If the guy is as good as you described here.....then I am sure more than a hundred ladies are also drooling over him.

No be only you like better thing na.

He may not be married doesn't mean he is single, but step up and shoot your shot..

It's either you win or loose. Whichever way....your life must continue.

Firstly,
Stop blaming yourself. Regardless of whether you do research or not before joining the company....it is not your fault.

The kind of Human Resource Management practiced in Nigeria is bad.

The question of how much do you want us to pay you should never arise as every role Una company has its salary structure attached to it but the unscrupulous practice of Nigerian HRs is to find a way to pay lower than the salary attached to the role..

Hence they ask you how much do you want to take at the last stage of the interview, hoping that you will mention an amount less than what they normally pay for that role.

My advise - Work hard there for 3 months, then meet the HR Manager. tell the HRM without fear that you feel cheated and conned by the company. On that basis, demand that your pay should be regularised to what is attached to your role in the company's structure. After that conversation, actively commence job searching...and if you get an offer, leave there immediately if they don't up your pay.

Believe this poster at your own peril.

Until we hear from the husband too before we know what really happened. I'm my experience, Women have a way of narrating events like they never had any faults....

Oga,

I don't believe your sister is innocent in all this.

Sit the husband and ask him why he does all this, let him pour out his heart to you on where or how your sister has offended him.

Also, I hope your family did not "over charge" the man with "List" when he came to marry your sister.... because this looks more like revenge...

Very beautiful car

How can you agree to two of your wife's sisters living with you after wedding, together with your wife....?

This is marriage and not family meeting or reunion o..

By the way, Don't they have where they are presently staying...can't they remain there after the wedding?

For your wife-to-be to even utter that statement sef.....I doubt if she really likes you or your ability to "provide".

#My own thoughts sha...

No Gernacho in Man Utd bench o...

Man city go win this match well well o

I hail o.... Nigeria my Country!

Corruption and ineptitude everywhere

Please house,

Which hospital is the best for IVF in Lagos...and affordable?

NessieRey:
I'm experiencing this too

I later got my phone fixed.

What did I do....?

I replaced the battery at Ikeja with an original "follow-come" battery. Everything has been fine since then.

Thanks for the advices I got from here, I was wondering where I was going to get funds to buy a new phone with the present hardship everywhere...

Flettyboy:


She’s beautiful, no doubt!
But there isn’t any void within me to fill.
Honestly, this isn’t something I usually feel. Me going to the site was because of how the original poster on Snapchat captioned it. Tho I don’t have a girlfriend but oh yeah, i do have some females friends of which we aren’t dating but consensually having intimacy.
And what’s more, I’ve met quite handful amount of pretty girls who are into runs and stuffs like that, but I have never had this kind of feelings towards them.
The thing is so confusing.
Once I decided to just help and free her, my heart starts playing tricks on me, and the moment I decided to pursue these feelings, and work something out with her, then my brain starts kicking against it.
I’m fighting my self right now.
for a fact, I know that sometimes, who we are is far different from how we are really living, choose to live or have lived, what we do doesn’t define our personality all the time. Life situations isn’t a one size fits all.
But thanks for the advice. I’ll ponder over it and will apply wisdom in making a decision soon.
But by the way, if there’s any real life scenarios anyone can share with me that’s similar to this topic, pls do, it will help a brother. I might learn a thing or two from it.

Okay, do something...

Test her loyalty. Tell her to stop hookup and be with you for now. Meanwhile, after 2 weeks, pass her phone number to a male friend of yours, let that good friend of yours chat her up and offer to pay her 50k for hookup....let's see if she falls for the bait ..

During this time, tell her you are down on funds..

Meister:


Flash your phone

I have done that, no changes o...

My Redmi note 9s has been stuck on bootloop for a week now....just showing "Redmi" and restarting every second on its own. except when I plug it with the charger directly to a power source that it finally moves to homepage.

Please who can help me out... I have tried everything but no success so far.

Very unsafe and hazardous salary offer...

Guys...

We should be discussing how we can hasten the sack of Ole and not this argument here.

What can we do to get that fraud sacked immediately?

#Simple...

Self isolate now and Go for a test as soon ad you can and stop opening unnecessary threads like this!

Hmmmm

Looks like you have met the ''one"

Think about this..... would you be comfortable being married and never being in good terms with your in-laws?

When you answer that question.....then you should know your next step.

Dont fret out bro,

There is nothing you can do. If she doesn't feel attracted to you again, trust me.... don't force it.....let her be.

Do your own part and if it doesn't work out, walk away. Life continues.

Hmmmm

Your hubby have got the flows#

#flowrida

Is it the Dangote oil refinery at ibeju-lekki?

awhybliss:
I really feel like doing giveaway.. I want those who really needs it to benefit the most, have been thinking, any idea how I can go about it? If I buy your idea, automatically you won yourself a giveaway

Simple!

Ask people to tell you what they really need money for. Only problem is they could be lying sha ofcourse...

Congratulations

Do a paternity test first before anything...

Riele:
Audio money

Besides , I've never heard of him .

He owns BUA group.

They produce all products that Dangote Group produces in Nigeria and his company is only bested by the Dangote Group.

But dont be lazy, browse about him.....

Add me to the WhatsApp group please -07063853933

Please house, I need a set of beautiful parlour sofa, preferably L-shaped.

Mention this post if you have...

Be a man and stop all these childish write-up!

Quit and stop making noise jooooor..

Or do you need us to give you justification?

To be honest with you...

Let that feelings you have for that guy burn pls....trust me, you wont be able to cope if you continue.

Give him back whatever reminds you of him. There is no easy way out of a heartbeat, brace yourself for the worst but trust me, you will come out a stronger and better person.

Nyeks:
Read and digest a post well before rushing to comment. I never said we are in contact or seeing each other as friends in the post. I only sent bulk SMS to my contacts and as an old friend I thought a free hearted person should be happy for you when you are happy nothing more. If I were the one, I would definitely congratulate her.

She has shown you in many ways that she is not comfortable to be friends with you again... respect yourself na and let her be.....be matured pls!

@Poster..... what is your problem?
Cant you face your wife and family?
Why disturbing a single lady to be friends with you?
Is it by force?