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daddymummy:
OK very good sir.

But do you know that if one of those women come to you now and maybe because of your handsomeness she decides to sleep with you.

During the process of sleeping with you,she is openly admiring your body and maybe she is rubbing your body/chest,making you feel great.

After that,watch what she will do to you.

Let's say after 7 days,go and meet her again.

She will do something to you that will shock you.

She may insult you,slap you,ignore you or disdain you.

Why is she doing this?

Because she believes that as a woman,she is not supposed to admire you.

Since she has already admired you and fell for your beauty,she is taking back the admiration by doing you evil.

It s like giving someone something by right hand and taking it by left hand.

The more she admired you, the more she will disdain you.

It[b] seems as if i am the only man on this earth that has discovered this truth viz:[/b]

IF SHE ADMIRES YOU TODAY AND MAKES YOU FEEL GREAT, TOMORROW SHE WILL TAKE BACK HER ADMIRATION BY MAKING YOU FEEL LIKE SHIT

Why? Because every woman believes she is not supposed to admire any one but she is supposed to be the object of admiration.Because of this

pride,she will do anything to spite you for making her fall for you.

That is why there are always problems in marriages.

A man can start problem with his wife over a wide range of issues.

But every problem a woman ever starts with her husband is over only one issue.

When once you sleep with your wife,and she moans and enjoys the sex with you,your problems have started.

That is the one issue i am talking about.

For making her to enjoy you,she must start a problem with you.

It appears you are so great that she fell for you and is even moaning during the sex.

For that,she will start problem with you over a trivial issue maybe after some days.

But the real issue is that her pride was being tampered with when you made her to enjoy your prick.

By that problem she is starting with you,she believes she is taking back her pride that was tampered.

Then the cycle will continue viz:

Sleep with her once,get a trouble for it,she gets her pride back.

Sleep with her again,get another trouble for it,she gets her pride back.

I believe I am the only male on earth that has discovered this truth.

One woman told me that the reason why the bible says that a man should love his wife and that the wife should submit to her husband is that a

man cannot love and a woman( due to pride in them)cannot submit.

That the bible commands each one to do what is hard for him/her to do.

So naturally,a woman is very proud,so the bible commands them to lay aside their pride and submit.

The lady told me that it is very hard for a woman to be submissive just as it is very hard for a man to love.

Someone says that you cannot find a humble woman on earth.

But men use to mistake a shy woman with a humble woman.

But there is a marked difference between shyness and humility.

So many women are shy,but you cannot find a humble woman anywhere.

They are prideful beings.

One woman said that it is good that not every one on earth is a woman because if it were so,human beings would have ceased to exist due to

envy and pride.

RisenPhoenix:
It is normal. That is how all women who marry as non virgins behave. Nothing you can do.


Aww I can't leave you with this problem without proferring a solution. Look, just go with the flow and don't get caught. If you start sleeping raw with your ex, make sure your husband doesn't think of DNA testing by connecting DNA test to mistrust and lack of love on his part and telling him that a real man would never do such. Make sure you delete all your whatsapp messages with your ex, but keep the rest. Don't ever forget to go to the whatsapp folder on your device to delete the media (to get rid of the nudes) and the archives/backup afterwards. Start coming home later with genuine confirmable excuses from now, so that he will believe you when you use those excuses for your rendevouz with your ex later. Above all, avoid doing anything together within your locality or in public, if you're going to meet, for heaven's sake don't go shopping together in shoprite.

That is a brief summary of the married woman's guide to still be in love with her ex.

gnykelly:
bad move...

there has been no case of community spread, this move will cause panic

emmaodet:
Because Good guys get Bad/Over-used girls when they want to marry.
You want to know the problem? Inexperience.
Most times inexperience.
It is very easy for a womaniser to spot a cool, calm and reserved girl in a gathering from years of carrying, picking and interacting with women because with age comes Experience.
So also to women, Prostitutes/Slaymamas easily spot quiet guys and keep them while they keep fvcking sugar daddies etc
All in All, Life is Unfair to Most Good people and that is why am sometimes [b]Annoyed with God [/b]bcus it seems there is a deliberate intention for people to be bad by rewarding Bad people with good life, jobs and partners yet threatening to throw people to Hell fire when the whole system encourages Immorality.

Vortex369:
You must think that you are qualified to respond to me. You think too highly of expectations of who you think you are as opposed to who you truly are - an insecure ignoramus.

Wisefellow:
Hello dear, I read your post and feel its necessary to remind you that love is real and will locate you but you must be well prepared to receive it. On this platform, you should be mindful of advise flying around! Thoroughly read, filter and possibly pray before digesting any, needfully.

Whatever disappointment you may have experienced from the previous relationship, remain focus and true to self with right attitude. Do not relent building self mentally, financially and spiritually because luck is what happens when preparation meets with opportunity. As humans, we can be emotional to issues but I indulge you to allow your sense of reasoning to stay afloat for better days ahead.

I am sure you are beautifully created, nurtured for greatness and deserve to be happy. Do not throw away the good qualities you exhibit out of love for God and humanity, rather, improve on them in the right way and what you seek shall find and remain with you till death. As for your weakness, work and pray about it; for sure, your goodness will keep you going. Hence, go about your day to day activities in good spirit and out of happiness, someone is observing with keen interest unknowingly. And to blow your bubbles, all you think are issues would become history in no distant time when you eventually find the bone of your bone. Please, do not ask me how?

I know because I am a living testimony and grateful for God's guidance.

Stay blessed!

Vortex369:
You are assuming that all your questions, have different answers, but what you did not expect, is that all those questions, have just one common answer.

You do not need a lover -

Yes, you are complete, and need no other else to complement you.

Why you feel you need someone, is the sensation from hormonal imbalances masquerading as loneliness and need to be with someone.

The need to be with someone must be taken as such. When you understand that, then you can begin to evaluate who you want to be with outside the periscope of romance.

No sex relationships will keep your cerebral cortex on alert without interference from the lympic system that controls your emotion.

In essence, if you need a friend, find a friend, if you need sex find some sex, but if you need sex from a friend, then first of all have a great friend and convert such to sex friend or lover.

Anyone can have sex, but not everyone can be intelligent and emotionally mature and up to par, so first find an up to par personality before diving into sex.

Did I mention that you do not need love? If I didnt mention, then I must have forgotten. No one needs love, but you want some once in a while to reset your minds from stress, but not all the time.

solasoulmusic:
I’m independent it’s just tougher because our system doesn’t reward the faithful and honest most times

You take two positive steps forward in peace and they wanna drag you back

solasoulmusic:
Anen thanks and same... no just been in a long term relationship preview of marriage

solasoulmusic:
I disagree with the (designed to be generous )

we woman have two uppers and one lower if you can’t protect one you can’t use the other

You guys have just one lol to manage it na wire indiscipline breeds contempt

You can have 20 babes but one showed you the way the others enjoyed the ride

solasoulmusic:
God gives me all I need thank you...

Liposure:
I keep saying it. women hold the key 2 sex.

solasoulmusic:
Yes and likewise a woman because as you get older is more about quality than quantity in partnership. It doesn’t mean they hate you they just enjoy pleasure that doesn’t come with emotions and flying monkeys.

An adventurous man is exceptional at teaching not one dimensional in tactics to please his woman

solasoulmusic:
Yes and likewise a woman because as you get older is more about quality than quantity in partnership. It doesn’t mean they hate you they just enjoy pleasure that doesn’t come with emotions and flying monkeys.

An adventurous man is exceptional at teaching not one dimensional in tactics to please his woman

SweetCunt97:
I don't know anything about money being tantamount to anything... When true love is there, preying on the lady for sex would b absent... There's this special respect which exists as you guys mutually agree.

jeff1607:
Not just a lady who loves you but a lady with class and self worth, but still a man needs to show her that he is capable of taking care of her in the future

crackkhaus:
You make a good point here.

However, I still believe there is no one ultimate virtue because the concept of an ultimate implies that other virtues have lesser importance.

I believe all virtues are on the same level and work together as a collective for the greater good.

For example, a person with humility but an uncontrollable lying tongue, is still an infidel.

psycho1:
Yahoo Yahoo don helps me feed plenty people, helped me produce graduates. I still dey look for decent job but for now I'm proud to be a a greedy person if you say I'm greedy..

Toks2008:
The place is cleaner than your mouth even after using mouthwash..except the lady has an infection.

There is a microflora that GOD in his infinite wisdom placed there and this bacteria is harmless to any one but it is responsible for making the place very clean. It is called acidophilus lactobacillus and that is why the place has a slightly acidic taste which makes it hard for harmful microbes to be there.

But a lady must maintain proper hygiene by first maintaining a hair free zone and washing the place with mild solutions else she might kill the beneficial microbe there.

For unmarried guys please stay clear but for married men biko chop that thing cos e dey sweet especially if she siddon on top your mouth dey grind am for your tongue Chai!

Lovelyeyeballs:
Dont listen to all the advice telling you to divorce her or that she does not love you.

From the screenshot of her message that you posted I can confidently tell you that she loves you and she is intelligent and smart too. You didnt marry a bad woman.

Try to listen to her and understand her grudges. She wants a friend and a partner and not a boss. Be her friend. Tell her about what you want to do and honestly seek her opinion. Tell her divorce is out of the equation and you genuinely want this marriage to work. Assure her of your love for her.

Start by calmly telling her what you liked about her and what attracted you to her. Ask her what she likes about you. Ask her what she doesn't like about you and tell her you will work on it.

If you want to enjoy your marriage you need to adopt the partnership style and not the lord, master relationship. Forget submission for now. A woman will willingly submit to a man who makes her feel loved and valued so if you find yourself asking for submission from your spouse then you are not doing something right.

She doesn't need to change to your family name. It's her name and she solely can decide to do what she likes with it. You just married her.You didnt buy her. Give her space to take decisions about herself and reason things with her if you want her to adopt your stand

She will be a good mother to your children. Atleast your children will not be dullard or push over. Support her to continue to be the strong woman that she is and she will worship you.

You can calmly tell her how much you hate her telling you that you forced her to marry you and how you guys should stop saying hurtful things to each other. If you are good to a woman,a woman will never abandon. You married a good woman. Dont let anyone tell you otherwise. Fight for your marriage.

Shugavee:
I love the fact u posted her messages ,, gives us a better scope of whats going on.

She’s not a bad person or wife,, she just feel trapped , n my dear u caused it ,, give her the freedom to express herself .. this world is evolving , women wanna feel important, women wanna make their own money and women wanna make vital decisions in their home.. give her some space ,, allow her breath ,, she’s shocked up with ur bossy attitude that’s why she’s saying hurtful stuff n that’s normal for women ,, our mouth r deadly weapons. Be strong !! Be a man !!! Divorce is not an option.. this is a matter of talking n hving a common ground on how the home will work peacefully.. leave I am a man out of this.. u didn’t marry a desperate girl !! U married a lady that had so much dreams ,, don’t trap her..

PatriotTemidayo:
Sorry to say this but a woman that typed this kind of epistle even when her marriage is drowning prematurely is a kid. She's a toddler, she's not matured to have a relationship talk less of being a wife.

If she could talk about her family, especially her mum in a derogatory manner, my brother, carry your load of guilt early and bif her farewell.

Three things are obvious:
1. She has always been a deceiver, only wanting to survive on you
2. She's an extreme narcissist with chronic heartlessness
3. She has someone else sleeping with her, whom she love more than you and she listen to sheepishly cuz I can tell you she's acting out what she was instructed to do.

Here's a last piece of advice, that girl will give you Heart attack if you don't leave her. If she decided to change today, it is because of what she wants or need, the moment she gets it, she'd become her disrespectful and mean self again.

If she has access to your money, cut her off. Every financial benefits she gets from you, cut it off. You will see how she'll become humble suddenly cuz that's her priority.

luminouz:
Lmaoooo....


Strive?


Alpha male is 90% inborn,you can't wake up and decide to be one.

The 10% left can be learned but you will never be an alpha male with that.


How do I know? I was born as an ALPHA.

ignis:
This is serious

Babara1994:
You don't understand the power of testosterone. You women should stop thinking of sexual gratification. [i]Nature is even against women sexual satisfaction, and you [/i]know that.

Sammarshall:
Thanks so much for the advice, honestly, you’re very much right. My parents thought me that nothing goes for nothing.

A lot of girls fall into trap of those crazy heartless guys because of greed and insatiability.

I pray to God to continue to give us courage to work for what we need, to manage what we can provide for ourselves and have control over our decisions.

Independent and self respect is sweet o!

Sammarshall:
Thanks so much for the advice, honestly, you’re very much right. My parents thought me that nothing goes for nothing.

A lot of girls fall into trap of those crazy heartless guys because of greed and insatiability.

I pray to God to continue to give us courage to work for what we need, to manage what we can provide for ourselves and have control over our decisions.

Independent and self respect is sweet o!