I don't think it is bad for your wife to have a friend.

The only problem i have is her calling another man her bestfriend, you should be her bestfriend ......not another man.

Something is wrong somewhere....

Someone should help me out with the achievements of Desmond Eliot in his first tenure...!!!

Let's know why we should vote hîm in again...

Don't be deceived, the lady is playing both you guys.
She still sleeps with both of you....

Forget she is a beau, Good cook, et al......end things properly with her for deceiving u and move on. From your write-up, you seem to still have love for her but bro....she ain't that into you, sorry!

As for her guy, just chill......he has better info than you, he will know once you have properly ended things with his girl.

#she is a serial cheat, you ain't the first guy she is cheating with...

well, if i had to choose....i like Russia compared to USA.....but that doesn't mean i like war!

Nice one

Your parents dislike for her has been vindicated

As for what you should do.......i won't advice you on that, if you still don't know what to do.... Keep on waiting for my advice!

AntiBrutus:


Withdraw my brother...
I don't know why this sounded sensual. Someone is spoiling me...

You wey don spoil finish already...

I think you are the problem here!

You act too childish, telling her it's over everytime you guys have an argument!

Who the fvck you think you are?
Bill Gates or Obama?

You act too childish.....i don't think you are ready for marriage yet.

Also, most part of what you wrote here is about how sexually good you guys click together, a sex-date is different from marriage.....so why do you wanna marry her, cause of the good sex? No other reason...

Why are you running from marrying her?

She is cool,......guy, you need to start getting serious with a lady in your life, how long do you intend to "hit-and-run"?

I know the sex is great with him...

But, LEAVE HIM!

And why must couples put on suit as Europeans do?
Must we always copy them in all aspects....?

Suit is a traditional European dressing and is not compulsory, it's high time we embrace our African cultures too...

Copy-copy people...

Send to basonic2010@yahoo.com

ladygudhead:
Be the right guy yourself, don't be quick to ask a lady for dating, always first cultivate pure friendship,don't fluent money but PURE love.Don't make your vulnerability be easily noticed, relax n don't let being single be something that bothers you.Check for your flaws n shortcoming n work on them,embrace n admire your strenghts.Love yourself like never before. Then tell your maker what you want every morning. NB: Don't crave 4 luv on social media, it does'nt work 4 everybody! cheers!

Lol..... Thanks though. Cheers

Can't really say why I am still single, God knows I try my utmost best but the wrong ladies keeps coming my way.... The thing tire me sef!

Good day all, please can anyone suggest to me where I can learn to play piano in Lagos? and guitar?

A good place please....

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Na WA o..... Nothing before new year? Even today Boxing Day, no one to show me love here??

I need an angel here pls...

But he signed and agreed to the terms already.....right??

The site is not going through successfully while applying.

You guys ain't serious!

Dear, do not believe in abstract beings, God has a hand in everything that goes on here in this world, don't be deceived please.

Wow,
Relationship Analyst
Nice one
Although your analysis doesn't always go that way!

Well, thank your stars...

Spaxon:
Lalasticlala good morning. O.

Good morning Lovely Nairalanders
Hope y'all had a splendid rest

Morning babe, had a good night rest....and u?

Dino must hit that..... I trust Dino

Please guys, is this company real? Who knows anything about them...

"Greetings, you are invited for an interview at ACE/NG on the 1st of Dec, 2017 at 98, Palm Avenue beside Methodist church, Mushin, Lagos by 9am prompt. HR/ERM"

Let her decide whether she can endure with you until you get stable, financially and career-wise.

Also, let her know of your intentions over her, do you wanting marry her or it is just an affair. Tell her where you see you guys in the next 5 years.

Then let her make her decision, it's her call!

#simple

You continue living your life.....but with more prayers and caution.

I don't see why this should bother you much after all, if she had wanted to hurt you all this while, you may have been powerless about it.

Bro

I blame you here

Why did you accept to marry her when it is obvious that you don't really like her? It is normal that after the introduction, a lady will want to stay with her husband-to-be! So why all these complains?

She has shown you in different ways that she loves you and even mentioned that she can stay with you in your present conditions....!

I think it is better you just tell her you don't love her enough to marry her, rather than just deceiving her.

If it is about money for marriage, you can perform the obligatory rites now and you guys start living as hubby/wifey.....then whenever you are buoyant, you throw a full blast ceremony.