he has created and he's telling the ladie "Cover yourselves".Some Ladies don't know what they've caused today...in the early times,there wasn't so much cases of rape as we have now.imagine nickiminaj in a protest against rape..u know what I say to her u caused the rape in the first place..Allah knows that the body parts of the women entices man..You open All of ur body,u cause mental suppresssion to a guy who can't aproach a lady,he takes a minor,and he has an oral knowledge of her.the way women open their bodies nowadays,even the married men lose appreciation of their wives,Yes!!! Because u've seen much better than her.So Allah gives this command cover ur unclothedness and if they wouldn't Allah(swt) tells the men to "Lower their gaze as well"...I hope we can be concious and know that when u flaunt ur body parts,u've confused as many men as u walked by Salam |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by Nobody: 3:00pm On Dec 28, 2013 |
dareabiola98: Gud for u emofine.... What is the meaning of this nonsense? It's never a woman's fault that she got raped please. Rapists are nothing but depraved animals that have no self control. What a sensible man does when he sees a sexually attractive stranger is to avert his gaze instead of pouncing on her to raype her because she is beautiful. |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by deols(f): 4:34pm On Dec 28, 2013 |
fellis: You are right. But the woman can do the world some good by covering up too. 1 Like |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by Nobody: 5:05pm On Dec 28, 2013 |
deols: I never said women shouldn't cover up..... Nice to see you on this thread by the way On the issue of covering up; I wanted to ask a question. Why is it Islamically compulsory for men to cover only their navel to knees when those aren't the only parts of the body that attact females? I know that women cover everywhere because men are attracted to every part of their body so I am wondering what the Islamic explanation is for men not covering their attractive parts like biceps and chest. Do you know why? Thanks. |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by deols(f): 5:31pm On Dec 28, 2013 |
I know you did not say that I dont think that the reaction to a woman's body is the same to a man's. I examine patients everyday and even examining a man is more comfortable than examining a woman. Now, imagine that I am male. That is my own experience. It is very easy for a woman to not give a man a second look but it would take double the effort or evwn tripple for a man.. I think it is about our biological differences. |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by Fulaman198(m): 6:10pm On Dec 28, 2013 |
deols: I know you did not say that A man should still know how to practise self-control. |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by deols(f): 6:27pm On Dec 28, 2013 |
Fulaman198: Yes! He has to. I wrote that in response to fellis's question on why women cover more than men do. |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by Nobody: 7:54pm On Dec 28, 2013 |
deols: I know you did not say that I see. So men have a harder time controlling their lustful desires than women? That's interesting. Thanks for taking time to answer. Although I used to think that hijab covering was to prevent people from casting lustful gazes at each other and not only to stop people who have less self control. Do you also think so? Do you think that the purpose if hijab is to completely stop men from staring lustfully at women at all, under any possible circumstance? |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by dareabiola98(m): 11:43pm On Dec 28, 2013 |
Ur not a guy so u wouldn't know...its not just rape I'm talking about here....its about every bit of it...I'm not saying it makesevery guy think ofrape...but u direct ur speech to those who can't hold it in.Today...Women have been portrayed as objects of sex,an object of attraction for a male..and the males must just fill their eyes and that's it.When u dress naked..som1 might notrape u,but u would have caused a problem u r unaware of in another place.So ur creator says to u...Cover ur unclothedness and says to the men "Lower your gaze"....the fitnah and fassad on this earth wouldn't be this much if only we'd obey...but no!....we don't want to...when I see a half-naked lady,I curse her and the angels do too...there's NO soft-talking about this....The prophet(saas) said: I've been shown some women,they're clothed but it'd be as if they were naked...he says this people won't smell jannah. I hope we all take heed |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by Nobody: 11:52pm On Dec 28, 2013 |
dareabiola98: Ur not a guy so u wouldn't know...its not just rape I'm talking about here....its about every bit of it...I'm not saying it makesevery guy think ofrape...but u direct ur speech to those who can't hold it in.Today...Women have been portrayed as objects of sex,an object of attraction for a male..and the males must just fill their eyes and that's it.When u dress naked..som1 might notrape u,but u would have caused a problem u r unaware of in another place.So ur creator says to u...Cover ur unclothedness and says to the men "Lower your gaze"....the fitnah and fassad on this earth wouldn't be this much if only we'd obey...but no!....we don't want to...when I see a half-naked lady,I curse her and the angels do too...there's NO soft-talking about this....The prophet(saas) said: I've been shown some women,they're clothed but it'd be as if they were naked...he says this people won't smell jannah. I hope we all take heed HmmMmmm...... |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by Nobody: 12:39am On Dec 29, 2013 |
emöfine2: Today I decided to wear the hijab for the duration of my outdoor activities. I considered it an interesting trial to undertake for various reasons. Thanks for sharing your experience. I found this to be an interesting post. I've subjected myself to this same experiment but as a non- Hijabi with Muslim parents. When you say you didn't feel different but acted different, what do you mean by " act different"? |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by Fulaman198(m): 12:40am On Dec 29, 2013 |
dareabiola98: Ur not a guy so u wouldn't know...its not just rape I'm talking about here....its about every bit of it...I'm not saying it makesevery guy think ofrape...but u direct ur speech to those who can't hold it in.Today...Women have been portrayed as objects of sex,an object of attraction for a male..and the males must just fill their eyes and that's it.When u dress naked..som1 might notrape u,but u would have caused a problem u r unaware of in another place.So ur creator says to u...Cover ur unclothedness and says to the men "Lower your gaze"....the fitnah and fassad on this earth wouldn't be this much if only we'd obey...but no!....we don't want to...when I see a half-naked lady,I curse her and the angels do too...there's NO soft-talking about this....The prophet(saas) said: I've been shown some women,they're clothed but it'd be as if they were naked...he says this people won't smell jannah. I hope we all take heed If I ever see a woman who is not wearing anything, I just try not to look, or not look in a lustful way. There are people who still live the old ways, and I respect them and know they do it out of innocence. You should never have such a temptation in your mind to do anything gruesome bro. |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by hybeenoni: 1:15pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
Naturally, men r easily moved more than d women by what we c though dere r exceptns. Nd if u look @ societies whr an average lady dress indecently, u find out dt cases of rape r far greater than in societies whr an average woman dresses decently. So I think d instructions of ladies covering themselves up nd men lowerin their ol boils down to our biological make up. |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by Fulaman198(m): 6:15pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
hybee_noni: Naturally, men r easily moved more than d women by what we c though dere r exceptns. Nd if u look @ societies whr an average lady dress indecently, u find out dt cases of rape r far greater than in societies whr an average woman dresses decently. So I think d instructions of ladies covering themselves up nd men lowerin their ol boils down to our biological make up. Some men are better behaved than others. No ma'am should ever be so weak to touch a woman without her permission. |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by Nobody: 11:48pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
Fulaman198: True Same goes for women though..... |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by deols(f): 6:25am On Dec 31, 2013 |
fellis: I don't understand what you are driving at. I gave what I think the reason a woman should cover more is. A woman's body is more alluring than a man's. A woman is more likely to go extra miles in looking and staying beautiful. Looking at a man's feet and looking at a woman's feet can not be seen as the same thing..i don't think it can. ***** A man has a responsibility of lowering his gaze. A woman also has the responsibility of covering up. This is my point. |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by deols(f): 6:31am On Dec 31, 2013 |
Fulaman198: He doesn't mean that he will do that. He is just giving an example of reactions that dressing unclad cause in some people. But I think a rapist doesnt need an unclad woman to do his act. There are other things like what goes on in people's mind and how it leads to some other stuff.. |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by deols(f): 6:31am On Dec 31, 2013 |
Fulaman198: This is right. |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by Nexxy007: 11:00am On Dec 31, 2013 |
Interesting discuss. |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by Nobody: 12:47pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
Nawa o Never knew women's feet turns Muslims on and there's a good chance they will curse or pounce on a lady with exposed feet.... 1 Like |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by Nobody: 10:35pm On Jan 01, 2014 |
deols: Alright thanks for your help. |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by Nobody: 10:19am On Jan 03, 2014 |
Cheers01: I am sorry that I have nothing to add to this topic as I am not a woman or a muslim. what is this one saying |
Re: A Non-muslimah's Experience Under The Hijab by Nobody: 10:20am On Jan 03, 2014 |
LagosShia: @emofine Good question |
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