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@op.......see a doc, ASAP.

If ur "bed-wet" is urine at d age of 22, see a doctor.....bt if it is siemen, then it is natural

Many nigerian women feel that wen they play veri hard to get, the man will value them more and take them serious when they eventually give in. That is not true, am a man and am tellin u ladies, its a big fallacy.

Most times, it is those women that play hard to get that are heartbroken. Whether u play hard to get or easy to get, if a man wants to just sleep wit u and walk away, he will stil do it wen has d chance, even if u play hard for up to 3years and have suffered him a lot, if all he wants is sex, he will still leave u once he gets it.

If u ladies think am wrong, pls ask any guy u are close to this question, "has a guy ever stayed with a lady just for the mere reason that she suffered him all along b4 saying "yes"..?"

Capital NO!!

All of u here are shouting "igbo guys", especially d women here.....hmmm

Pls note that "care" in a r/ship or marriage does not mean just money o. There is financial care, romantic care, sexual care, emotional care and other types of care that a man should show a woman, but I can see that most ladies here are only making comments based on "financial care"

Mind u, I also think that igbo guys are very very caring in a r/ship bt come to think of it, how many tribe do we nairalanders really know and have spent time with in nigeria? U may say yoruba or igbo guys becos u have spent time 2gether and hav studied them bt what abt birom in jos, kuteb in taraba, ebira or igala in kogi, idoma and tiv in benue, hausa and fulani, nupe, jukun, kwararafa, igala, yoruba, isoko, ogori, gwari, marghi, bachamma, efik, ogoni, ijaw, urhobo, angas, ngwa(igbo) and many other tribes all over naija....?

My question is, b4 u say that igbo guys care most, have u honestly acessed d nature of the relationship of 70% of all d tribes in nigeria or are u just making assumptions based on the limited number of tribes u hav interacted with...?

As for me, I tink wen it comes to "financial care" igbo guys may be the best but in the other kind of cares involved in a r/ship, we may just hav to look deeper to determine that one......

@lovetinz.....brother, pls have some hope, dnt be so pessimistic. afterall, a pessimist is never a good luver

By d way, he knew she has a guy b4 so what do u expect, that she will just agree for him? Or do u think d gal will just wait all her life and be waitin for him without datin anybody?

He has to try and win her over or forget it, it is as simple as that, regardless of what means he uses, I was just giving some tips sha, bt if mine is not good, I guess u should give us better tips. we re cool bro, nove lost.

@op...u tell her u 've also got a gf, though she is in a different town, so that evens u guy's up bt wit d situation on ground, u are not askin her to leave her bf neither wud u leave ur gf bt she should pls try u out even if its just for 2weeks b4 she makes her judgement abt u

Just try to show her that u care 4 her more than her bf, she will really fall for u

Note:
Things u should do and don't do
1. Call her more often than her bf
2. Buy her unique bt non-expensive gifts
3. Whenever u go to see her "face to face", make sure u dress and look cuter than her bf.
4. Play mind games with her...#if u know wat I mean#
5. Make sure u text her everyday, eithEr early in d mornin or in d nite, wen she is on her bed, just abt to sleep.
6. Make sure she never ever catches u walkin with any other gal, except that other gal is more beautiful than her and has more class.
7. Dnt be too predictable, atimes, make her to wonder what is in ur mind.
8. If she is stil frontin, then invite ur gal over to make her a bit jealous (only if ur gal is veri veri pretty wit a nice shape), or better yet, make financial arrangement wit a veri beautiful gal to be ur gf maybe just for a week.
9. Even if u are single, tell her that u hav a gf bt she is nt in that town or so.
10. Be patient, it is not a one day or one month task.
11. Try to make her fall for u abt 70%, onlu then will she be bold to leave her guy for u.

OTHER OPTIONS
1. The power of faith and prayers to God to give her to u
2. Black magic (juju)
3. The power of MONEY

Best of lucks guy

As for me, Am already taken..........and damn! She is my sweet Dee Dee and I luv her

Na una sabi o, me I eat chicken with my bare hands even on my first date o.

Recently, I went to abj to visit my gal, and we finally had our first outdoor date in an eatery (MAMACASS), I ate o and wen it came to d chicken part, I dropped d useless fork, got up to wash my hand and came back to fall d mountain. My gal was kind of; "why was I eatin chicken wit my bare hand in public, that there was a small soup from d chicken in my moustache etc"....I was like;" and so what!! Do u expect me to eat dis big chicken without any stain on my lips ? Or leave it alone cos am in public? Better yet, it is natural wen we eat to atimez hav little stains".....she felt a bit uncomfortable sha, bt no be me o..

It is also similar to some people that eat pounded yam, eba or amala wit spoon or fork, bt I swear, that aint neva goin to be me, call me traditional, native or any name of ur choice bt eatin it with my bare hands is my way, even if I become as rich as Dangote 2moro, I bet u, wen u come into an eatery and u see me eating pounded yam, then my barehand will always be "involved'

Just my personal opinion folkz#

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Anytime jonah travels abroad, either he is going on sight-seeing, to go and borrow money or to go and do irrelevant, controversial interviews. This man is really sick.

Have u ever askd ursef what they always use all these borrowed lmoney for? By d way, must we borrow? If all d big money and allowances of the presidency, ministers, senators etc are cut down, is it not enough to build all the infrastructure we need in this country?.

This govt is the worse we have ever had in terms of focus and responsibility. Do u know the number of nigerian graduates that are unemployed? Intelligent first degree graduates for Godsake!! They always speak of all sorts of rubbish abt how they are tackling unemployment everyday, but we are not fools, we can see that all they do everyday is speak grammar on national tv everyday, increase their salaries, travel around d world, borrow loans that will neva be used reasonably thereby making the country always indebted, etc.

Everyday millions of nigerian graduates like myself and others go around lookin for job, whether through online or physically, while those scumbags up there keep looting and havin a nice time, well, God will see us through one day.

On the day of judgement, jonathan and his minister of finance okonji iweala will stand b4 God and explain how they led their people, on that day, me and jonathan will be dsame and equals, nothin like president that day or minister on judgement day. All African leaders always tink they re God, makin useless decisions just to fill up their pockets, God dey see sha!

We lie for dsame reasons women lie...

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@op.....it is not that a man is not ready or doesn't want the gal in d long run, just that ladies want guys to commit even b4 d guy falls in luv with them and also, commitment in a man can only come directly from him alone. Most times, If a lady asks a man up to 2 times to commit to her, d man may start loosin interest in her and be tired of her.

A man can only commit to a lady from his heart wen it comes naturally, maybe if his heart has accepted her already as his woman for his life, if maybe there is sometin abt her that makes him always want to be wit her 4 d rest of his life or maybe becos of d kind of affection she has shown him, whatever sha......bt ladies should stop askin guys everyday abt d way foward, askin once or twice shud be enuf to decide wether d guy wants u forever or if he is just passing by

for us guys, commitment is sometin we are scared of, infact wen we tink of a gal gettin pregnant for us, we get scared (xpecially if we re not workin yet or if we re nt yet ready to be a daddy) unlike ladies that most times fantasize abt gettin pregnant and havin babies, etc we want to commit and get married one day, but we need time to commit....so ladies shud be a bit patient atimes.

Simple.......just like romeo, die for her#

Simple, just like romeo, die for her.........#

@tobechi20.....I think u are d one who is shallow, u don't make proper research, that's ur problem. Am a muslim and I know there is nowhere in d Quran that muslims were promised 70virgins for violent or terrorist crimes.

Don't judge Islam quickly becos u hear that these boko haram insurgents are always backing up their crimes with such fallacies as 70 or 72 virgins. What of us the other muslims.

Have u ever wondered why us, majority of the muslims are not involved with boko haram?

Well, find out for urself!!!

@op, Can u make an omelette without breaking an egg....?

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I tink I won't barb my hair again except mayb once in a year, afterall, I tink she is sellin sometin else other than barbin...better yet, I will change barber sharp-sharp

Bros, I admit it, u are fine and handsome, veri fine. but......

Note# matured people don't go around flauntin their beauty or finess or inviting people on social sites to view their handsomeness, sorry to say, bt seems u need to grow over ur facial beauty and u re a man, not a gal for that matter...

Finally, do u really tink u are d most handsome? Pls take a look @ my pics, I can bet that u aint handsome than me, and am sure there are enough nairalanders here that are handsome than both me and u..

I aint hating u bro, but pls grow over such tins as starin @ ursef in d mirror frm mornin till evenin and comin here to post ur pics nd ask us how we see it, a young guy like u shud tink of better things.

@atheist.....far fromn that, I dnt hav any problem wit my bed performance, what captured my attention is how nowadays I read abt complaints made be ladies on all social sites abt their man's peformance on bed and how they want to leave him for a better peformer....pls how many times hav u seen men complainin abt how poor their gal is on bed or leavin a gal cos she isn't too good in bed? Mind u, if a man is leavin a lady, it is hardly becos of poor bed peformance, either he is a player or just bleepin all around.....

Even here in nairaland, ladies do advertise that they need a guy cos their guy is not too good in bed, why can't such ladies ask questions like "how can I improve my guy's sex life?"

Mind u, no one is flawless.

Pls @emmanuel4fire, I want u to pls enlighten us on d nature of d questions that are usually asked during the aptitude test, becos we just have to start reading something b4 the time comes.....pls, am waitin for ur response

when I was veri young, I used to ask my female friends, "who is ur dream man?" and they reply "a tall, romantic, handsome man"

fastfoward to now, I ask my female friends, who are graduates or in their final years in d universities, "who is ur dream man?" And they say they want a guy, fiancee or hubby who will be rich, faithful, and make them go really crazy in bed.

Question#..is it easy to be rich, faithful to one gal and be a master bleeper all at once?

Ladies don't understand that they may want their fiance or hubby may be rich, bt to be a master bleeper, he has to bleep as many gals to get there, and in doing so, he can't be faithful. Also, if d guy decides to be faithful, then his sex life will be limited to only one gal, thereby preventin his sexual skills, sexual creativity and new ideas. Ladies will also tell u that they don't want a guy who sleeps around bt meanwhile, if u tell ur galfriend u are a virgin, she will start seeing u as a kid and won't respect u again! Most ladies nowadays make all sorts of comments abt how akward their guy is on bed and that they want to go out to bleep wit a real man,,,hmmm, why not try and work things out wit ur guy, why not try to improve his sex life, why do u ladies always feel that wen a guy is not too good in bed, d next tin is to find d good one somewhere? Is that not what u gals call cheatin wen we guys do that? If a lady really wants her guy to be faithful to her and to be a first class sex machine, she should try to improve him afterall, it must be learnt, no guy came out of his mama's belly bleepin his twin sista all thru d way.

Pls ladies, stop going to social sites and friends, gistin abt how sex with ur guy is so borin and u want to abandon him, instead seek for ways to make it fun and veri sweet. Sometimes I even ask mysef, "na which work una dey even do for sex, no be us dey do almost all d work?"
Ladies shud be more patient wit their guy, wether it concerns being rich or not too good in bed, and also try to be beside their guy no matter d situation, this is what can really make a man to be "unconditionally faithful" to his woman.

Infact, how many gals today can beat their chest and say "I helped my guy or my husband to be a very rich man today" or "my husband is perfect in bed all becos I was there to help him wit his sexual flaws" or "he is faithful to me cos no matter d situation, I am always here for him"...?

FEW!!!

when I was a kid, I used to ask my female friends, "who is ur dream man?" and they reply "a tall, romantic, handsome man"

fastfoward to now, I ask my female friends, who are graduates or in their final years in d universities, "who is ur dream man?" And they say they want a fiancee or hubby who will be rich, faithful, and make them go ucrazy in bed.
Question#..is it easy to be rich, faithful to one gal and be a master bleeper all at once?
Ladies don't understand that if they want their fiance or hubby may be rich, bt to be a master bleeper, he has to bleep as many gals to get there, and in doing so, he can't be faithful. Also, if d guy decides to be faithful, then his sex life will be limited to only one gal, thereby preventin his sexual skills, sexual creativity and new ideas. Ladies will also tell u that they don't want a guy who sleeps around bt meanwhile, if u tell ur galfriend u are a virgin, she will start seeing u as a kid and won't respect u again! Most ladies nowadays make all sorts of comments abt how akward their guy is on bed and that they want to go out to bleep wit a real man,,,hmmm, why not try and work things out wit ur guy, why not try to improve his sex life, why do u ladies always feel that wen a guy is not too good in bed, d next tin is to find d good one somewhere? Is that not what u gals call cheatin wen we guys do that? If a lady really wants her guy to be faithful to her and to be a first class sex machine, she should try to improve him afterall, it must be learnt, no guy came out of his mama's belly bleepin his twin sista all thru d way.

Pls ladies, stop going to social sites and friends, gistin abt how sex with ur guy is so borin and u want to abandon him, instead seek for ways to make it fun and veri sweet. Sometimes I even ask mysef, "na which work una dey even do for sex, no be us dey do almost all d work?"
Ladies shud be more patient wit their guy, wether it concerns being rich or not too good in bed, and also try to be beside their guy no matter d situation, this is what can really make a man to be "unconditionally faithful" to his woman.

How many ladies out there can beat their chest and say, I helped my man become rich today, I helped him to be this good in bed and he is a nice and faithful partner today all becos of me....? Hmmm......FEW O!!

The problem with guys is they don't know what they have. They eventually start taking what they have for granted because they're sosure they aren't going to lose it & because they believe that, they stop trying as hard as they used to. That's when the girl slowly starts getting fed up because she isn't seeing a lot ofeffort like she used to & then eventually, she left. Then the guys realize how much these girls mean to them after seeing them be with other guys.


The problem with girls is they don't know what they want. Good guys show them how much they are serious with them but they take them for granted. They eventually start feeling confused with all the guys they talk to because all these guys try to prove themselves to these girls & they can't decide who to be with because they're all great guys. That's when the guy slowly loses his patience because he isn't seeing the girl making up her mind about him & then eventually, he'll give up. Then the girls realize how they feel about these guys after seeing them happily with other girls. They end up making wrong choices and they fall in love with wrong guys who don’t give a damn in breaking their hearts.

Nairalanders, what do u tink.......?

From NaijaOnPoint.com

I urge d prince to sue forbes for under-estimating his wealth because from a business perspective, rich and financially buoyant investors will prefer to do business with the first fiftheen richest men in d world...

But from a natural and societal point of view, what d heck, he can just ignore it..

But remember, this is business, he isn't where he is today by allowing people under-estimate him, and this is a very very rich businessman we are talkin abt, if u know what I mean....


Or take for example, to be d president of nigeria, and be told that a local govt chairman in nigeria is richer than u, just becos maybe u didn't let everyone to know abt all ur assets or maybe ur assets were not calculated correctly, how will u feel? Don't u know it can reduce the value of ur brand name?