helsinki: @SUV your hubby's idiosyncratic demeanor is no doubt pueril[/b]e.If he wants more meat he should give you more money so that after he has satisfied himself there will still be enough to go round for everybody.Even in such a case of a [b]plethora of meat in the stew,he should not be the one to go and take meat from the pot.He should call you to get him more meat.If he eats the meat that you or your children are supposed to eat,that is the height of irresponsibility.But i believe taking meat from the pot as a grown married man is not peculiar to him because there is a child in every adult,something psychologists call childish infantilism, and it is different in every adult.But that should not threaten your marriage,just manage him and manage the situation.

andyanders: madam, I beg, no laugh and no kill meoooooo. Your husband na petty thief. You should please do not let your children follow his footstep, if not, you will finally get armed robbers in your house.

How can a grown up man not get matured and understand that what he is doing is a very bad habit. I cook a lot whenever I am chanced and if my wife is busy, I help her cook. I teach my children always that one do not eat or take meat or fish from the pot of soup or stew whenever he/she is cooking and that it is pure stealing. I let them know that at no point should they take meat from the pot of soup or meet in the absence of their mother or myself.
Your husband's case is like a man that smokes cigarette or takes alcohol in the presence of his children. The children will surely copy their father's attitude and by tomorrow, you cannot advise that child not to smoke or drink.
You need to sit him down and tell him the danger of his action and what it stands to be in the future life of his children. It is a very bad habit. What if his children copies his attitude and when they are been sent on holidays to spend with a family friend or relation and these children go into their host's kitchen and start taking meat from their pot of soup or stew? That is pure stealing and for sure, they will be called thieves.

SUV: my husband is fond of taking meat from the pot of soup/stew after everyone had finished eating.

i asked him why he does that he said his moth is feeling somehow

when we were growing up, my mum used to beat our house help for taking meat from the pot, she said its a bad habit. now my hubby is doing the same thin.

The annoying part is that sometimes we may not have surplus meat, we will only hv enof to go round everybody for the meal times, and when he finishes eating the meat in the pot, the real meal time, if there is no meat left to serve the food, he will complain that u are serving food without meat, that it is not proper.

wives in the house, please is anyone feeling or experiencing same thing?

Hubby's in the house, pls what do u guys think i shld do?

pls don't abuse me ohhhhh! i am only saying my mind

ifyalways: Argh woman, wake up.please buy, prepare and place within his reach and eye radius more spicy and tasty pieces of meat. Let him eat as much as his itchy fingers can BUT while he's busy @ your kitchen "stealing" your meat, jejely move yourself to the bedroom and go deal with his wallets and atms. Itchy fingers V itchy fingers.
lol, mine was dealing with baby milks then, when caught he would claim his mouth was bitter. When my nagging and hiding my baby food didn't work, I simply resolved to deal with his wallet and nobody tell am when to stop.

Looking at the economy and considering that all fingers are not equal, have you thought of "empting" your pot after serving everyone?remove all meat from your soup after serving everyone, put the meat in the fridge or freezer. Most men are generally "kitchen lazy" and won't get the strenght to microwave frozen meat.

SUV: my husband is fond of taking meat from the pot of soup/stew after everyone had finished eating.

i asked him why he does that he said his moth is feeling somehow

when we were growing up, my mum used to beat our house help for taking meat from the pot, she said its a bad habit. now my hubby is doing the same thin.

The annoying part is that sometimes we may not have surplus meat, we will only hv enof to go round everybody for the meal times, and when he finishes eating the meat in the pot, the real meal time, if there is no meat left to serve the food, he will complain that u are serving food without meat, that it is not proper.

wives in the house, please is anyone feeling or experiencing same thing?

Hubby's in the house, pls what do u guys think i shld do?

Would you rather that your husband goes out after dinner to have a plate of pepper soup or nkwobi at the nearest joint when he feels 'somehow'?Thank God that you have someone who enjoys your cooking and home
pls don't abuse me ohhhhh! i am only saying my mind

Jerros213:

Already one can tell you're the termagant,wall-eyed bitch of a wife! In actual fact an omen! But good luck to you,you've got a sucker of a hubby so be happy.

ifyalways: You are a corpse!
Dead, rotten and useless.thank me!

Jerros213:


It really would be my pleasure to tame you,you slop-head

ifyalways: Argh woman, wake up.please buy, prepare and place within his reach and eye radius more spicy and tasty pieces of meat. Let him eat as much as his itchy fingers can BUT while he's busy @ your kitchen "stealing" your meat, jejely move yourself to the bedroom and go deal with his wallets and atms. Itchy fingers V itchy fingers.
lol, mine was dealing with baby milks then, when caught he would claim his mouth was bitter. When my nagging and hiding my baby food didn't work, I simply resolved to deal with his wallet and nobody tell am when to stop.

Looking at the economy and considering that all fingers are not equal, have you thought of "empting" your pot after serving everyone?remove all meat from your soup after serving everyone, put the meat in the fridge or freezer. Most men are generally "kitchen lazy" and won't get the strenght to microwave frozen meat.

papa giddy: why must u insult and disgrace ur husband this way?? u now brought ur home to d Internet for people to bad mouth. pls why cant u seat with ur husband and settle it with him. the truth is, u have sinned against ur matrimonial home. marriage is an honorable thing!!......abeg ask for forgiveness

papa giddy: why must u insult and disgrace ur husband this way?? u now brought ur home to d Internet for people to bad mouth. pls why cant u seat with ur husband and settle it with him. the truth is, u have sinned against ur matrimonial home. marriage is an honorable thing!!......abeg ask for forgiveness

Yomieluv: common shut up there,as.s clown.she asked for advice before she acts funny.and how has she committed sin against marriage?you are nothing,but another Pastor okotie in the making..

kkool0411: [color=#990000][/color]

9ce advice

Ujujoan: Chei. Poverty and hunger don kill us for this obodo Nigeria.

The poor man has probably not seen meat before hence this long throat attitute.

Poster abeg give him meat to eat jor before he goes to steal outside. Lol.

helsinki: @SUV your hubby's idiosyncratic demeanor is no doubt puerile.If he wants more meat he should give you more money so that after he has satisfied himself there will still be enough to go round for everybody.Even in such a case of a plethora of meat in the stew,he should not be the one to go and take meat from the pot.He should call you to get him more meat.If he eats the meat that you or your children are supposed to eat,that is the height of irresponsibility.But i believe taking meat from the pot as a grown married man is not peculiar to him because there is a child in every adult,something psychologists call childish infantilism,and it is different in every adult.But that should not threaten your marriage,just manage him and manage the situation.

davidylan:

lol you're trying too hard. "childish infantilism"? Have you looked up the meaning of "infantilism"?

abysirius: As an african man it's very wrong for a man to be doing this- dish stew from the soup pot by himsef not alone taking meat from it anytime he just feels like eating meat. Let's call a spade a spade 'ojukokoro mbawon ja'. Or y would a man be eating meat like he was a wolf.

it'll be good if he could be a vegetarian