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nihilistjnr:
I was supposed to be at that fight tonight but my wife is out on girls night this weekend. The tickets were being promoted heavily, and we're surprisingly cheap AF. £300 for really good seats.

The O2 is also a very tight venue with steeply banked seats so if e for clear now. The whole group chat dey there now.

In hindsight, do I really fancy a night out in south London? Dealing with a coked up boxing crowd? And that traffic after? A part of me used to live for that back on the day, and body dey scratch me now sef - but mehn I'm too old for this shït

Why not chill for Wardley and Dubois rematch instead.

You're right. All man done dey old. Noise and crowd dey quick drain my social battery these days

Highest na make paddy come house come watch fight

Itauma v Hrgovic tonight. Where are my boxing brethren?

How many rounds does our Akwa Ibom brother smoke him or is an upset on the cards.

Looking at the odds and it's almost the same as Jake Paul vs Anthony Joshua and that is quite frankly insane. Unless the bookies know something we don't.

Itauma putting hands on Hrgovic at the conference was not a good sign. All my years of following combat sport that's usually a sign of rattlement

izzou:
The person who typed this, later went on to charge 70k for the same "free number"

These men should leave this pastorship matter and just pursue their hustle freely

Can you imagine someone going to this kin church with guyman as pastor will be flapping his gum to you about Christianity and you are giving to 'God'

People going to Fatoyinbo, Oyakhilome,Bolaji, NSPPD and all these other dodgy churches will tell you about God

Anyway it's normal any hopeless society with weak economy people will always cling to religion to cope

Melvyn11:
You are still making posts that make absolutely no sense. A Christian wouldn’t be typing all this rubbish. You are clearly brainwashed into thinking people go to church for pastors rather than to worship God. Do you seriously think people giving offerings and donations to support the ministry and spread the Gospel are doing it for their pastors? Lmao. Typical example of the shallow thinking of people who call themselves Christians today.

Jeremiah 17:10 says it explicitly:
“I the LORD search the heart, I try the reins, even to give every man according to his ways, and according to the fruit of his doings.”

That Godly lady should run away from a charlatan like you or else you would destroy her spiritual life and connection with God.

You are a 🤡

The same church una dey go wey your pastors dey knack all the choristers and use una money fund their lifestyle

If you think the people dressing up to these cathedrals to enrich false prophets are doing the work of God you're completely lost not just brainwashed

In Africa majority of people worship their pastors and are deceived by dodgy preachings that these people have to later come out and confess were false. From Benny Hinn to Creflo Dollar to recently Adeboye.

I have told you the only people doing the Lord's work are the missionaries and orthodox churches. If you think these fly by night Pentecostal prosperity gospel churches are leading you anywhere you are a 🤡

Na her type scamming Pastors dey knack and chop their money sara. She will not be the first. If she like make she fall for African pastor lamba. How can I lead person wey no sabi God astray? Shey na me dey preach false doctrine for am

Roland17:
Management of chronic diseases na serious problem for Naija. I tell people just do your part in ensuring you don't expose yourself to unnecessary risk because of lifestyle.

From here I was listening wella to him. OPJ was a correct guy but that una stubbornness wen dey blood was also part of his undoing. He was quite fierce and fearless in attacking the government and I can understand Wazobia's position as well. NBC had fined Wazobia FM severally because of him and they tried to work with him to be a little more "Diplomatic" about his utterances, especially in the lead up to the elections in 2019 but baba no gree oh! It ultimately cost him his job at Wazobia FM.

OPJ wen no send Buhari that time!

Yup. Especially as Nigerian black man your list is long of things you have to take care of.

BP and Stress especially. Men have been tricked to believing you should accept and normalize it.

OPJ did the right thing but omo when you never get your platform you have to always be mindful of what your employers also require especially in a lawless country like Nigeria. It's why pivoting to independent social media is pretty important

I've stopped listening to mainstream radio since 2017/18. The only people I listened to were Okey Bakassi and Deji Omotoyinbo and it's been years since I heard them last so I didn't even know they had yanked him off

But seeing his age 66. Nigeria Healthcare system is such that you're approaching extra time at that age unfortunately

Melvyn11:
There’s very little sense in this your post. The fact that you see giving to the church as bribing God just shows how misguided your perspective is, yet somehow you think everyone else is the one being brainwashed lol. This one will still call himself a Christian tomorrow when you are just a churchgoer.

Going to some 419 pastor church to receive lamba every Sunday does not make you a Christian.

You people have outsourced your brains so badly you think majority of these so called preachers are not pimmps and cons.

Keep funding your G.O lifestyle under the guise of different lamba and think one imaginary blessing is waiting for you. You're in for a nasty surprise

Melvyn11:
Your mentality is broken if you think giving to the church means giving to the pastor rather than giving to God. All these half baked christians of nowadays who know nothing of worshipping God fully, judiciously and wholeheartedly.

You are brainwashed. Go and sell this zobo to other uninformed follow follow like yourself

Giving to God una. Are you an aspiring pastor yourself or one of those that have been hoodwinked, bamboozled, led astray, run amok and flat out deceived

How much dey your hand wey you think say you fit bribe God for blessing.

Anyway na APC economy I blame. That's why charlatan pastors and sheep like yourself can run rampage

Thunder fire who code this spambot

Melvyn11:
This is how some of you fumble Godly women.

If you think a godly woman is giving her salary to a pimmp/pastor you are quite deluded.

Spy360:
Justice for pentecostal churches. Not all of us support APC

If no be Orthodox church my hand no dey. Scammers ni gbogbo won.

I don follow babe talk one time she say if we marry shey I go understand say some months she go sow her full salary as offering. I say make she no worry I go kuku open church make she carry her salary give me as Husband and G.O

raumdeuter:
If you dont like th one you are paired with after a few weeks, Can you can unlimited exchanges witin the one year?

I am asking on behalf of kingtom

I mean if you're paying 700k you should be able to do that

BlueRayDick:
Just imagine if he links up two people as couple and one of them turn out to be a fraudster/gold digger, will the pastor be willing to assume whatever liability that will come out of such arrangement on behalf of the victim?

Dey play. You think they don't know their audience includes these people

For 12 months. So what happens if e no connect you inside 12 months

Between Pastor Chris fake miracle and this guy Pastor Pimmp. Na mumu still dey go Pentecostal church for Nigeria

BlueRayDick:
Northing wey person no go see for this Nigeria.

Pastor Kingsley okonkwo is charging men as much as 700k to link them up with Godly "well mentored" ladies.

Na wa o, monetization everywhere 🚶‍♂️

I put Pentecostal Pastors and Pimps in the same bracket. To me I don't see any difference except one is legal and the other one illegal

This is normal Seeking Arrangements P

BlueRayDick:
1.58 kilometers bridge to be constructed with over half a trillion naira.

Una sure say Dave Umahi no go displace Dangote as Africa's richest man by the time Tinubu's tenure finally end?

They will give him Emefiele treatment let him continue fooling

Roland17:
RIP Diplomatic OPJ!

Man was canceled by the Nigerian Radio Space after a contentious departure from Wazobia FM. Wazobia FM Lagos was under a ton of pressure from the government to censor OPJ and his crew but OPJ refused to back down.

After OPJ’s departure, Wazobia had to transfer E2DX2DP from Abuja to come and steady the ship in Lagos because it was falling apart and he has done a fair job. While vocal about issues of the country, E2DX2DP is a more diplomatic in his approach.

Chai. Na my town man. That drawl and accent dey unmistakable

Anytime I dey hear am for radio back then he sounds exactly like my grandpa and uncles wey no comot that side

I didn't know they did him that greasy. This life sha. 66 is still fairly young if you're in a good environment. It's so unfortunate man

KingTom:
Egbon Ramuzaki there you go, view quick before the spambot nabs me

Abajo. She carry Bundassliga

Roland17:
Let’s all pray and hope he has a long career because In sports nothing is given. He is 25 already with 4 all under 3 and we know he isn’t going to stop. You may think he is safe because he has contracts in front of him but it will definitely eat his pocket and that is why he was fighting in court over the paternity of the most recent baby.

I think he would be aight as long as he stays away from California

The bag today is absurd. Jokic is balking on extending for $280m cos next season he will be eligible for $350. At 33 y.o. How much more a younger franchise guy like Antman whose solely responsible for their relevance. They will pay him like they were paying KG at the time cos he was the price of admission

Unless he's moving like Mayweather (I've always suspected boxing money is monopoly money)

He would be fine. What will bother him more when he cleans his act up is the caliber of women that he got pregnant more than anything else. That post nut clarity would hit like a Buckshot. He's probably feeling it already which is why he is this nasty with them women

SmooshCHN:
While I already know this, seeing you type it out makes it stick even better. What is normal to me can be completely abnormal to someone else. They can legit go out of their way to be "normal" to do what feels abnormal to me.

Per the discussion at hand, I used to think that seeing how those terrible decisions eventually led the elders down a perilous path would be enough to make them rethink their own choices, but your write up puts it into better perspective.

Also, I found that video with Obama somewhat uncomfortable to watch but comment section made it seem like I was on my own. I wouldn’t necessarily call it disrespectful because the more I watched it, the more it felt like the average "Ant" interaction, but deep down, it felt very off to me especially for who I thought Obama is/was to them. I can’t remember who Barack called in the video, but it felt like they were embarrassed on Ant’s behalf but still didn’t think to correct him or say anything about how he was acting.

So I get what you’re saying now. It’s a deeper cultural and psychological issue and having money or even seeing where that path could eventually lead may not be enough to break someone out of that programming.
That really puts it into perspective. Thank you.

Yeah he has that youngest nephew, last born of the family audacity and vibe.

He is slowly getting to the age where that shit starts getting old and corny though. At some point you're just going to look like a doofus

birdman:
You start looking early, and you pray. Life is very spiritual, and I dont mean that in the spooky naija way. When you set you mind to a thing, certain events start to attract themselves to you. You will just be at some random gathering, and someone who knows you will suddenly see you in a different light, and just remember that they know someone that would actually fit you. Chance encounters are usually not chance. Something as serious as a life partner is too heavy to leave to "whatever will be will be". It is very likely Barack never even thinks about becoming president with a different kind of wife.

Yeah early is crucial. A level of mumu and optimistic naivete is important. Past a certain point you just know too much. And as the saying goes. You either love em or you understand em and once you understand em you can get bored real quickly

Environment also matters. Like they say Geography is destiny so you are also right with your example

Third factor is the X factor. The other person. You can do your best. If the other person is not pulling their end of the rope there's not much you can do. Times have changed

Roland17:
A. Edwards has been ordered to pay $14K/ month in child support.

This is how these players financially trap themselves for a lifetime. While it may not seem like a lot now but he will be making that payment over the next 18 years.

At 25, he already has 4 kids, all under 3 years and a year or less apart from each other; Worsestill, I doubt he will stop. This is how they go broke! Does he have another 18 years to play in the NBA? Nobody knows..

I don’t know what is wrong with these guys.

Haha it makes sense why he doesn't want to be the face of the league.

The problem with that community especially inner city young black men, they have no real mentors, no OGs. If you ask him I'm sure there's no man in his life or even in proximity that he aspires to emulate (no one is perfect but at least a rough sketch)

Now I'm not going to judge him too harshly if I was his age on 9 figures I would have been wylin. He will look back with some regret though I will promise him that

It's not about even going broke. I don't think that can happen to Antman. He has another 9 figure contract that erases that possibility barring anything crazy. But a lot of men don't realize that babies are a deeper tie than even marriage. I would take a divorced woman with no children over a single mom

Whenever he wants to change he will regret forever being tied to certain women

This season go long

So everyone had been in the know of Musiala's condition all this while?

So begs the question why do we keep playing him? I get Gnabry and Karl are out but it's just too much of a risk for me.

The Saibari signing makes a lot more sense now. I just hope he focuses on recovery. He's still only 23-24. And hasn't exactly been in form so you have to ask yourself if it is worth it

Sportsweb:
Delulu.

João Pedro outscored Kai Havertz as striker

Cole Palmer also outscored his best output at Chelsea (even when Kai was starting as striker.

Cart your Havertz agenda comot here.

You think we don't know you and Jude + one other were the 5 leprous fingers that year..

The wahala with Havertz slander now is that Arsenal is a borderline Superteam atm.

That Tzolis guy. Ol boy. Havertz will get so many chances that he is pretty much condemned to score some of them.

Plus his all round movements means you are going to have to play him ahead of Gyokeres that has the first touch of a r@pist (copyright coogar)

He will simply get too much chances to fail

etidy:
Just look at this chart, I was watching a video recently that puts the out of wedlock child birth rate now close to 80% for blacks.

It's almost like having a stable black family in the US is almost being erased and according to American standards life is already leading most children just for being black.

If you are a marriage and family minded black man you have to embrace the reality that your options will have to include non blacks

I was watching this Pop Balloon show the other day a young dude early 30s no kids was standing there and a lineup of 6 women. All of them had at least 1 child. Wtf are you supposed to do with that?

It's so normalized that if you say you don't want that it's like something is wrong with you

izzou:
Asking for a little common sense looks like a lot in 2026.

Graduate Trainee dey call CEO "Tony"

The thing surprise me wella. Haven't they heard of code switching.

You know how many of my papa senior I dey meet for him club them go tell me make I call them by their name. But if I go their office dey call them by their name how stupid will I look?

It's some precautions you take just as someone with some basic sense. If she said Mr Tony I doubt he corrects her and even if he does it would just be her being better safe than sorry

I still maintain if say na male intern do this thing to woman CEO the hot takes will be very different

raumdeuter:
IMO, Its general emotional intelligence, when in a new environment or situation take the most conservative option that is most respectful until you are corrected to relax

e.g if I come to your house for the first time and we are not very familiar, I will take off my shoes first until you inform me that its okay to wear my shoes on your carpet, I wont assume that you will be okay with it

The below is an example of n American who also took offence

https://youtube.com/shorts/iEDD7097trw?is=T51K6bjo0gpGcoPg

Gen Z will always fight for their right to be Alaileko. Was just laughing at their silly comments defending the girl.

I don't know when it's not that them raise you for bush cos I'm sure he might even be older than her father

The irony is swap the genders and the comments would be much different. They will call the young man a misogynist for not respecting a woman

Tony as how? Even if he be her aristo wey dey fvck am you will still survey settings and keep it incognito by avoiding familiarity

I would rather go with Mr or Sir make e correct me. Even if they say it's company policy. You're in front of the grand Puba of the company you still owe him that courtesy. Let him correct you from there and you continue

greypencils:
Talking about mechanisms, see Jayson Tatum's father speaking out on being shunned by the media when his son made the league. The narrative out there is that black men are not involved in their children's lives and the media is reinforcing that narrative. Everything western is about weakening the power of men in favour of the woman. These are crazy times and we black men need to be aware and very careful. You can pile up wealth but one mistake with the opposite sex, even with ones spouse and one's years of hardwork can crumble into nothing.

A lot of it is by design and didn't start today as an outsider looking in I go back to Lyndon Baines Johnson (War on Poverty policy) that incentivized black fathers being kicked out the house

The black family dynamics has never been the same since and this is what we have today. Chaos and bedlam

It's why there's a growing number of these black men leaving the community behind and going to other races of women that recognize the importance of a present father and where the mother is not trying to be the star of the show. For some strange reason when the athlete's mother is not black the father is usually more visible

Bimmarlykay:
Lol...since he is in Barça, let him do it.

All this resume and shalaye won't save you, agenda just cooked by bringing Rodri to Barça, agenda also no get retentive memory.

Which agenda? Rodri has completed football already.

He's on Michael Jordan Washington Wizards run.

Imagine thinking Rodri still has anything left to prove after giving City their first Champions League and putting Spain back on top of Europe and the World

Your club does not even have a senior striker just trackstars like Gordon and Karim Adeyemi and you're doing fake Rodri agenda. Maybe na 100m senior boys una wan do next season.

Better wake up