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PoliticsRe: PDP Condemns Detention Of Social Media Critic Shola Over Criticism Of Kwara Govt by Abeyjide: 10:06pm On Jun 26, 2019
Johnnyessence:
no wonder you jumped from one thread to another defending clueless tyrant buhari. buharideen, your ignorance is beyond redemption. keep it up.
saraki e rat.
CrimeRe: Seven Yahoo Boys And Girl In Kaduna Arrested By EFCC (Photos) by Abeyjide: 7:53pm On Jun 26, 2019
na robbers then be o. They robbed people of their phone.
PoliticsRe: PDP Condemns Detention Of Social Media Critic Shola Over Criticism Of Kwara Govt by Abeyjide: 6:40pm On Jun 26, 2019
Johnnyessence:
Apc hyprocrite, buhari asslicker, bubu e-bird, what has buhari done to your clueless life.
Am concerned about kwara state. saraki e rat
PoliticsRe: PDP Condemns Detention Of Social Media Critic Shola Over Criticism Of Kwara Govt by Abeyjide: 5:58pm On Jun 26, 2019
Johnnyessence:
yes, you are right. that's the reason why the otoge governor want to clamp down social media critics by any means. people will always speak against evil works and bad governance of Apc government.
keep deceiving yourself. saraki e rat
PoliticsRe: House Leadership: PDP Mounts Pressure On Dogara To Accept Minority Leader by Abeyjide: 8:23pm On Jun 19, 2019
Destroyerofyeeb:
But it will give you costumized ikpeazu kerosene like your mothers below grin
You actually served him right.
PoliticsRe: Oyo Speaker, Adebo Ogundoyin At His Hometown, Eruwa After Swearing In by Abeyjide: 11:04pm On Jun 16, 2019
kwara state speaker is 34 years.
FamilyRe: Happy Father's Day! by Abeyjide: 10:01am On Jun 16, 2019
happy father's day
Christianity EtcRe: God's Role In Choice Of A Life Partner And Marriage For Christians by Abeyjide: 9:21am On Jun 16, 2019
Lyoncrescent:
IF you make a wrong choice in marriage, it will affect your destiny and damages incurred are irretrievable. The problem of lack of love in marriage, the issue of marriage infidelity, the matter of the second woman or other man, the weight of distrust in marriage and the fading out of the first love and emotion between a man and his wife, the hard fist of inconsiderate husband and the naggings of a odious wife… all disquiet not only the husband and the wife but the children and the whole earth. However, the family is Gods own idea, it is his own provision for the lonely and the deserted. It is his own mercy towards the man he made, it is not good for man to be alone; I will make him a help meet for him. Gen. 2:18

You need Gods counsel as he’s the one that can see the end from the beginning. The brother or sister you see today, do you know his/her tomorrow? If what a man is today is what he will always be, then we won’t have any problem as what you currently see is what you will always get but it’s not so. Why we are seeking proper guidance before picking a brother or sister is because marriage for us is not in the now but in the future. Marriage is different from pulpit. A brother for example may be speaking in tongues, power preacher or chorister but there is a catch. When a man comes to the pulpit to sing or preach, he becomes another man. It may not be because of him but the prayers of the congregation who have been praying; God speak to us and God wants to speak and even if he finds a goat, God will speak. The point is you don’t marry anointing, you marry a man. If what you saw on stage or on the pulpit is what made you say yes to a brother, you have missed it. It means you are marrying performance. There is the case of a brother who was a strong Christian and teacher in his campus fellowship days. His friend from campus, a preacher visited him after some years and the now married brothers’ wife confessed that her husband the brother beats her a lot. The preacher found it strange as back then in their campus fellowship days this brother was a gentle man and quiet. The gentility you see in a man when he’s not married is untested gentility.. The problem is choice and principles of Christian marriage. If the foundation be shaken what can the righteous. The choice is a bridge between where you are now and your future.

It is amazing that according to the gospel of john, Jesus first miracle to restore and renew was at a marriage at cana when he turned water to wine. The wine had finished and there was confusion and Jesus stepped in at the request of Mary and he performed the miracle. Permit us to look at the reaction of the ruler of the feast after the miracle: “when the ruler of the feast had tasted the water that was made wine, and knew not whence it was (but the servants which drew the water knew), the governor of the feast called the bridegroom and saith unto him, every man at the beginning doth set forth good wine; and when men have well drunk, then that which is worse; but thou kept the good wine till now”John 2:9-10

Every man at the beginning…

Most marriages in shambles today didn’t begin that way. The man and the woman may have been showering themselves with love and care at the beginning. Planning weddings and engagement and superb promises and all but after some time issues arise and the love fades and challenges come. Every man… there is no exception. Only men who are linked with Jesus, the source of life and joy can still have fresh wine long after their beginnings. Every man tries his best at the beginning; Good wine is set forth while watery wine is kept for other days .

When men are well drunk…

This is the nature of humans. Most started their marriage with intoxication. Both men and women are experts in setting forth good wine at the beginning by putting forth their best behaviors while the relationship last until they are both well drunk.

Then what which is worse…

When the good wine is finished, and then set forth that which is worse. This is what every man does except there is divine input from the lord Jesus. This is why homes that began with great hope suddenly collapse. The complex thing is men and women are unpredictable. Some would have loved to set forth good wine still but it has finished. I Must Say unto you only Christ can keep the supply of divine freshness in any relationship.

In Gods mind, he is creating something in you that can meet the need of something in that brother or sisters life so that both of you can fulfill the will of GOD. Brothers and sisters, you don’t fit everybody, anywhere, anytime.Not every sister you see in the road is your size. The girl you are running after now may be undersize, and thus you need to wait for God to give you your own size. Under size like an under size shoe pinches and such shoes can be removed due to discomfort but not marriage. Trust GOD to make a choice for you. Don’t let your heart move if it is not GOD that has moved in it.

It is not good for you to be alone, but if GOD has not said it specifically to you, it’s better to be alone. Some of you have entered into courtship too early because you chose yourself. As GOD said it to Adam, he has to say it to you specifically that it is not good for you to be alone because GODs time is the best time. Don’t let pressures push you. GOD has time for every one of us and it’s when GOD has said it’s not good for you to be alone, he will move and provide you your help meet but generally what happens is peer pressure that makes you want to be hooked to someone when GOD has not spoken.

You are not just brought together because it is the tradition to marry, it was a need in GODS heart that brought marriage to the fore, you also must identify the mandate on your lives for which GOD has provided your marriage to fulfill. Sister you need to recognize and discover GODS plan and expectation for the brother you have married or intend to marry and throw all you have physically and spiritually into laboring with him to accomplish it and form an unbreakable cord in spiritual warfare. Marriage is a relationship for a purpose and will of GOD for you; there is something GOD wants to do in your life and he needs your helpmeet(not help mate) to help you fulfil it. The grace of GOD in your life and spiritual gift GOD has given you may seem self sufficient just for you but that grace and gift has been tailor made to fit into someone’s life with whom you will be able to fulfill the purpose of GOD hence choice is critical. It is not just to see a man and say he is good. You need to ask what he is meant to achieve in life that I need to be a help meet for.

Only GOD has the dimension of your life in hand so when he makes a partner for you he does so with your dimension in mind and GOD is not only building the dimension for the present, he also knows the elastic limit; your expansion. When GOD is bringing you a wife he brings one with knowledge of your elastic limit. He knows this man will expand in future and will bring a woman that can expand with him so that as the man is growing, the wife is growing so that at every time it is fitting at almost every point ; if it fits now it will fit in 40 years time because of the elastic limit GOD has added. The unfortunate thing is this, people are only looking at who fits them now and don’t consider their elastic expansion. So when the years come and there is no fitting as one expands while the other doesn’t grow accordingly. When GOD makes he takes into consideration all the circumstances of your growth and challenges and all that will have ever happen, he puts them together. When GOD makes a woman for a woman GOD has put all the man will need in the womans life. There are some people that fit you today but in a few years they won’t fit you. The reason you need GOD to make the choice is because GOD makes our partners tailor made. When it comes to the matter of choice it is critical, don’t just choose based on feelings and physical attractions or financial benefits but let GOD choose for you. GOD bless you. This message is based on some of the teachings i have heard from brother gbile akanni and some of his books. Later i will be sharing some of the messages that can help us and my own personal testimony regarding this message i posted and the impact it has had on my life.
God bless you OP. lovely and eye opening. I enjoyed reading it.
SportsRe: Lampard To Become Chelsea’s New Boss by Abeyjide: 8:20pm On Jun 14, 2019
hisexcellency34:
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why korede bello. in Ada ada video
SportsRe: Lampard To Become Chelsea’s New Boss by Abeyjide: 8:18pm On Jun 14, 2019
Wish him well
PoliticsRe: Bukola Saraki Meets Masai Ujiri, President Of Toronto Raptors In Canada by Abeyjide: 8:25pm On Jun 13, 2019
he can go anywhere he likes
PoliticsRe: 9th NASS: Forces That Pulled Victory For Lawan, Gbajabiamila by Abeyjide: 4:18pm On Jun 12, 2019
greedy ekweremadu
PoliticsRe: Buhari’s Democracy Day Speech, June 12, 2019 by Abeyjide: 3:21pm On Jun 12, 2019
I knew he will give his speech today before some people started shouting unnecessarily on May 29
PoliticsRe: Bukola Saraki Turns NBA Fan, Shows Support To Toronto Raptors by Abeyjide: 10:22am On Jun 12, 2019
myddmodnabastard:
ordinary saraki shoe is far better than your father,mother,your nuclear and extended family, your village king,your village people and your entire generation both past and upcoming one useless ediot
comparing shoe to a whole human life shows you are a terrorist. why blame those that killed fellow human being.
PoliticsRe: Bukola Saraki Turns NBA Fan, Shows Support To Toronto Raptors by Abeyjide: 10:20am On Jun 12, 2019
orion7:
see them. non of you can lace his shoes. dirty children of buhari make una go baff first
stop downgrading urself.
PoliticsRe: Okorocha Thanks INEC For Issuing Certificate Of Return by Abeyjide: 8:01am On Jun 12, 2019
akdjr:
A man that was supposed to fight for DSP.
They intentionally locked him out
PoliticsRe: Buhari Message To Newly Sworn In Officers Of 9th National Assembly & Legislators by Abeyjide: 6:48am On Jun 12, 2019
nice one. I await his speech today
PoliticsRe: Saraki Congratulates Lawan, Omo-Agege, Femi Gbajabiamila, Idris Wase by Abeyjide: 9:40pm On Jun 11, 2019
ex Senate President . nothing last for ever . see how time flies. reality is dawn on him.
PoliticsRe: #8thsenatevaledictory: See How Nigerians Reacted As Saraki-led Senate Ends Today by Abeyjide: 9:17pm On Jun 06, 2019
Justiceleague1:
The downfall of a man is not the end of his life.

The enemies of Nigeria worked against saraki.

Quit worrying over saraki,worry over the armed licensed to kill Fulani herdsmen in your backwards
saraki is the enemy of himself. kwara is wise and am happy I voted against him.
PoliticsRe: Jimi Agbaje, Ogunlewe, Others Returned To APC Where They Belong – Bode George by Abeyjide: 9:50am On Jun 05, 2019
most of them will soon cross over to APC
PoliticsRe: Newly Governor Approved Construction of Airport As First Project - Nigerians Rea by Abeyjide: 10:20am On Jun 02, 2019
grandstar:
Airport? Waste of resources

There's just not sufficient demand to sustain the airport. If it's private financed, better as that will save the state much needed funds better spent on more urgent needs.
He should ask fayose on his planned airport.
SportsRe: Liverpool Players Put Coach On Their Shoulder And Dragged To Celebrate With Fans by Abeyjide: 8:30am On Jun 02, 2019
Europa league final was more interesting than this champions league final
PoliticsRe: Emir Sanusi Absent From Ganduje’s Inauguration by Abeyjide: 1:38pm On May 29, 2019
festacman:
Gov. Ganduje sure has his demons like all us do but it is unfair for a young man to carelessly tag him an illiterate. Gov. Ganduje worked hard for his doctorate degree from prestigious University of Ibadan in 1993. He speaks better English than 'grammatical impossibilities' many young graduates write as comments these days. It is OK to hunt for 'likes' but a little bit of decorum won't hurt.
You are right. he was my father' course mate in ABU zaria. my Dad also testified to what you said.
PoliticsRe: President Buhari Arrives Eagle Square For His Inauguration by Abeyjide: 10:49am On May 29, 2019
No be saraki be that?
PoliticsRe: Tinubu, Gowon, Others Arrive At Eagle Square For Pre. Buhari's Inauguration by Abeyjide: 10:11am On May 29, 2019
kaen1317:
I pray that all yhe killing should stop but it seems government is overwhelmed. May God help us.
It will definitely stop cos those wicked politicians behind it knew no other term for Buhari again but my fear is towards another election time.
PoliticsRe: What Area Do You Think Improved The Most Under Buhari Administration? by Abeyjide: 9:44am On May 29, 2019
i want him improve on security, unemployment and power. he tried in infrastructure aspect especially road.
PoliticsRe: Ajimobi Leaving Oyo Government House After Handover (Photo) by Abeyjide: 9:39am On May 29, 2019
reality now down on him.
PoliticsRe: Amosun Reads News With Kemi Ewedairo Yusuph, Sings Out As Governor Of Ogun by Abeyjide: 9:16am On May 29, 2019
waiting for our own maigida akmed of kwara. raining here in ilorin and washing away the bad and wicked era of saraki dynasty.
TravelRe: The Current Status Of Kano 3 In 1 Underpass And Flyover (Pics) by Abeyjide: 7:51pm On May 28, 2019
FriendNG:
You don't have to compare it with Kwara state. The economy of Kano State is bigger than that of any northern state.
yes I agree but what is worth doing is worth doing well. I was at that gari alimi under pass today,I felt like crying. the governor need to cover his face.
TravelRe: The Current Status Of Kano 3 In 1 Underpass And Flyover (Pics) by Abeyjide: 7:20pm On May 28, 2019
Please is this not better compare to kwara state underpass? is a big shame for kwara state goverment.
TravelRe: Ilorin Geri Alimi Underpass And Flyover Current Status (Photos And Video) by Abeyjide: 7:09pm On May 28, 2019
post=78804207:
Beautiful scenes....
please are you in ilorin? if you are, you won t say beautiful

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