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TravelRe: Transporters Showoff How They Travel At Night Amidst Heightened Insecurity by Abemy(m): 8:40am On Jun 14
This is totally unnecessary, you are just calling for anarchy. If the bandits strike, what will the drivers do? Nothing. That are just inviting anarchy.
PhonesRe: Please Help My Facebook Was Disabled by Abemy(m): 7:28pm On May 31
You might have made an offensive comment on someone's post and your comment reported repeatedly.

ThompsonJoo:
Nobody
In fact my 2FA are active
PhonesRe: Please Help My Facebook Was Disabled by Abemy(m): 3:26pm On May 30
ThompsonJoo:
No offense
I don't even post on the Facebook
Just read news and Uosate
Do you use the account with someone?

I mean, dose anyone knows your password?
PhonesRe: Please Help My Facebook Was Disabled by Abemy(m): 3:22pm On May 30
No
ThompsonJoo:
I use a Meta Verified Facebook account, but I recently discovered that my account has been disabled. Unfortunately, I am unable to log in, access my account, or even submit another appeal for review.

This situation is quite frustrating, especially considering that the account is Meta Verified. I would like to know if anyone here has experienced a similar issue and, if so, how it was resolved.

Please, mods, help move this post to the front page so it can get wider visibility. I believe many other users may be facing the same challenge and could benefit from the responses and solutions shared here.

Any helpful advice or guidance will be greatly appreciated.
What was the alleged offence, and were you given a time frame within which to appeal but you failed?
FamilyRe: I Am About To Take My Wife Back To Her Parents by Abemy(m): 9:46am On May 29
Ameduedwin:
Good afternoon house, I will like to be brief here.

I am about to take my wife home to her parents even though her both parents are dead, I married this lady 2019 with two kids, fast forward to 2020, immediately this lady delivered her first child, she changed, started misbehaving, talking back at me, with insult, nagging and all sort of aggressiveness towards me.

I call some few members of my family to come and talk to her, after talking it didn't yield useful result, in many case, this girl doesn't want me to touch her sexually, I have to manage her like that for seven years now, but now I have fed up with her character and I have decided to take her home to her parents house.

As of now nobody in her mother's room now, the room is under lock and key, and only their step mother that is in the compound for now.

My worries is my children, am I not exposing them to some danger of any kind? As for my wife she doesn't fill remorse at all, she have already started preparing her belongings to travel maybe because she knew my children are so glue to me, she thinks I can't send them home.

What did you advice me to do in this case. Thanks you all..
Go ahead, but be man enough to be a single father. Keep your children and bear the burden.
FamilyRe: I Want To Return Her Bride Price. by Abemy(m): 9:40am On May 29
Privateworld:
We have don everything doable and she seem to be issue. She has pcos and its a chronic one according to the doctor
What is PCOS?
FamilyRe: I Want To Return Her Bride Price. by Abemy(m): 9:39am On May 29
Kobojunkie:
Since you did traditional marriage(and assuming you registered the marriage), find your way to the traditional court and file the necessary papers. Make sure the girl is aware of your intentions, so she can deal with the emotional fallout and decide what to do from there. Call up her parents and schedule a date to return the bride price. And then you can go from there to find yourself a future babymama. 😒
Which bride price is he returning, did the girl paid to marry him?
FamilyRe: I Want To Return Her Bride Price. by Abemy(m): 9:38am On May 29
Next time, don't just copy a post, read it well, reason am, before making shabby editing. You paid for the bride price before marrying her, is her father not the one to return your bride price, which one is I want to return her bride price, was she the one that paid to marry you?


Privateworld:
I did traditional marriage may 2024 and this month makes it two years now. My main issue is my wife hasnt put to bed and i dont have patience anymore. I want a child and i dont want to be disrespectful by having an affair while been in marriage. I want to return her bride price and look for someone else.

I need advice on the how to go about the process of returning bride price. She is a calabar girl and I'm from Adamawa .
FoodRe: Periwinkle: How Often Do You Cook With This? by Abemy(m): 4:29pm On May 28
Pinnup:
As a jobless, hungry and frustrated Nigerian job seeker, I travelled for a job related matter to stay with a friend in his one room apartment. I realized this guy does literally everything with periwinkle. He cooks literally everything with periwinkle. Soup, rice, beans and even sometimes, he prepares it eat it alone without combining with anything.

I am a lover of periwinkle but it seems I met someone who love periwinkle more than me.

Who else love periwinkle and how often do you cook with it?

Meanwhile living in this economy without a job is worst than hell. God forbid what I am currently going through. I need a job. I need love. Give me a job and show me love please before I kpai.
. What's your location and how much pay will to too little for you to work?
RomanceRe: Her Mum Said She Should Look For Another Man by Abemy(m): 9:47am On May 27
Seyzi:
There is a lady, a friend of mine had been in relationship with for 2yrs now, planning settling down next year, which all of a sudden the lady came up with the issue her mum aren't approving the union later her dad and sisters on the ground of Christianity spirituality and before my friend can gets a hold of it he has been blocked and restricted

My question is how will 29yrs old woman can't decide for herself but My guy really loved the lady, he has invested emotionally from what have seen in the union, if anybody has been in this type of situation before how do you guys manage it
Delay is dangerous, what have you been doing for over two years? Now you are saying it's your friend. Op, you are a typical example of someone who goes to a neighbor to borrow his, cloth, but rather engage in gossip without telling the neighbor what you came for, only for another neighbor to collect the same clothes before your eyes, you suddenly start telling the neighbor, it is the clothes you came to collect. Will you blame the neighbor for giving it to who demanded for it? No nah.
CelebritiesRe: 'VeryDarkMan Wanted To Sleep With Me” – Phyna by Abemy(m): 1:56pm On May 25
I cant explain why I dislike this man with passion, but something tell me he is not whom people take him to be. My instinct doesn't lie to me. I have never been his family for a day. And I hope, whether Phyna lied or not, he will be exposed soon.
BusinessRe: The Dishonesty And Fraudulence Of My Bank by Abemy(m): 1:42pm On May 25
No
Splendour99:
Dear all,

GTB has a reputation to be a bank of integrity, and I used to believe that they are. However, recent issues have made me seriously question their honesty as a bank.

This issue is so long and disheartening, but I am giving them some grace before I expose them. I am sure they will read this and be alarmed.

So let me wait a while before I relate my encounter with their branch at Ojodu.

...to be continued.[url][/url]
A bank with which integrity?

A bank that created an account for me without my request, which has gone ahead to send me the account number and asked me to found the account. After several requests for them to deactivate the account to no avail, I let the matter slide for now, I will definitely take it up, when I am financially ready.
PoliticsRe: Nasarawa APC: Address Irregularities Or I Contest Under Another Party - Adamu by Abemy(m): 7:19pm On May 23
I'm
fergie001:
Total no of cities in Nasarawa APC Governorship Primary: Sen. Wadada: 195,285 Votes,
Ex-IGP Adamu: 39,675 Votes

https://blueprint.ng/2027-nasarawa-governirship-election-ex-igp-adamu-may-leave-apc-if/
A product of the Nigerian police to rescue and reposition a state😂🤣😂😂
TravelRe: This Expression Can Send You To Jail Abroad As A Nigerian by Abemy(m): 7:29pm On May 22
Rapmoney:
Never use this expression: 'I flashed her' or 'I flashed him' when you find yourself in a country where standard English is spoken. Examples are the United Kingdom, US, Australia, Canada, etc.

REASON: It might be a slang for saying you called someone and hang up quickly for them to call you back in Nigeria, but in these countries, it means to show someone your unclothedness or nude, which is a very serious crime

WHAT TO SAY INSTEAD: The standard English for that expression is 'I gave him or her a missed call' or 'I gave him or her a quick ring'.

I hope you have learnt something today?
Or a "droped call"
PoliticsRe: 2027: Why Opposition Parties Should Rethink Zoning Presidency To South – Atiku by Abemy(m): 9:50am On May 16
soccerlite:
Voodoo experience, it doesn't hold verifiable ground

Atiku Abubakar isn't buhari
Buhari is just one of the few examples. I have this experience from councillorship to presidential office.
PoliticsRe: 2027: Why Opposition Parties Should Rethink Zoning Presidency To South – Atiku by Abemy(m): 11:55am On May 15
soccerlite:
He's not crude, tribalised, rigid and bigoted

He's not a godfather, doesn't holds any state to ransome, those not run a cartel

Atiku Abubakar will be better
Experience has shown that those who vie for an office for more than thrice doesn't perform when they finally win.

Atiku is in this league
PoliticsRe: 2027: Why Opposition Parties Should Rethink Zoning Presidency To South – Atiku by Abemy(m): 10:30am On May 14
soccerlite:
Contestant in chief is no crime

As far as he means well

And he means well
I doubt it, if he mean well.
PoliticsRe: 2027: Why Opposition Parties Should Rethink Zoning Presidency To South – Atiku by Abemy(m): 11:21am On May 13
soccerlite:
Liar

Pdp didn't zone 2023 to South. it wanted
but Atiku said it should then be SE, since the last PDP president was from ss

They now said it should be open

Since wike knew it will not work for him
+++++

For your ignorant dollarisation comment,


Only Atiku has monopoly of dollars, wike, obi, etc don't

So where did wike get dollars to buy properties for his family in US

Come up with another voodoo comments
The constitution recognizes North and south, and nothing else. Atiku may likely not be Nigerian president, he is the contestant in chief though.
CareerRe: Worker Receives N25m Compensation After Losing Arm In Lagos Factory Accident by Abemy(m): 2:55pm On May 12
GanagiBitrus:
Some people may not mind losing an arm for ₦25m.
A cow doesn't value its tail until it loses it.
PoliticsRe: 2027: Why Opposition Parties Should Rethink Zoning Presidency To South – Atiku by Abemy(m): 1:59pm On May 11
SlavaUkraini:
https://dailypost.ng/2026/05/11/2027-why-opposition-parties-should-rethink-zoning-presidency-to-south-atiku/
The perpetual contestant should be ignored. He admitted in an interview that only the PDP has a zoning arrangement in the constitution, but when the same PDP zoned the 2023 presidential election to the south, he refused and instead, dollarised the process and hijacked it.

He is now spinning a s different narrative.
PoliticsRe: Goodluck Jonathan Registers Party Membership With Turaki-led PDP by Abemy(m): 11:24am On May 10
jchioma:
2027 election go sweet o!

Imagine a 4 man race for the presidency!

Atiku - ADC
Tinubu- APC
Obi - NDC
GEJ - PDP

ATOG of war 😂

Which position would your favorite candidate be?
ADC will not be on the ballot
PoliticsRe: NDC Zones Presidency To South for 2027, North (2031 - ?) (video) by Abemy(m): 8:30pm On May 09
We have forgotten that Kwankwaso is the initiator os Sharia courts and Islamic police in Nigeria?

We are roo emotional.
PoliticsRe: Kwakwanso Dragged, Snatched NDC Party Card From Peter Obi (Video/Photo) by Abemy(m): 9:50pm On May 04
Is Dickson from Delta State?
CareerRe: Work Place Accusation by Abemy(m): 11:29am On May 03
franvincoop:
You are a thief.
Just prepare for watery beans or take that money japa to another State.
The way you laid out the specific guidance you need, shows a level of Intelligence to steal with plausible deniability
🤣🤣🤣🤣
FamilyRe: Who Should I Give the Money, The Wife, Sibling,Mother Or Charity - Advise Needed by Abemy(m): 10:57am On Apr 29
Onegai:
Nna2025

I will second this.

Go to a trusted Financial House (Vetiva comes to mind) and ask for advice to set up a Trust fund for the kids (you'll need their Mother to be involved for legal ID purposes). So quietly do your findings and see if she will demand the money instead.

Secondly, ask a Lawyer if they can help draft a document that shows the proceeds of the sale to directly benefit the kids and then head to the investment section of a bank like Stanbic IBTC and ask them to set up a MMF account for the kids. Then contact the Mother (because they need legal ID documents from her, like passport photo and Nigerian passport plus her signature if the kids are minors). But let the lawyer be involved.

Finally if the mother is acting up, tell her it was your friend's verbal wish for the money to be set up like that but since verbal agreements don't stand up in court, you'll locate his family and give them the money and she can go and collect it from them

(That final piece should make her rethink any bad decisions). Hopefully the mother of his kids has sense.

Don't give his family and expect them to do the right thing: I don't know why men keep believing this, do you know how many families screw their nephews and nieces over once money is involved?? Na because nobody wan file go court fight their Uncle and air their dirty laundry.

Even my own, for my Will I picked the richest family members I have (because I no get shishi and they are wealthier than me, infact I beg them for money while I'm alive 😭) so I know they will look at the N60k I'm leaving my 3 kids, sigh 😮‍💨, add more to it and give them as allowance 😁
Note, the money is conteion here is just the commission for bringing a buyer.
Christianity EtcRe: If Kidnappers Pick You Up, Give Them My Number - Bishop David Oyedepo (Video) by Abemy(m): 7:26pm On Apr 24
When is he going to talk to those killing Christians nationwide?
RomanceRe: A Lady Who Rejected A Man's Proposal, Ended Up In His House, He Threw Her Out by Abemy(m): 8:44pm On Apr 23
It's content though. You can hear him directing his guy to bring light, so the camera can capture the kit well.
PoliticsRe: ADC Clinches Senate Principal Office by Abemy(m): 8:07pm On Apr 23
Nwoye is a political sell out.
PoliticsRe: We Receive N1.5m After 35 Years Of Service, Retired Police Officers Lament by Abemy(m): 1:15pm On Apr 18
Let them.make do with the accumulated bribes they've garnered over the years.
PoliticsRe: You Betrayed Atiku, Hurt The North — Nafiu Bala Gombe Hits Kwankwaso by Abemy(m): 5:05pm On Apr 17
Tinubu is well represented in ADC (the other side)
HealthRe: Blessing CEO's Cancer Issue: A Wake-up Call Nigerians Shouldn't Ignore by Abemy(m): 10:14pm On Mar 26
Tomorrow she will release another video, saying she misses her controversial days and as such, did that to stir another controversy
PoliticsRe: Tracy Ohiri: I Was Promised $70k To Retract Claims Against Umahi by Abemy(m): 9:17am On Mar 21
No
classicfrank4u:
Stop saying what you don't know, no exact amount was promised, they only said they were going to give her some money if she retracted her statement.. is $70k not more than the Soo called 25million naira job she claimed she did for the man? The woman is just being greedy
She said her lawyer told her $200k and anther undisclosed sum as compensation was promised her through her lawyer. But the lawyer played her.

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