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Nextworldnx: So sad right now. Its a pity i love my GF so much but i cant express my feelings fully to her because of heartbreaks i had experienced in the past.

I think about her all day,use her pics as wallpaper(but changes it whenever she is about to come around). Sometimes i feel like licking the very ground she walks on, i just cant believe she is mine.

But trouble is i have been taken for a fool before on several occasions for freely loving a girl and showing it. Some of them danced "alanta" and "azonto" on my head for that,and i swore never to show a girl my weak side again!

I have been bossy to her, yet she is still madly in love with me. I have treated her badly (so much that i pity her ), yet she will do anything for me.

Only and ONLY! If she knew how much I LOVE HER.

I suspect you've moved from one extreme to the other -- being a doormat to being controling and manipulative -- and I hate to tell you this, but the consequences are the same... Moderation has always been the key. You need to work on yourself and create a balance, so you don't have to keep up this pretences which, I can assure you, will ultimatly lead to the dimise of your relationship.

BIGVAJINA: i dated him for 2 yrs an bruk up wid him. though i am married now yet he always dey on my mind.
i dont want to call him too but his contact noma is always on my mind.many times i remember when we were 2geda.
plese wetin may i do?
i dont want to commit adultery!

I seriously hope this an attempt, albeit pathetic, to be funny.

If not, BIGVAJINA , I strongly suggest you make attempts to elevate yourself to ladyhood, close your greedy eyes to other men, and remain true to your husband. You got that...

Other version:

i hope se na joke be dis, doe he nor dey funny at all.

BIGVAJINA, but witch kind normal woman go dey name herself BIGVIGINA sef ? eni way, make you try be woman wey people go fit respect, make you bind that your eye wey dey try make you dey look other men wey nor be your husband and make you remember sey you dey married and remain and honor your husband. you get me...

The funny thing is, even if you marry a Nigerian woman either abroad or back home, should you decide to move back home in the future, there is no guarantee that she will agree to.

bendazum: In Nigeria,people find themselves being asked to father Children for their late brother.If you were the one would you accept?

Who are these people ? I have never heard of this trend... well, maybe once or twice in Nigreian movies.

Orikinla: Yes.
75% of women will not date jobless men.
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Why should they ? Women have a biological imperative to gravitate towards men that can provide for them. Nothing wrong with that. A man is the provider. Relationships where the woman becomes the provider almost always never work out. Sadly, the world we live in today is greatly f*cked up in no small part to the fact that we are deviating from our natural roles. Men, please be " men", get a job and provide!

popkid: Tunji lost his job after his wife gave birth to their second daughter, for 6 yrs he could not secure another job, the wife became the bread winner of their family, it was like hell. one day, the wife came in & told her husband that there is a job interview somewhere, the husband went, among 126 applicant all they needed was just only one person for the post of assistant general manager, tunji is not hopeful of anythin good comin from here but his wife assured him that her uncle is a friend to the CEO of the company. 5 days after the interview the CEO called tunji to meet him in his private hotel room for his appointment letter, in a twinkle of an eye he got there, with joy he opened the letter, 550k monthly to start with, 2 official car, 5 bedroom duplex at ocean view, at the end of the letter wrote "note that ur appointment could be terminated anytime incase there is any mis-conduct" out of joy he picked up his phone & called his wife, to his suprise his wife's phone ringed right there in the hotel room, he looks toward the direction of the sound only to find his wife's bag somewhere at the corner of the room, what do u think he should do?:|:]xx</3 Answer me pls...."

He should blame no one, but himself: Women are not biologically designed to be the bread winners. If you put them in that role they will gravitate towards a man that can provide for them... financially, and then of course, that invariably always leads to sex. How can a human being even remain unemployed for 6 years ?? He was really asking for it. What a lazy a** !

lammyjoe006: My girl friend refuse to pick my cal anytime i call her.she always complain she is too busy at work.i cal her one day which she refuse to pick.i then use sum1's numba to cal her which she did nt pick.she then beep the number back nd ignore my own missed call.What should i do?

O' boy make you stop to dey harrass another person girlfriend now, eh!

ikuoma4rea: l am 26 yrs but part of my new yr resolutions was to av a stable relationship rather than keeping girls for sex only which has been my motive for evry date.i ran into this girl sm wks back but what shocked me was dat she is in SS3 and just 17yrs old.the confident she posses is something else but guys do u think i should consider her for a serious date.she cooks vry well .atleast l av a vry good job so looking forward in settling down vry soon.am in a fix wat do i do.

Agbaya! abeg lef am elone!

Imo obot: Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot. Who calls you back when you hang up on him.
Who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat or will stay
awake just to watch you sleep.
wait for the boy who kisses your forehead. Who wants to show
you off to the world when you are in sweats. Who holds your hand
in front of his friends. Who thnks u're jst as pretty witout makeup on. One who is constantly
reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you. The one who turns to his
friends and say "that's her". Above all, d one who will always make u feel real good.

Omoge, and wetin this guy go get in return ?? Na all this movies wey you na dey watch every time so, na im dey make you now dey very unrealistic and very single into your 40s. Abeg gi, comot here.

Latrice699@gmail.com:
Why are these Nigerian men actin so desperate and marrying these old disgusting white women..dont they know a green card is not that easy to get anymore.....

Yo don get your papers now, na im make you dey insult this fat mopeds and whales wey our brothers dey marry this days. no problem now, make you comot here.