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Properties › Re: 12 Mtr DEEP& 6Mtrs DEEP PILLING BY MOORE by abbatoir(m): 8:06am On Jun 04, 2020
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Properties › Re: CONSTRUCTION PROCESS OF TERRACE BUILDING &BLOCK OF FLAT AT LEKKI by abbatoir(m): 8:05am On Jun 04, 2020
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Properties › Re: CONSTRUCTION PROCESS OF TERRACE BUILDING &BLOCK OF FLAT AT LEKKI by abbatoir(m): 2:15pm On Jun 03, 2020
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Properties › Re: PILE FOUNDATION FOR TERRACE BUILDING AT LEKKI by abbatoir(m): 1:50pm On Jun 03, 2020
domack99:
What is the dimension of these pile caps
900x900x1000
Properties › Re: 12 Mtr DEEP& 6Mtrs DEEP PILLING BY MOORE by abbatoir(m): 12:48pm On Jun 02, 2020
We do appreciate your interest in our work..

1-Ths sizes of the pile cap is differ based on the expected load on particular area in foundation..I have done a foundation of 4 piles carrying a column

2-Well there should be a limit because there is something we call over reinforcement

3-This is very critical in pilling foundation process... The surface of the pile need to well treated and blind before receiving pile cap... Maybe I didn't show the pictures in other projects.. we must have done it

4_Like I said earlier..it has to do with expected load..A good structural engineer will determine that based on soil test by geologist

I hope I answer your questions sir

MOORE DESIGNBUILD LTD
...we do structures right!
Crime › Re: Tanker Truck Drives Into Protesters, Banks Burned To The Ground In US (Photos) by abbatoir(m): 5:41am On Jun 01, 2020
J111333:
Now tell me, is this protest or madness? sad
I think you are intelligent...
Properties › Re: CONSTRUCTION PROCESS OF TERRACE BUILDING &BLOCK OF FLAT AT LEKKI by abbatoir(m): 2:48pm On May 31, 2020
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Properties › Re: 12 Mtr DEEP& 6Mtrs DEEP PILLING BY MOORE by abbatoir(m): 2:47pm On May 31, 2020
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Properties › Re: 12 Mtr DEEP& 6Mtrs DEEP PILLING BY MOORE by abbatoir(m): 10:50am On May 30, 2020
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Properties › Re: CONSTRUCTION PROCESS OF TERRACE BUILDING &BLOCK OF FLAT AT LEKKI by abbatoir(m): 10:50am On May 30, 2020
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Properties › Re: CONSTRUCTION PROCESS OF TERRACE BUILDING &BLOCK OF FLAT AT LEKKI by abbatoir(m): 10:10am On May 29, 2020
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Career › Re: Nigeria To Disengage 500,000 N-power Beneficiaries ‘soon’ by abbatoir(m): 2:27pm On May 28, 2020
Unibenfucker:
Nawaoh and I dey use 30k every 2weeks Bleep olosho. This 30k for npower small ooooh
Nigga
Properties › Re: 12 Mtr DEEP& 6Mtrs DEEP PILLING BY MOORE by abbatoir(m): 12:45pm On May 26, 2020
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Properties › Re: CONSTRUCTION PROCESS OF TERRACE BUILDING &BLOCK OF FLAT AT LEKKI by abbatoir(m): 12:45pm On May 26, 2020
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Properties › Re: CONSTRUCTION PROCESS OF TERRACE BUILDING &BLOCK OF FLAT AT LEKKI by abbatoir(m): 3:35pm On May 25, 2020
Happy holiday...
Properties › Re: 12 Mtr DEEP& 6Mtrs DEEP PILLING BY MOORE by abbatoir(m): 1:39pm On May 25, 2020
Properties › Re: 12 Mtr DEEP& 6Mtrs DEEP PILLING BY MOORE by abbatoir(m): 1:33pm On May 24, 2020
Bakkah dah sallah..
Romance › Re: 8 Type Of Guys Ladies Should Flee From by abbatoir(m): 3:06pm On May 23, 2020
Oluromantic:
I'm super romantic. I didn't give myself the name. Ppl gave me the name having seen it in me. I will love my wife but not at the expense of my career. It's a career she shd helpmeet. I don't pursue the love of women. I rather make myself attractive in words n deeds enough to win their attention. If I'm not attractive enough for her, she's not mine.
Nigga.
Properties › Re: CONSTRUCTION PROCESS OF TERRACE BUILDING &BLOCK OF FLAT AT LEKKI by abbatoir(m): 10:24am On May 23, 2020
...our concept

Properties › Re: 12 Mtr DEEP& 6Mtrs DEEP PILLING BY MOORE by abbatoir(m): 10:01am On May 21, 2020
...we do structures right
Properties › Re: 12 Mtr DEEP& 6Mtrs DEEP PILLING BY MOORE by abbatoir(m): 3:52pm On May 19, 2020
Our concept.

Properties › Re: 12 Mtr DEEP& 6Mtrs DEEP PILLING BY MOORE by abbatoir(m): 3:17pm On May 18, 2020
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Family › Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by abbatoir(m): 4:49pm On May 16, 2020
Simbrixton:
My final post I wan go wack

Folorunsho alakija na woman Cecilia ibru na woman

If you are a woman with a backward mindset and for d males supporting them you are an Extremist not different from boko haram and e go hard make u see husband

A woman in dese modern society should be able to earn more than her husband and keep her marriage

I sabi how many men dey ask for handouts daily d country hard

Peace
You lack ego.
Family › Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by abbatoir(m): 2:59pm On May 16, 2020
Votukpa:
Goddamn.

First off. In so much as I have not heard the other side, I have a strong witness in me that your narrative is sincere. This is the only thing about your post I will applaud.

Everyone here is trying to advise you on what you should have done or can do. They don't understand your problem. They can't because they didn't experience what you experienced nor do they see what you see. They also don't know very much about how this world and it's aspects were designed.

I won't sympathize with your plight, neither will I tell you what to do. I will however give you some 'mental keys' to unlock your understand as to what happened, as well as some principles to live by.

1. Women, by design CANNOT love. CANNOT = incapability given lack of adequate tools or equipment to perform a task or an action. What is Love? God is Love. Love is when one is weak and his or her partner is able to contain the former. Love is not reciprocal. If it were it wouldn't be love. by design, only a man is CAPABLE of love. That's you. The only way a woman can love a man (the way a man loves a woman) is if she is filled with God (love). This goes against the grain of the feminine. Principle: a woman who fears God is the most excellent of women. She is rare and your wife isn't her. Women are transactional by design. She will only submit (admit she's under) you, if you supply her needs. Selah.

Your father was supposed to teach you this.

2. Bearing ALL the responsibilities of a home is ENTIRELY on your shoulders. This is, also, according to design. If you're not doing it, your wife will never submit to you (admit she's under you) and she will act accordingly- disrespect you and cheat on you. That's her design. Principle: bear all the responsibilities of the home while she keeps the home. This is order. There will be harmony and she will be happy.

Your father was supposed to teach you this.

3. ALL Women are hypergamous by design. She can't submit to you if she's better than you in anyway. Seeing that money symbolizes power to a woman, if she has more of it than you, she WILL cheat on you, most likely with a man who is 'better' than you. This is a reflex action for her. Principle: Always be better than your woman. ALWAYS. You can either be improving faster than her or you can destroy her progress completely and keep her at home, while making her comfortable.

Your father was supposed to teach you this.

4. Very important: A woman has more glory than a man in this world. You probably never realized this but as far as progress in this world is concerned, a woman will have more power and privileges over a man if you put them at par from the onset. A woman will make more money than a man if they are mates. A woman is better looking than a man from the begining. She will grow faster than man. She will command more favor than a man. This is by design. A woman has all the power in this world and she will submit it to a man whom she judges is better than her in every way. Principle: You MUST be 'GLORIFIED' before you marry. You must be 'something' before you marry, not hopeful to be, after the marriage. This is design. When I say be glorified, I mean be indestructible. Be GODREADYMADE. At this level, NOTHING can touch you because GOD himself would have forged you with his own hands. Meditate on this. To be GODREADYMADE, you must first go through a DIP. This is a crucible of flames and suffering that will refine you into 'Gold' at the end. Selah.

Even if your wife fears God, you CANNOT relax. A prudent wife is a gift from God. When God gives you a valuable asset, you still never get to relax. You work and develop yourself till you drop dead. This is order according to design. You were designed to work and grow forever. You still must totally dominate your life and hers.

It might be too late for your marriage to work out. Actually, once a wife sleeps with another man,
the marriage is dead. I would advise you to forgive her if she totally repents but I don't see that happening. Divorce her and move on. Live according to design. Be GODREADYMADE. If YHWH decides to gift you an actual wife, so be it. Otherwise, live for a purpose and let it define your life. Marriage is a calling, not a choice.
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Family › Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by abbatoir(m): 3:49pm On May 14, 2020
Ybaby:
Those men are myopic. That is like a woman disrespecting a man because she bore the child.

Each party brings a certain resource(s) to the table and they are equal but different.

It is only an silly man that will disrespect his wife because he pays Bill's.

In saner climes the wealth is shared into half when dissolving the marriage - you know why? Becos if the man had to baby sit and nurture he will not have so much wealth and much more.

What a woman brings to the table is intangible eg peace, love, dinner time, family together time, spiritual time and when you force her to concentrate on the tangible guess what she can no longer bring the intangible.... so peace is the first to fly out then dinner time follows, picnic and family togetherness is gone.

She hates the man for it.

A woman must have her own money, own her own business or job but if her boss slaps her butt - a catered for woman will slap him back right away but if she is the bill player she takes it and becomes his girlfriend sef then the man comes on NL and says he is being cheated on.

We discuss the effect but the root is because she needs to make ends meet. A married woman should not be desperate to make ends meet. Put her in that situation and .. we have threads where seemingly kind wife turns to Dracula.

Leave your wives money for her. She does not have the capacity to feed a grown man, cloth him and shelter and it does not matter how much money she has.... she does not have the emotional capacity to do this and still see the man as her crown... he becomes her bathroom slippers and NO MAN except shameless men like @emmaodet can take the disrespectful eyeing of a woman who is feeding them. If you are feeding your wife and she eyes you.... you can look away and spank her during runtime but if she is paying your Bill's. It goes right into the soul.

This is my take.
Things were not expected to be done anyhow...

Family › Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by abbatoir(m): 3:33pm On May 14, 2020
prettysassygirl:
This is really pathetic,I pray never to be this of person to my husband when things go awry.
Nobody pray so.. it's beyond human control
Family › Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by abbatoir(m): 3:24pm On May 14, 2020
Obingene:
You people and money, are you people totally useless without money? Because I am not and never been.

Come on, there is more to life now. I studied Economics and many a times, I have broken this thing called money. It's a reward for value, it's also a means to an end and there are so many factors that determine its availability or scarcity.

I'm tired hearing about money issues everytime. Haba! It's that why you came to earth? To make money and just leave?

Listen everyone, if money is the main resource you have to offer people, then you are just like a candle in d wind, you will be blown out soon and forgotten.

Finally, if anyone disrespects you because of money, walk away from that person.

The circular flow of income shows that money can never be at a place at a particular time, more so, now we have leaders to hoard and keep wealth meant for everyone to themselves.

I conclude with this, if as a guy or a lady, you know you would disrespect your spouse in eventuality that they become broke, please don't marry, or better still, leave the relationship.

Leave and find your pot of gold.
You are correct still you are incorrect



Much more deeper though...
Romance › Re: I Broke Up With My Girlfriend Because I Want To Cut Down Expenses by abbatoir(m): 12:16pm On May 14, 2020
darediamond:
You mean most ladies here being Coded Prostitute?
Only in different form..even so called house wife is not exemption


If you know.. you know..
Romance › Re: I Broke Up With My Girlfriend Because I Want To Cut Down Expenses by abbatoir(m): 12:12pm On May 14, 2020
yemi1504:
Just did the same thing to my girlfriend today, even though I really really love her but I will be alright.
Trust me.. you won't!

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