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1). Normally, the cost of maintaining a girlfriend is far more expensive than that of a wife. Only a girlfriend will complain about the money you provided for making her hair as insufficient - Agreed?

2). Alternatively, a wife will gladly take whatever you have without having to be told to manage. She is on a permanent seat in your house and would never make herself a burden to you in any way

3). The certainty to marry her is yet to be ascertained so she has nothing to lose if she successfully milk you dry. A known fact by young gals which I believe they can testify to.



Come over and argue my points here: http://www.nawesabi.com/8-hidden-benefits-of-early-marriage/

carinmom:
No 3 is so on point, but sometimes hubby helps especially within the baby's first month.

Agreed Carinmom
Don't expect the favour at all time is the gist you know

ladyF:
lol that number 3 no go work o. The husband must take part in keeping watch over the night. We will set alarm and take turns, these babies that don't sleep at night....

Pikin wey sey e no go sleep, the papa no go sleep too...

Easy said o @Lady F

airmirthd1:
I trust my finance he wouldn't do such..... I mean no3......

No fear for no1....it's what I do often


There's no cause for alarm cos I have a lot of babies already but I'm not married....#no2

I'll get use to all...... Just a matter of time it'll pass....

Lucky you (maybe).
But wait till you both had your first baby na

No matter how much books you’ve read and how much advises you have gained from more experienced professionals in the field, you still need to expect a lot of surprises. Things you never planned or could ever imagine would happen after having you first kids...

Here's to get the ladies prepared (for the unexpected maybe) to be able meet up after the arrival of their first baby>>


Month 1 and 2 You are in Hell
Especially if you are the type who likes to sleep and eat a lot. You may not know this before now, but there is need I tell you before it’s too late. Hello, you are going to have a really sleepless night in the first few months after you welcome your first baby. Maybe you need to start practising what it is like to wake up in the middle of the night to attend to a crying baby


You are going to talk – a lot!
You might not really have much to talk about if your kid is a gentle and quiet one. Just when the other is what you got, it’s cool. Difference is, you need to learn to admit even the wrong fact during argument with your little chap. He might drag you to a stage where you will be left with no choice than go on your kneels and beg him to stop talking.


Your baby daddy suddenly becomes deaf all through the night
Don’t get carried away when they say men assists their wife on some certain things at home. It is good to see you rejoice at this, but be informed that their generosity don’t last beyond the evening; probably after dinner. Whatever you go through at night is strictly your business alone.

READ MORE @: http://www.nawesabi.com/what-to-know-before-having-a-baby/

Rosemary216:
Nawa oooo. All dese ppl above me sef. Instead of droppin d ansa here una dey redirect d dude.
In summary, Simply go to or blogger.com whch eva 1 u want. U nid a google+ profile 4 blogger. Next u select d url u want 2 use eg nicolars . .com or nicolars .wordpress .com. D url has to b related 2 wateva u wil b bloggin abt. Den u select d template u lyk. Afta dat u can start makin posts. If u decide 2 remove d . or .wordpress den u hv 2 buy a domain nd redirect it.
Wen u are settled, u can start botherin urself abt SEO and odas.
That's how I started! U dnt need any special trainin! Its lyk creatin nd runnin a facebk acct.

Oh Sweetie, are you kidding me?

Boss mi @HK.. i'm interested in the ''sub-categorizing aspect'' ...share more light please

Freakypinky:
I'm about starting one.

Oh oh.. If you share my blog contents, what do I promote for u?

Julius2214:
Are you a blogger

Soroniyen?

Freakypinky:
How about we share each others content to get traffic.
Imagine 20 of us sharing each others content on social media.

I think it will be awesome but each member must have at least 1,000 people on their social Network both Facebook and Twitter.

Who is interested in joining?

Whenever you are ready

hostkobo:
- whats with the huge space at the headers right? a menu is supposed to be there. Why not duplicate you footer menu and feature it at the header(upper right)

- nice writeups but your pictures need just a lil "credit".

- if you would be dwelling on just 'parenting' and 'self-development' as big picture, why not break each down into sub-categories and recategorize your articles. Your menu looks a lil scanty

- install an author plugin, so that if a reader clicks the authors name on a comment, it goes to an author page

- big ups: linking back to your own posts

- ref: http://www.nawesabi.com/4-big-determinants-of-individual-personality-traits/
I suppose you have an account with username "admin". Around wordpress, thats not a good thing to leave as default. wp rule#1 - delete the admin account..... ofcourse create another with a more secure uname and password first. Write your blogposts as a user

regards
HK

Big appreciation Sir..
-the huge space at the header right> Yeah, I was trying to create a header banner to cover up the whole header space but I guess my theme doesn't support that, and I don't wanna tamper more on the codes.

-About giving credits to the pictures.. ehm, I did a lot of Photoshop editing on basically all the pictures. Though, I sourced them online and I stated that on my disclaimer too. Gimme a clue on methods to site credits to my picture sources Sir

-Breaking my Niches down into sub categories - Do you mean having something like PARENTING with sub categories: Pregnancy, Toddlers, teen, adult etc / SELF DEVELOPMENT with subs like: Motivation, Spirituality etc??

-Author plugin .. I.. thought I had that already?.. Will check that out ryt away

-I addressed that earlier for me and I removed the admin thing. Now I post as ''a name''

Thanks for being there Sir.

@Hostkobo ati Kombo... Abeg help review http://www.nawesabi.com
Two Niches; cool??

tired. waiting patiently for my lucky day

buchibrand:
Visit any Blog here, Comment and follow the author on G.Plus then come back here and quote the person requesting him/her to reciprocate. That's what this thread is all about, not just to drop a link here and walk away...it can't work that way.

Thank you.

I was thinking somebody should take the lead... You; maybe

kombo:
Here...

Was waiting your comment bout mine na.. www.nawesabi.com

Waiting oo>> WHere is Hostkobo ati Kombo?

AndroidCare:
This is a wonderful idea. here is mine androidcare.net

Nice blog Rich.. Buh how come I cant drop a comment unless via a google plus account? -- I don't have that yet

and the thread says "Free blogger followers and comment".. Na link people just dey drop, nobody wants to drop a few comment atall..

Well, letme start this up properly. Check out mine and drop a comment on any of the very few topics @ http://www.nawesabi.com . Quote me and include your link and i will return the favour lesekese

HK
Base on few recommendations few weeks back from you, help review this again and tell me what else is lacking... thanks

http://www.nawesabi.com

It was a cool day on a Monday morning about 5:00am when you suddenly heard a sound from your bed. You felt so tired knowing it was the alarm of your phone that got you awake. You want to remain in bed but realized a letter of dismissal might be waiting at work if you try that. No alternative options than to get up, get dressed and zoom to work without wasting any more time – BONDAGE!

When you are able to make your own decisions and choices and they finally realize that you’ve suddenly got the power and right to act, speak or think the way you like; when you feel not being imprisoned or enslaved within like you used to, and you broke in to having an unchallenged privilege of access to anywhere – Freedom.


Full article on http://www.nawesabi.com/who-held-your-freedom-to-ransom/

Anybody knows when the entrance exam for HND in Mapoly holding pls??
I need to be updated

What a catchy topic.. Bravo dear.

You caught me thinking sooo naughty! ..as in "go deeeper"?.. Oh oh

I cant seem to come up with any blessing here. As a matter of fact and as far as i know, broken home is not in any way associated with a single blessing!

ladygudhead:
Life sometimes do its own planning for us guy.






all the same never give up.keep aspiring, u don't knw the next minute.Your Status can change by next week n ur dreams actualized.

Absolutely.. Then it's left for us to nourish the plans to make it manifest

Firstly, abortion is a decision. Say for instance, he is just not ready for a kid, but you like to keep it. Here's when u might need to make a decision. If you would keep the pregnancy, the only consequence is that he might decide not to take ANY responsibility. Ultimately, the child will live and you definitely will live too.

Now, the case above is a different one. It's a civilized world now so i wont like to knock the idea of "checking how the baby is doing before birth" and bla bla. Killing is killing no matter the name you choose to call it. How about letting the child come into the world to fulfill his destiny?

That is absolute NONSENSE

If i can afford it -why not?


It shouldn't be about your child "being too young to use the device"... You should be more concerned on the kind of information they would be exposed to; probably while using the device to surf the internet. And as a parent, it is my duty to ensure that they are using the said device for the right purpose (information wise - academically)

So, what were u guys saying?

Hello
Anybody want to write for on www.nawesabi.com ??

Since na only we sabi help your family grow (Parenting and Self Development)

oya check out: www.nawesabi.com

Children learn how to communicate by watching their parents. If parents communicate openly and effectively, chances are that their children will, too. Good communication skills will benefit children for their entire lives. Children begin to form ideas and beliefs about themselves based on how their parents communicate with them. When parents communicate effectively with their children, they are showing them respect. Children then begin to feel that they are heard and understood by their parents, which is a boost to self-esteem. On the other hand, communication between parents and children that is ineffective or negative can lead children to believe that they are unimportant, unheard, or misunderstood. Such children may also come to see their parents as unhelpful and untrustworthy.

Children who feel loved and accepted are more likely to open up and share their thoughts, feelings, and concerns with you. When you shout, yell and spank them to every little thing they do, the courage to talk to you when they want to will ultimately disappear.







Source: http://www.nawesabi.com/encouraging-effective-parent-child-communication/

dwebdesign:
good contents.

just make the layouts cool and user friendly.

Gotta suggestion?