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Romance / Re: Is It Possible To Love 2 Guys Or Girls At The Same Time ?? by abignamedj(m): 2:30pm On Feb 20, 2006
I KNOW its possible to love 2 people at the same time, I have the misfortune of this predicament at present, which is why i googled the topic and ended up here with you lovely people.

here's my take on it:
Contrary to what some of you have said, in my opinion, love isn't a cup you fill with emotion, love is a colour you see which fills YOU with emotion. You can't describe your love for someone, or even something, quantifyably. Nor is it something you only have a predetermined amount of which you need to carefully devide between your loved ones. How can you say "I love you 48%, but im afraid or big winner today is YOU, with 52%! Wheyhey!!"

Thats rediculous.

Being inlove with someone is the way you feel at one with them. In that you know somewhere, sometime, you have already loved this person and know all there is to know about them from some past life. Your souls are connected.

HOWEVER - and here in lies the problem (in my case specifically) - sometimes you love someone and know them uterly but find yourself interested in something bewildering and altogether new. Why is that? Your exploration reveals facination, facination quickly grows into a slight hint of an emotion, and then its all down hill (or uphill) from there.

The innitial colour fills you with knowing. insight. happyness. The new colour, you also love now, fills you with the same emotions. Their shades may be different. The emotions may be differnt, but remember this is not a point scoring game. This is flavour, touch, smell, these things CANT be scored and so you can't love one more than the other. And so, you love them both, deeply.

now what the hell do i do?

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