₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,331,190 members, 8,449,056 topics. Date: Tuesday, 21 July 2026 at 09:12 AM

Toggle theme

Abemy's Posts

Nairaland ForumAbemy's ProfileAbemy's Posts

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 (of 37 pages)

PoliticsRe: Tracy Ohiri: I Was Promised $70k To Retract Claims Against Umahi by Abemy(m): 9:03am On Mar 21
Op, your caption is wrong. Not $70k but $200k was promised, then, only $70k was handed.
PoliticsRe: Edun Assures Nigerians Of Stable Food Prices Amid Global Uncertainty by Abemy(m): 6:45pm On Mar 12
Stability and affordability are two different things.
Food prices may be stable at a high rate. How is it beneficial to the poor masses, if a bag of rice is sold at N120, 000 for instance, and remain at this price for a long period?

Answer me Mr. Wale.
PoliticsRe: If Nigeria Must Be Fixed, Tinubu Should Serve 3rd Term, Alapini Osa Makes U-turn by Abemy(m): 8:38pm On Mar 11
Everyone is just applying Reno and Bwala formula to get appointment.🤣😂🤣
HealthRe: I've Been Having Insomnia For Over A Year by Abemy(m): 5:44am On Mar 10
Maitunbi:
And he will do this for how long?
Four days should be okay.
HealthRe: I've Been Having Insomnia For Over A Year by Abemy(m): 5:43am On Mar 10
Maitunbi:
And he will do this for how long?
Do it till the desired results are achieved. In some cases, it is achieved in four days.
Thanks.
HealthRe: I've Been Having Insomnia For Over A Year by Abemy(m): 12:06am On Mar 01
Babysho:
I've been having sleepless nights for over a year now. Back and forth with doctors and sleeping meds.

I'd sleep around 10 or 11pm and be up 2am or 3am, wide awake like I wasn't just sleeping, unable to sleep back. I noticed recently that my heart rate would be high when I wake.

I'm this close to quitting my job because of insomia.

I've tried hundreds of remedies, chamomile tea, all sorts of sleep inducing fruits, sleeping medications, yoga, warm bath, nothing works.

Help.
Get a bottle of pure undiluted original honey and milk.

Take at least, five spoons of honey mixed in a tin of milk, few minutes before bed time and thank me the following morning.
EducationRe: Benue State Announces Free Education For All Public School Pupils by Abemy(m): 10:32am On Feb 21
But 95% public primary schools in Benue especially those in the ruler areas remain deserted, parents now enroll their children in private schools due to low standards and persistent strikes in previous years.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastors Should Go To Witches Camp For Crusade Instead Of Abroad -Primate Ayodele by Abemy(m): 2:24pm On Feb 17
He remains a false political prophet.
PoliticsSenate's Reasons For Not Approving Electronic Transmission Of Elections Is Not A by Abemy(op): 12:04am On Feb 10
The recent claim by the Senate President that electronic transmission of election results cannot occur in real time because nine Nigerian states lack network coverage due to insecurity raises more questions than it answers. While insecurity is a real and serious challenge, this explanation appears inconsistent with everyday realities across the country.
Across Nigeria—even in areas often described as “insecure”—banks operate digital platforms, POS agents process transactions, and telecom services function daily. Traders in remote communities transfer money, receive alerts, and make calls. Security agencies themselves rely on communication networks to coordinate operations. If financial institutions and telecom providers can maintain connectivity sufficient for commercial and personal use, it is difficult to accept that the same infrastructure suddenly becomes unusable only for the electronic transmission of election results.
This contradiction turns the claim into an indictment rather than a justification. If insecurity has truly degraded network access to the point where democratic processes cannot function electronically, then it reflects a grave failure of governance. The primary duty of any government is to secure lives, territory, and infrastructure. Admitting that large parts of the country are so unsafe that modern electoral technology cannot be deployed suggests a level of state fragility that should alarm every citizen.
On the other hand, if network services still operate for banks, POS agents, and other actors—even in forests and rural areas where criminal groups reportedly communicate freely—then the argument against real-time electronic transmission appears selective. Such selectivity fuels public suspicion that insecurity is being cited as a convenient reason to resist transparent electoral reforms that could reduce manipulation.
Democracy depends not only on voting but on public confidence in the integrity of the process. Electronic transmission of results from polling units is widely seen as one way to improve transparency and reduce post-election disputes. If the government claims insecurity prevents this, it must either urgently fix the insecurity or demonstrate clearly, with verifiable evidence, why existing networks that support commerce and communication cannot support elections.
Ultimately, Nigerians deserve both security and credible elections. Any narrative that seems to tolerate widespread insecurity while simultaneously limiting transparency risks deepening public distrust. Rather than using insecurity as a barrier to reform, the government should treat it as an emergency to be solved—so that the same connectivity enabling banking, communication, and daily life can also serve the democratic will of the people.
PoliticsRe: 2027: Atiku Meets ADP National Chairman As Rumour Of Obi, Kwankwaso Tickens by Abemy(m): 4:26pm On Feb 03
Kwankwaso will never deputies Obi, Atiku will work against it. For even if Atiku enter a gentleman agreement with Obi ro hand over the presidency to him in 2031, a Kwankwaso deputizing Obi will strategically religate an Atiku chances, sa the head of the Kwankwasiaya movement is also positioning himself for 2031.

Atiku will never be alive to see this work.
FamilyRe: Men That Married A Lady Without Skill Or Education , Share Your Experience by Abemy(m): 10:12pm On Feb 01
This is a weapon fashioned against you.
PoliticsRe: Ignore February 2 Sit-at-home Order, IPOB Lawyer Urges S-east Residents by Abemy(m): 7:49pm On Jan 31
Does ones lawyer automatically double as his spoke person or publicity secretary?
EducationCoporal Punishment To Pupils For Parents Responsibilities Is Wickedness, Inhuman by Abemy(op): 9:51pm On Jan 29
Corporal punishment in schools is already a sensitive issue, but it becomes outright unjust when children are beaten for matters that clearly fall under parental responsibility.

A teacher flogging a 7-year-old pupil for not barbing his hair, or students being beaten for non-payment of school fees, is not discipline, it is abuse and a gross misplacement of authority.

A child does not decide when to cut his hair or whether tuition fees are paid. These are decisions made by parents or guardians, often shaped by financial hardship, cultural practices, or unavoidable circumstances. Punishing a child for such issues only inflicts pain, shame, and fear on someone who is completely powerless.

Schools are meant to be safe spaces for learning, character development, and guidance, not environments of intimidation. When teachers resort to flogging over haircuts or fees, they undermine the very values education is supposed to instill: fairness, empathy, and responsibility.

Discipline should correct behavior within a child’s control, such as misconduct or refusal to learn, not punish them for adult failures. Where there are issues with fees or grooming standards, schools should engage parents respectfully, apply humane policies, or offer counseling and support, especially in difficult economic times.

Children deserve protection, not punishment for problems they did not create. It is time for schools and teachers to draw a clear line, abandon corporal punishment, and remember that education without compassion is oppression in disguise.
PoliticsWhy Christians Should Not Risk An Atiku Presidency by Abemy(op): 9:28pm On Jan 29
Why Christians Should Not Take the Risk of Having an Atiku as a President.

On May 12, 2022, Deborah Samuel, a Christian and second-year student of Shehu Shagari College of Education, Sokoto, was brutally lynched, stoned, and burned to death by Muslim extremist students of her school.

Her only “offence” was asking, in a class WhatsApp group meant for academic discussions, that religious posts be stopped.

The attackers recorded the murder, chanting Allahu Akbar, while neither the police nor school and community leaders intervened.

When the news broke, Atiku Abubakar’s official X (Twitter) account condemned the act and rightly described it as murder.

Hours later, after backlash from extremists who insisted Deborah deserved death, Atiku deleted the tweet and claimed it was posted without his consent.

That single act spoke louder than any campaign promise. Faced with a clear case of terrorism against a Christian in a supposedly secular nation, Atiku chose political safety over moral courage.

He bowed to extremist pressure.
For many Christians, that moment was an awakening. It showed clearly where Atiku stood when Christian lives were at stake.

Even educated Muslims publicly justified Deborah’s killing, while the perpetrators walked free and her family was forced to flee for safety.

No justice was served. No strong condemnation followed from national or religious authorities. The killers remain free today.

This is not an isolated incident. In 2011, after Buhari lost the election, over 800 Christians were lynched in the North. NYSC members were killed, raped, and mutilated, simply for being Christians.
Christians in Nigeria must face reality.

A leader who cannot stand for justice under pressure cannot protect the vulnerable.

Atiku Abubakar’s actions told Christians plainly that their lives are expendable.

No Christian should take the risk of entrusting their future to someone who chose silence when courage was required.

And as America under the leadership of Donald J. Trump gather Intel on how to end Christians genocide, Islamic political heavyweight like Atiku's past actions should be scrutinized.
Congressman Riley M. Moore Mike Arnold
CelebritiesRe: Mercy Johnson: Angela Okorie Remanded In Prison, Judge Adjourns Bail Application by Abemy(m): 7:17pm On Jan 29
Justice505:
I thought she apologize to mercy Johnson some times ago
Yes she did, but the damage she caused is still affecting the family, her children are being stigmatized for being mothered by a witch.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Pastors Should Not Chose Spouses For Their Congregants by Abemy(op): 8:43am On Jan 25
Moderators, please, take it to front page.
Christianity EtcWhy Pastors Should Not Chose Spouses For Their Congregants by Abemy(op): 8:42am On Jan 25
Faith in God is not a call to surrender personal responsibility or spiritual discernment. While pastors are called to guide, teach, and shepherd God’s people, there is a dangerous line that is crossed when spiritual leadership turns into control—especially in matters as personal and lifelong as marriage.


A firm believer does not need to play second fiddle in every area of life. Following spiritual counsel does not mean turning your pastor into a semi-god whose voice replaces the leading of the Holy Spirit in your own life.

God Does Not Need Our Suggestions—Only Our Surrender
There is a subtle but serious error many believers fall into: suggesting names to God in prayer.
When you present names “Lord, let it be Sister A or Sister B” you are not praying for God’s will; you are imposing your preference on Him. The same applies when you carry names to your pastor and expect him to “confirm” them.
True submission means trusting God’s wisdom above your emotions, attachments, and convenience.
You don’t tell God who to choose; you ask Him how to lead.


Present Qualities, Not Candidates
Before seeking a wife, wisdom demands a season of separation and clarity.
Cut ties with anything called “girlfriend.” Disconnect emotionally and mentally. Then, present your desire to God, not in names, but in qualities: character, faith, purpose, values, and compatibility. Ask God to guide you, not to rubber-stamp your choices.
After prayer and surrender, begin afresh. If one of your former girlfriends later emerges as God’s choice, so be it. But it must be God’s doing—not emotional pressure, familiarity, or pastoral influence.
Equally dangerous is asking God to “change” a woman you already like so she can fit your ideal wife profile. Marriage is not a divine renovation project based on your dislikes. God joins destinies; He does not force people into your personal taste.


Respect God’s Free Will
God has a will, and it is not limited to your pastor’s church, denomination, or preferences.
Any pastor who insists that you must marry from his church is not fully submitted to the will of God. God’s kingdom is bigger than any local assembly. Destiny is not denominational.
What if your God-ordained wife worships elsewhere? What if she hasn’t even met your pastor yet?
To confine God’s choice to one congregation is to shrink God to human boundaries.


Biblical Perspective: God Commands, Not Pastors Yes, someone in the Bible married a prostitute—Hosea.
But here is the critical truth: God Himself commanded it.
No pastor ordered Hosea to marry Gomer. It was a direct, divine instruction for a prophetic purpose. That example does not justify pastors playing matchmaker; it reinforces the opposite—that God alone directs such extraordinary decisions.

Pastors Are Guides, Not Matchmakers
Pastors should pray with you, counsel you, and help you grow spiritually. They should not choose spouses for adults who are capable of hearing God for themselves.
When a pastor replaces your discernment, your prayer life weakens. When a pastor chooses your spouse, accountability becomes confusion. When obedience shifts from God to man, faith turns into dependency.

Marriage is a covenant designed and directed by God—not by emotional pressure, pastoral control, or denominational boundaries.
Trust God enough to let Him decide. Present qualities, not names. Follow counsel, not control. Honor your pastor, but never replace God with him.

God bless your heart as I rest my case.
Shalom
FamilyGang up cum Hate Against Fathers By Their Children And Wives by Abemy(op): 5:25pm On Jan 23
The Father as the Chosen Sacrifice.
An Emotional Reflection on Silent Family Hostility Against Men.

There is a quiet cruelty that walks through many homes.
It does not shout.
It does not beat.
It does not announce itself.
It simply assumes the father can endure anything.

In the architecture of the family, the man is often the pillar. But pillars are not hugged. They are leaned on, climbed upon, blamed when the roof cracks—yet never asked if they are tired.

Why Death No Longer Asks Permission before striking.
👇
Once upon a time, death was said to be courteous.
It knocked.
It explained itself.
It asked questions.
Death entered a home and met the man of the house.
“I have come for one soul,” death said.
The man did not panic. He did not hide.
He called his wife and children—the people his life had been spent protecting.
He turned to his wife first.
“Should it be you?”
She shook her head.
“If I die, who will cook for the children? Who will nurture them?”

He turned to his children.
“Should it be one of you?”
They shook their heads too.
“If you die, who will take care of our mother when she grows old?”

The room fell silent.
Everyone had a reason to live.
Only one had a reason to die.
The man looked at death and whispered,
“Do as you please.”
And death did. It took the man😭😢😭😭😭😭😭

This is not a folktale.
It is a mirror.

The father is loved conditionally.
He is valued while useful.
Celebrated when providing.
Questioned when exhausted.
His anger is called cruelty.
His silence is called wickedness.
His discipline is called hatred.
His weakness is called failure.
Yet no one asks him: Who comforts the comforter?
Who carries the carrier?
Who listens when the listener breaks?
A mother may cry and the world gathers.
A child may scream and the house trembles.
A father may bleed quietly—and the family sleeps.

The Silent Gang-Up is rarely planned.
Rarely spoken aloud.
But it forms.

The mother and children, bound by emotion, history, and shared grievance, begin to see the father as the problem.
He is too strict.
Too quiet.
Too poor.
Too tired.
Too human.

Family jokes are made at his expense.
Decisions are taken without him.
His presence becomes optional.
His absence, acceptable.
He is there, but alone.

The Many Altars Fathers Die On

Some fathers die slowly:
In jobs that drain their youth
In marriages where love has turned into tolerance
In homes where respect has expired
Some die suddenly:
Heart attacks fueled by unspoken stress
Accidents born of exhaustion
Despair disguised as fate
Some do not die at all—but disappear. Emotionally. Mentally. Spiritually.
They live like ghosts in their own homes.

Society Looks Away
Because a strong man suffering makes people uncomfortable.
Because admitting fathers hurt would mean admitting families can be unfair.
Because it is easier to praise sacrifice than to prevent it.
So we say: “He is a man; he will survive.”
“He should be grateful.”
“That’s his duty.”
And when he finally falls, we call it destiny.

This is not a war against mothers.
It is not an attack on children.
It is a plea for balance.
Love your father while he breathes.
Respect your husband beyond his usefulness.
Teach children that strength does not mean invulnerability.
A family should not need a corpse to realize the value of its pillar.

The father must stop being the family’s final offering.
He is not the expendable one.
He is not the obvious choice.
He is not death’s easiest answer.
He is human.
And humans, too, deserve to be chosen to live.
PoliticsRe: Alex Barbir At A Mass Burial In Plateau State, Nigeria (Pictures) by Abemy(m):
"Another set of empty gaskets being buried"
Ahmed Gummi

That's what Ahmed Gummi wants the whole world to think of genocide against Christians in Nigeria
CrimeRe: Man Convicted Over Refusal To Refund ₦1.5B Mistakenly Credited To His Account by Abemy(m): 4:51pm On Jan 21
Islie:
https://pmexpressng.com/bank-customer-convicted-over-refusal-to-refund-n1-5b-mistakenly-credited-to-his-account/
The first paragraph is not only misleading, it is in contrast to the last paragraph.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu's Silent War On The Muslim North Revisited by Abemy(m): 11:33am On Jan 19
These are honest questions Muslims should ask themselves. Why are they the only ones defending the 72 virgins seekers? Something fundamentally is wrong with this religion of peace.
Foreign AffairsRe: Greenland: You denied me Nobel Prize, I have no obligation for peace - Trump by Abemy(m): 11:06am On Jan 19
By this act, Trump just vindicated those that denied him the peace price award, it is obvious he is not a man of peace. He only intervens due to calculated selfish American interests
PoliticsRe: PDP Dismisses Rumours Of 2027 Election Exit, Says Litigations Pose No Threat by Abemy(m): 7:35am On Jan 17
PDP Politically Dead Party
PoliticsRe: Labour Party Declares Alex Otti National Leader by Abemy(m): 9:21am On Jan 11
Who or what is Datti Ahmed in labor party?
SportsRe: Driver’s Son Reveals The Cause Of Anthony Joshua Road Accident by Abemy(m): 2:56pm On Jan 05
BAILMONEY:
I want all the non-believers in the pre-destination ie Christians and Idol worshippers to read this post carefully, insha Allah they will learn that whatever happens to us in this world is already destined by the Almighty Allah.




THERE IS NOTHING LIKE AVOIDABLE DEATH


Mynd44 front page material cool
Allah is not the Almighty creator of heaven and earth. Allah is the highest deity amongst the 360 deities in the Arabian kingdom. Allah exists before the era of Muhammad. Another name for Allah is Nanny sin, or simply sin. It is the God of the moon.

So next time, don't call yourself a believer and others non-believers. You need to repent and worship the only true God of Christians.
PoliticsRe: Abati Slams Lere Olayinka For Kneeling For Wike by Abemy(m): 11:08am On Dec 31, 2025
Ttalk:
This shouldn't be coming a person who sees MNK as god
A terrorists worshiper should be arrested
InvestmentRe: What Platform Should I Lock ₦6Million For 5 Years? by Abemy(m): 10:49am On Dec 30, 2025
Makes use of the OPAY "fixed box" and you will be glad you did.
SportsRe: Sina Ghami & Latif "Latz" Ayodele Died In Anthony Joshua's Accident by Abemy(m): 10:19am On Dec 30, 2025
Redoil:
the vehicle were promptly rescued by security personnel attached to his convoy and taken to a hospital, where they are currently receiving medical attention. hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
It seems you are a good at distortion. Go and read that part of the paragraph you distorted. The driver of the vehicle..... You now copied "the vehicle was rescued........

Stop causing confusion
PoliticsRe: FG Approves Mandatory Drug Test For Public Service Applicants by Abemy(m): 7:36am On Dec 23, 2025
postie:
https://punchng.com/fg-approves-mandatory-drug-test-for-public-service-applicants/
The permanent secretaries themselves and older employees should be subjected to same.
PoliticsRe: Let President Muhammadu Buhari Rest In Peace - Nasir El-Rufai by Abemy(m): 7:33pm On Dec 18, 2025
Omooba77:
NIGERIA UPDATE: “Let President Muhammadu Buhari Rest in Peace” - By: Nasir Ahmad El-Rufai - 17th December 2025



source
Buhari can not rest in peace. They're is no peace for the wicked.
PoliticsRe: Buhari Pleaded With Tinubu Not To Prosecute His Corrupt Ministers, Aides - Aisha by Abemy(m): 8:44pm On Dec 16, 2025
Buhari, a man who obsolved Abacha of corruption?

Who stole as PTF chairman?🤔🤔🤔🤔
PoliticsRe: King Of Igbos In Sokoto, Gbahara Visits Nnamdi Kanu- Picture by Abemy(m): 5:53pm On Dec 14, 2025
Terrorist sympathizers

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 (of 37 pages)